Mary Allen
Kugwirizana kolimba ndi galu si chinthu chodabwitsa chokha, kumapangitsanso kukhala kosavuta kuyanjana ndi kulimbikitsa kumvera kwa bwenzi la miyendo inayi. Apa mutha kudziwa momwe mungalimbikitsire kumvetsetsana komanso ubale ndi okondedwa anu.
Ngati ubale ndi mnzake wa miyendo inayi umadziwika ndi kukhulupirirana ndi chikondi, kulankhulana kumagwira ntchito mosavuta ndipo mgwirizano ndi galu umakhala wamphamvu. Izi si zabwino zokha kumverera, koma imathandizanso pophunzitsa agalu. Chifukwa: Chiweto chomwe chimakhulupirira mwiniwake zana limodzi pa zana chimatenga nawo mbali mu maphunzirowa ndi chisangalalo chochuluka pakuphunzira ndi kulimbikitsidwa ndikumvetsera mofunitsitsa kwa mwiniwake. Choncho ndi bwino kumanga ubale wabwino ndi galu.
Kupititsa patsogolo Chigwirizano Pakati pa Galu & Mwini: Ndi Maphunziro Omvera
Ubale ndi galu umalimbikitsa kulankhulana kumbali imodzi, koma ukhoza kulimbikitsidwa mwa kumvetsetsana kwina. Mutha kuyeseza seweroli limodzi ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima panthawiyi maphunziro omvera.
“Kuphunzitsa kumvera,” koma sikuti galu wanu amangotsatira malamulo basi. M'malo mwake, inu ndi chiweto chanu mudzaphunzira kukhulupirirana wina ndi mnzake ndikumvetsetsa chilankhulo cha wina ndi mnzake.
Galu wanu amamvetsetsa zomwe mukuyembekezera kwa iye pamene mumuuza malamulo ena ndi kusonyeza thupi lapadera. Mukhoza kumudziwa bwino bwenzi lanu la miyendo inayi pang'onopang'ono, kumasulira zizindikiro zake, kudziyika nokha mu nsapato zake - ndi kupanga malamulo anu m'njira yoti mnzanu wa miyendo inayi amvetsetse: momveka bwino, mosakayikira, komanso mosasintha.
Masewera ena agalu ndi zosangalatsa zimalimbitsanso ubale ndi agalu: Agalu akuvina, Mwachitsanzo, kupuma or Kuyenda limodzi kumakufikitsani pafupi wina ndi mnzake.
Kodi Mungalimbitse Bwanji Ubale Ndi Galu? Thandizo la Masewera & Zolimbitsa Thupi
Agalu akhala akuwetedwa kuti azigwira ntchito limodzi ndi anthu m'mbiri yawo yakale yoweta. Chifukwa chake, amafunikira ntchito zomwe angathe kuthana nazo limodzi ndi mbuye wawo kapena mbuye wawo. Ndi ntchito ziti zimadalira mtundu wa agalu ndi umunthu wa bwenzi la miyendo inayi. Kaya galu wosaka, nyama, kapena lap galu - bwenzi lililonse la miyendo inayi amayamikira masewera oyenera ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi. Pamene galu ali wouma khosi, wodziyimira pawokha, komanso wanzeru, ndikofunikira kwambiri kukhala ndi maola akusewera limodzi komwe kumalimbikitsa maluso ake popanda kumuwonjezera msonkho.
Ngati bwenzi lanu la miyendo inayi likuganiza kuti akhoza kusangalala popanda inu ndi kutsata zokonda zake bwino, mwina sangakumvetsereni bwino ndipo adzapeza njira yakeyake. Iye samachita izi kuti akukwiyitseni, koma chifukwa khalidwe la kusamvera limakhala lopindulitsa komanso lomasuka kwa iye.
By kusewera masewera pamodzi zomwe zimamuchitira chilungamo, mutha kumuwonetsa kuti amasangalala ndi inu kuposa yekha. Khalani omasuka kuyesa kuti ndi ntchito iti yomwe imalimbikitsa bwenzi lanu la miyendo inayi kwambiri. Masewera ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe nonse mumakonda ndi abwino kwambiri. Kotero inu mukhoza kuphunzitsa ena agalu zidule, ena amakonda kubwezeretsa or mphuno ntchito.
Kupanga Chikhulupiliro Kupyolera mu Malamulo Okhazikika & Kusasinthasintha
Ngakhale kuti agalu ndi nyama zanzeru, amatha kumvetsa chinenero cha anthu pamlingo winawake. Liwu la mawu, chilankhulo cha thupi, ndipo chizindikiro cha lamulo chiyenera kukhala chofanana nthawi zonse ndi kugwirizana kuti bwenzi la miyendo inayi liwerenge zomwe mukuyembekezera kwa iye. Apo ayi, mudzasokoneza galu wanu ndikumusokoneza. Makamaka mukapanda chipiriro ndi kukwiya chifukwa satsatira lamulo lanu. Chikhulupiriro sichingamangidwe motero.
Ngati mukufuna kulimbitsa mgwirizano ndi galu wanu, muyenera kukhala odziwikiratu momwe mungathere ndi mnzanu wamiyendo inayi. Mumakwaniritsa izi mwa kusasinthika, kumveka bwino, komanso kusatsimikizika m'malamulo ndi miyambo.
Khazikitsani malamulo okhwima okhudza nthawi yachakudya, mayendedwe, nthawi yosewera, nthawi yopuma, komanso yodzikongoletsa yomwe mumatsatira ngati kuli kotheka. Chizoloŵezi ichi sichotopetsa kwa galu wanu koma chimamupatsa dongosolo lomwe angagwiritse ntchito poyang'ana ndi zomwe angadalire. Mwanjira imeneyi amadzimva kukhala osungika ndipo amadziŵa kuti ali m’manja mwanu.
Lemekezani Galu & Zosowa Zake
Ulemu ndi kulemekezana ziyenera kukhala zogwirizana muubwenzi wa anthu ndi agalu. Phunzirani kutanthauzira molondola chinenero cha thupi ndi khalidwe la galu ndi kuzindikira zosowa za mnzanu wa miyendo inayi. Mwanjira imeneyi, mutha kusintha maphunzirowo ndi maola akusewera kuti akhale mawonekedwe a bwenzi lanu lanyama patsiku ndikupeza malire oyenera pakati pa kufunafuna movutikira komanso mopitilira muyeso mosavuta.
Ngati bwenzi lanu lapamtima la miyendo inayi likuwoneka anatsindika kapena kuchita mantha, khalani bata ndikukhala mwala wanu wolimba. Ndiye taganizani za chomwe chikuvutitsa galu wanu ndi momwe mungathetsere vutoli.