Mary Allen
“Kwenikweni, ndingakonde kukhala ndi galu. Koma popeza ine ndi mwamuna wanga timagwira ntchito nthawi zonse, mwatsoka sizingatheke. Chifukwa chake tidaganiza zopeza mphaka. ”…
Mukawafunsa anthu kuti amphaka ndi chiyani, yankho nthawi zambiri limakhala ili: Amphaka amakhala odziimira okha ndipo amachita zofuna zawo. Amphaka choncho amangothamanga bwino kwambiri. Mulibe vuto kukhala nokha ndi izo. Choncho amakhala bwino m’mabanja okhala ndi anthu olembedwa ntchito.
Poyeza kulemera pakati pa mphaka ndi galu, palinso chinthu china: Sindiyenera kupita kokayenda ndi mphaka katatu patsiku. Akhoza kukhala yekha tikamapita kutchuthi. Ndipo sitiyenera kuwononga nthawi kapena ndalama pophunzitsa - amphaka sangaphunzitsidwe. – Sichoncho? Sichiganizo chomaliza chokha chomwe chiyenera kuunikanso mozama. Ngati mukuganiza zofananira, chonde werengani.
Mphaka Wodziimira!
Amphaka akhoza kukhala odziimira okha. Ndi alenje abwino kwambiri ndipo amatha kudzisamalira pamalo abwino, makamaka m’miyezi yachilimwe. Koma kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo kuti chithunzi cha mphaka wodziimira payekha chinapangidwa liti? Imeneyi inali nthawi yomwe amphaka sankakhala m'nyumba, koma nthawi zambiri, m'nyumba zafamu, zomwe nkhokwe zake zinali zodzaza ndi nyama zomwe zimasaka.
Choncho amphakawa anali odziimira okha paokha pa moyo wawo. Si kaŵirikaŵiri analinso osagwirizana. Panali kusowa kwa kugwiriridwa mwaubwenzi ndi anthu m'masabata angapo oyambirira a moyo omwe anathera ana amphaka mu chisa chobisika kwinakwake. Chotsatira chake, ambiri mwa amphakawa sankakhulupirira anthu ndipo chifukwa chake sankayika kufunikira kwakukulu kwa kampani yawo. Ndipo zimenezi zimagwiranso ntchito kwa amphaka odalirika kwambiri: Amene amathera mbali yaikulu ya maola awo ali maso podzipezera chakudya kaŵirikaŵiri amakhala ndi cholinga chimodzi chokha akaloŵa m’nyumba, ndicho kugona! Mphaka amene amalowa kuchokera kunja ndikumira molunjika pamalo ogona ena amaoneka kuti alibe chidwi chocheza ndi anthu.
Mphaka Wodziimira ???
Zoonadi, pali amphaka masiku ano omwe amatsogolera moyo wotere, koma kwa ambiri, zenizeni ndizosiyana kwambiri. Choncho, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mobwerezabwereza za mphaka wodziyimira pawokha ndizovuta kugwiritsa ntchito amphaka amakono a m'nyumba. Kunena mosabisa: mphaka wa m’nyumba mwanu alibe ntchito chifukwa sangathe kuchita ntchito yake yaikulu ya chilengedwe, kusaka. Ndipo amadalira kwathunthu inu ndi anthu ena kuti mukwaniritse zosowa zake. Amadalira kudyetsedwa nthawi yabwino komanso kukhala wotanganidwa.
Mphaka Amafuna
Popeza dziko la mphaka wa m'nyumba ndi laling'ono kwambiri ndipo amphaka ambiri mwamwayi amakhala bwino kwambiri masiku ano, amphaka ambiri amkati amapeza anthu awo omwe ali pakati pa chilengedwe chawo. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala naye maola 24 patsiku. Koma akuti amphaka nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zosowa zamphamvu zolumikizana ndi anthu awo.
Kodi mphaka nthawi zambiri amafuna chiyani kwa inu? Kodi amakonda kucheza kwanthawi yayitali? Kodi amakonda kusewera ndi inu? Kodi amakonda kubisala pobisalira nyama pa ndodo, yomwe mumamusunthira moleza mtima? Kodi ndi wokonda kuponya miyendo ndipo akufuna kuti mumupatse "zakudya" zakudya zosayenera? Kodi amasangalala mukamapitiliza kumupangitsa malo ake kukhala osangalatsa ndikumupatsa mwayi wopita kukawona zinthu? Amphaka ambiri amanena kuti: “Ndikufuna zonsezi! Tsiku lililonse!"
Munthu-Mphaka-Nthawi
Amphaka amasinthasintha modabwitsa. Koma zimatha kukhala bwino ndikukula bwino m'mikhalidwe yabwino. Kwa anthu omwe amapita kuntchito tsiku lonse ndiyeno mwina amafuna kupita kumasewera madzulo kapena kukumana ndi abwenzi, amakhala ndi nthawi yochepa yocheza ndi mphaka wawo. Ndipo ndi zomwe mphaka amafunikira kwa inu: chidwi chanu chonse ndi kuyanjana kwenikweni. Ndipo nthawi zambiri anthufe timakhala okonzeka kumira mu sofa ndi mphaka, kukumbatirana mmwamba ndi pansi, koma mphaka ali maso. Chifukwa chakuti anagona tsiku lonse lathunthu ndipo tsopano akuyembekezera mwachidwi kuchitapo kanthu.
Yerekezerani kuti ndi maola angati patsiku omwe mungapatse mphaka wanu pafupipafupi. Zosowa za amphaka ndizosiyana kwambiri, koma ola losewera limodzi, ola lopalasa mozungulira limodzi monga kukulunga mphatso, ndi maola angapo opumula kapena kukumbatirana sizotalikirana ndi nthawi yokonzekera. Poyerekeza ndi kuyenda galu, nthawi yosunga nthawi ndi yosafunika.
Nanga Bwanji Maphunziro?
Zinthu zambiri zimachitika zokha ndi amphaka. Komabe, amphaka am'nyumba amapindula makamaka pokhala ndi anthu awo kuwaphunzitsa pang'ono. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mphaka wanu ali ndi nkhawa, zomwe ndizofala kwambiri, muyenera kumuthandiza kuthana ndi nkhawazo. Mwinanso mungafune thandizo la akatswiri pa izi. Muyeneranso kuphunzira momwe mungaphunzitsire mphaka malamulo angapo a khalidwe popanda syringe yamadzi ndi mawu okweza, monga kukhala pampando wa mphaka m'malo mwa settable kapena kukanda pa positi yomwe mwasankha. Amphaka am'nyumba makamaka nthawi zambiri amabwera ndi zachabechabe akamagwiritsidwa ntchito mochepera, ndipo izi ziyenera kutsutsidwa ndi maphunziro olimbikitsa. Pomaliza, kuphunzitsa zachinyengo ndi ntchito yabwino kwa amphaka. Kutengera luso la mphaka, mutha kuyang'ana kwambiri masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena masewera a ubongo. Choncho ngati simukufuna kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, muyenera kuganiziranso kupeza mphaka.
Pawekha Si Vuto?
Ngati muzindikira kuti omwe amawasamalira ali ofunikira kwa mphaka, ndiye kuti zikuwonekeratu kuti kusunga mphaka kumaletsa kwambiri kukonzekera kwanu tchuthi. Ngakhale ngati wina abwera kawiri kapena katatu patsiku kuti adyetse ndi kusewera ndi mphaka, kusowa kwa okondedwa sikuyenera kukhala kwautali kuposa asanu ndi awiri mpaka masiku khumi ndi anayi. Chifukwa kwa amphaka nthawi ino kumatanthauza: iwo amakhala okha kwambiri, miyambo yawo yonse yachizolowezi imagwa, ndipo samamvetsetsa chifukwa chake anthu awo mwadzidzidzi samangobweranso pakhomo. Kwa amphaka ambiri, izi ndi zokhumudwitsa, zosokoneza, kapena zowopsya.
Chiyembekezo
“Ndingotenga amphaka awiri. Kenako amakumananso. ”…
Tsoka ilo, sizophweka. Zoonadi, amphaka amapindula pokhala okhoza kukhalabe paubwenzi waukulu ndi mphaka wothandizana naye woyenera mwa kuseŵera ndi kukumbatirana. Koma ubale ndi amphaka ena suthetsa vuto la kusowa kwa mwayi wosaka. Ndipo monga anthufe, amphaka amatha kupanga maubwenzi angapo apamtima. Tsiku labwino kwambiri nthawi zonse limaphatikizapo osati kungosangalala ndi mphaka komanso kukhala ndi wokondedwa. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mulibe nthawi yokwanira yosamalira galu, ganiziraninso ngati mungathe kuchita chilungamo kwa mphaka. Mwina padzakhala nthawi yabwinoko?