Mary Allen
Ndi chiyani chomwe chili chabwino kuposa kugawana moyo ndi galu? - Zachidziwikire: kugawana ndi agalu awiri kapena kupitilira apo! Komabe, kusunga agalu angapo nthawi imodzi kumatanthauzanso ntchito yambiri komanso kukonzekera. Choncho ndikofunikira kufotokozera zinthu zingapo pasadakhale kuti palibe chomwe chingasokoneze moyo womasuka pamodzi.
Uyenera Kukhala Mtundu Uti?
Mungafune kuti galu wanu wachiwiri akhale mtundu wosiyana ndi galu wanu woyamba. Ndiye funso limabuka kuti liyenera kukhala chiyani. Kusankhidwa kwa mitundu ya agalu ndikokulirapo, mawonekedwe amtundu wamtunduwu ndi wosiyana kwambiri, ndipo mitundu yosakanizika ndi yabwinonso: Chifukwa chake mwawonongeka kuti musankhe.
Ndibwino kuti muzidzitsogolera nokha pa bwenzi lanu la miyendo inayi: makhalidwe awo ndi otani? Kodi ali wokangalika, wokonzeka kusewera? Otsegukira kwa alendo kapena m'malo mwamanyazi? Mukangoganizira galu wanu woyamba, mudzatha kuweruza zomwe mukufuna kuchokera kwa galu wachiwiri. Mwinamwake mukufuna kuti iye akope “woyamba” kuchoka m’malo ake, kukhala chitsanzo chodzilamulira, cholimba m’dera linalake. Kapena ayenera kukhala mnzake wapamtima komanso bwenzi. Ngati mukufuna kuchita masewera agalu kapena kukhala ndi mnzanu wosaka nyama, funso la mtunduwo ndilosavuta pang'ono, chifukwa muli ndi mitundu yapadera m'maganizo yomwe ili yoyenera kwambiri pazochitikazo.
Ganizirani mozama za chisankho cha galu wanu wachiwiri ndikusankhanso zofuna za galu wanu woyamba, kuti asasokonezedwe kwathunthu ndi mkhalidwe watsopano, komanso akhoza kuchita chinachake ndi bwenzi lake latsopano. Kulowa uku kungakhale kosavuta ngati agalu awiriwo sali osiyana kwambiri, koma ali ndi zosowa zofanana. Kupanda kutero, galuyo amatha kuthamangitsa mwachangu galu yemwe amayenda momasuka komanso amakhala ndi chidwi chochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, mwachitsanzo, ngati mwadzidzidzi amayenera kuyenderana ndi husky yemwe akufuna kuyenda makilomita angapo tsiku lililonse.
Wamwamuna kapena wamkazi?
Funso linanso lochititsa chidwi limabuka pankhani ya jenda. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zowona kuti galu wamwamuna ndi wamkazi amalumikizana bwino. Koma samalani: ngati agalu onse awiri ali bwino, muyenera kuganizira mozama za momwe kukhalira limodzi panthawi ya kutentha kumayendetsedwa! Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, sizili choncho kuti agalu aamuna amakhala ovuta kwambiri kuposa agalu aakazi ndi anzawo. “Ubwenzi waukulu wa amuna” ungayambikenso pakati pa amuna aŵiri! Galu yemwe amapita bwino ndi mnzake amakhalanso payekha. Choncho ndi bwino kuona galu wanu woyamba kudziwa ngati ndi zimene amakonda. Ndi agalu ati amene amacheza nawo bwino kwambiri? Ndipo ndi ziti zomwe zingayambitse mikangano? Zimamveka bwino ngati galu wanu wachiwiri akuyenda bwino ndi galu wanu woyamba. Izi zimawonjezera mwayi woti "nyumba yogawana" ikhale yolumikizana kwenikweni.
Ndikofunika kuti mupatse agalu anu nthawi. Musamayembekezere kuti adzakhala pamodzi mubasiketi pakatha sabata kapena kukhudzana pamene akugona. Ngakhale aliyense wa agalu wanu ayenera malo awo m'masiku oyambirira ndi pafupifupi kunyalanyaza mnzake wa miyendo inayi, izo sizikutanthauza kuti sadzakhala bwino kwambiri wina ndi mzake mu masabata angapo kapena chaka. Malingana ngati palibe chiwawa champhamvu chomwe chingawavulaze, zonse ziri zachilendo panopa. Pali kusiyana pang'ono pamalingaliro ndipo palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa. Komabe, ngati simukutsimikiza, funsani uphungu kwa wophunzitsa agalu wodalirika, wodziŵa zambiri kuti aunike bwino mkhalidwewo.
Kodi Kusiyana Kwa Zaka Kuyenera Kukhala Motani?
Akhale galu kapena galu wamkulu? Ili mwina ndi funso losangalatsa kwambiri! Ngati galu wanu woyamba ali wamkulu kale, kagalu kapena galu wamng'ono akhoza kumugonjetsa, koma mwinanso kumulimbikitsa pang'ono. Ngati, kumbali ina, ali muuchikulire, angamve “kuchotsedwa pampando wachifumu” ndi galu wa msinkhu womwewo kapena wokulirapo pang’ono. Funso lina lomwe liyenera kuganiziridwa payekha kuchokera kwa galu kupita kwa galu, ngakhale kuti zimalimbikitsidwa kugwira ntchito ndi galu woyamba pa malo akuluakulu omangamanga asanawonjezere wina. Ngati yoyamba ili kunja kwa zovuta ndipo palibenso mavuto mu maphunziro ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, palibe chomwe chimayima pambali yachiwiri.
Kuthekera kwina kungakhale kutenga ana agalu awiri pachinyala chimodzi. Limenelo ndi lingaliro labwino, koma lidzafuna khama lalikulu ndi kuleza mtima. Kupatula apo, mukukumana ndi vuto lobweretsa agalu awiri kudzera muubwana ndi maphunziro oyambira nthawi imodzi, kuti mukhale ndi "opusa" awiri amphamvu kunyumba pakapita nthawi. Kodi ndinu wokonzeka kapena wokhoza kusonkhanitsa mphamvu zofunika, nthawi, ndi kupirira? Mwatsoka, awiri littermates sizikutanthauza theka ntchito, koma kawirikawiri kawiri ntchito.
Ngati pali mwayi woti agalu onse adziwane kale, mwayi umenewu uyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito. Ngati onse awiri amakumana kangapo ndipo mwina kupita koyenda pamodzi pa leash, tsogolo losunthira galu "watsopano" likhoza kukhala lomasuka. Apatseni mpata wokwanira agalu anu kuti azolowerane ndi vuto latsopanoli. Poyamba, khalani patali pamene onse akumana koyamba koyenda ndipo muchepetse mukawona kuti onse ali omasuka kwambiri. M’nyumba, agalu onse awiri ayenera kukhala ndi malo othawirako kuti azitha kupewa nthawi iliyonse. Mwanjira iyi, vuto lomwe likhoza kukulirakulira chifukwa galu sangathe kutulukamo ndipo amamva kuti ali wokakamizidwa sawuka. Muyeneranso kulabadira izi podyetsa ndi kupanga malo okwanira pakati pa agalu awiriwa kuti nkhanza za chakudya zisakhale nkhani.
Mukhoza kupeza zambiri pa mutu wa "agalu angapo umwini" ndi mfundo zofunika kuziganizira posankha galu wachiwiri pano. Ngati muyang'anitsitsa abwenzi anu a miyendo inayi ndikumvetsera zinthu izi, kukhala pamodzi ndi achibale anu kudzakhala kodabwitsa. Tikukufunirani nthawi yabwino komanso yopumula ya "kukula limodzi"!