Mary Allen
Anthu okhala mumzinda makamaka amakhala ndi chikumbumtima choipa nthawi ndi nthawi chifukwa nthawi zonse amayenera kusunga "mphaka wosauka" "wotsekedwa". Kapena amadzikana chimwemwe cha mnzawo wapanyumba kuti amupulumutse moyo "wosakhala wachirengedwe".
Chifukwa amangotuluka, kuthamanga, kugwira mbewa, kapena chilichonse chomwe ungachite ngati mphaka. Chabwino…anayesa zonse ziwiri, koma palibe kuyerekeza? Koma. Mutuwu ukhoza kugawanitsa mtunduwu chifukwa chakuti amphaka am'nyumba amakhala ndi nthawi yotsimikizika ya moyo yomwe imakhala yowirikiza kawiri ngati amphaka kunja nthawi zambiri amakhala opanda ntchito pankhani ya funso: kumangidwa m'nyumba, leash yaitali (munda), kapena moyo waufupi? "Kuliko kufupi ndi kukondwa" nthawi zambiri kumamveka popanda munthu kudziwa kuti "kufupikitsa" kungakhale kotani. Eni amphaka angapo ataya kale okondedwa awo ali aang'ono, ndipo kwa amphaka ambiri, chinthu chimodzi ndichosalimba: ayi, konse. Tsopano, ndani ali ndi mikangano yabwinoko?
Chipinda Chotsutsana ndi Kufikira Kwaulere
Amphaka amasangalala kwambiri kuyendayenda kunja, kugwira mbewa, ndi kuzidya (kapena kuzipereka kwa anthu). Amakonda kuchita chilichonse chomwe akufuna. Maluso onse amtundu wawo komanso kuti sangachite chimodzimodzi m'nyumbamo amatsitsimutsidwanso mosakhalitsa. Amphaka "saiwala", amasintha. Izi zakhala mphamvu zawo zopambana kwazaka masauzande ambiri, zomwe zatsimikizira kupulumuka kwawo, limodzi ndi izi, ngakhale zili zonse, osadzitaya okha. Ndicho chifukwa chake amphaka am'nyumba amatha kukhala okondwa kwambiri - "osiyana" okha.
Wa Misala Wamba
Chifukwa ndi wokonda mphaka uti sadziwa mphindi zodziwika "zisanu" pazochitika zatsiku ndi tsiku za paw ya velvet m'nyumba? Amathamanga mwachangu momwe angathere, kutembenuza makabati m'mwamba ndi pansi, ndikuchita zanzeru pamtengo wokanda - kutengera mtundu ndi kulemera kwankhondo, nyumba yonseyo imakhala njira yolimbitsa thupi, njira yachinsinsi yoseweretsa makapeti owunjika. Ndipo zonse popanda tsamba la udzu, popanda maluwa, tchire, mitengo, ndi agulugufe. Sipangakhale funso la kutaya ...
Kwanga Ndi Nyumba Yanga
Eni amphaka samangofunika kudyetsa anzawo amiyendo inayi bwino komanso moyenera, amaonetsetsa kuti amatha kusangalala ndi chakudya chawo mwamtendere ndikuchita bizinesi yawo mosadodometsedwa, kuwakumbatira, kuwaweta ndi kuwasamalira mosamala, komanso kuyang'anira thanzi lawo, positi yokanda bwino kwambiri yokhala ndi zosangalatsa zamitundu yonse - kuphatikiza chimodzi/zochepa zingapo - kugula - eni amphaka ayeneranso - m'lingaliro lenileni la mawuwo - asiye velvet paw "kukhala moyo".
Izi zikutanthauza kuti: Tiyenera kusintha moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku ndi nyumba yathu kuti tili ndi mphaka - nyama yomwe ili ndi zosowa zapadera (ngakhale zosavuta kukwaniritsa) ndipo ingapeze ntchito yosiyana ndi yomwe timagwiritsira ntchito. Ndipo kuti tidziwe zomwe zosowazi zingawonekere, tiyenera kuyesa kupeza zomwe zimapanga amphaka ambiri - koma athu makamaka - tick, chifukwa onse ndi oyambirira.
pempho
Amphaka ayenera ndi kufuna kukhala okondedwa omwe (ayenera) amangosiyana ndi abwenzi a miyendo iwiri malinga ndi kulingalira ndi ufulu womwe uyenera kuperekedwa kwa iwo ndi zomwe zimayenera kukhala pamodzi. Pamene kuli kwakuti iwo kaŵirikaŵiri amatumikira monga choloŵa m’malo mwa chinthu chimene moyo wakana ife, palibe cholakwika ndi zimenezo— bola ngati timawalemekeza ndi kuwachitira monga iwo. Ndiye bwenzi la miyendo inayi lidzakhala bwino, lidzamva bwino, lidzakhutitsidwa ndi kukondwa ndipo osaphonya kalikonse. Chifukwa ndife anthu okha amene timalakalaka zinthu zimene sitikuzidziwa kapena sitinazionepo. Sikokwanira ngati chifukwa chokanira amphaka "ufulu wagolide"? Sikuti kambuku aliyense wa sofa angasangalale kusintha izi, komanso chisangalalo chowopsa komanso chokayikitsa chaufulu ndi ulendo wake wokhala ndi nyumba yotetezeka komanso munthu wachikondi, womvetsetsa yemwe amalola kuti zikhale momwe zilili: mphaka.