Mary Allen
Wophunzitsa Mnzathu, Hug Companion, ndi Bwenzi Labwino Kwambiri: Timakonda agalu athu pazifukwa zambiri. Koma kodi njira yabwino kwambiri yosonyezera izi ndi iti?
Timakonda kupsompsona ndi kukumbatira galu yemwe timakonda. Agalu ena amamva kukanidwa pongowakumbatira. Ndi bwino kuyandikira pang'onopang'ono ndikutsatira zizindikiro za galu.
Agalu mwachibadwa amakonda kwambiri maswiti. Nthawi zambiri, komabe, muyenera kuzigwiritsa ntchito ngati zolimbikitsa komanso pophunzitsa agalu anu. Kupereka chikondi cha galu wanu kwa inu ndi madyerero okha ndi kopanda thanzi kwa nthawi yayitali - ndi ephemeral: mu mphindi zochepa, aliyense atha kupambana kukhulupirika kwa galu wanu pom'patsa zakudya.
Kulibwino onetsani chikondi chanu kwa agalu ndi malangizo awa:
Kuyang'ana Wachikondi
Agalu amalankhulana kwambiri kudzera m’maso. Akamakuyang’anani m’maso kwa nthawi yaitali, amangonena kuti, “Ndimakukondani.” Kumbali inayi, mumadzutsanso kumverera uku kwa agalu ngati muwayang'ana m'maso kwa nthawi yaitali. Zatsimikiziridwa ngakhale mwasayansi.
Malinga ndi kunena kwa magazini a The Dog People, ofufuzawo anapeza kuti mikhalidwe yaubwenzi pakati pa anthu ndi agalu mwa onse aŵiriwo imatulutsa “hormone ya chikondi” oxytocin. Koma samalani, zilibe kanthu kaya muyang'ane galu wanu m'maso mwachikondi kapena mkwiyo.
Kumvetsetsa Makhalidwe a Galu Wanu
Simukudziwa ngati chikondi chanu chidzafika kwa galu wanu? Ndiye ingoyang'anani thupi lake. Kodi akugwedeza mchira, kufuna kuyang'ana maso, kapena kukweza nsidze? Ndiye galu wanu adzakusonyezani chikondi chake. Kumbali ina, kukokera mchira, maso aakulu, ndi kunyambita milomo kosalekeza ndi zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti galu wanu sakumasuka.
Gwiritsani ntchito "Mawu a Galu"
Kodi mukumva zachilendo kuyankhula ndi galu wanu? Palibe chifukwa cha izi: Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti agalu amamvetsetsa bwino chinenero cha anthu kuposa momwe amayembekezera. Zinapezekanso kuti agalu amakonda mawu apamwamba, omwe ambiri amagwera okha. Anzake amiyendo inayi amakhala osangalala makamaka akamva “mawu agalu” monga “kuchitira,” “pita kokayenda,” kapena “chabwino.” Mawu a munthu amatonthoza agalu kwambiri moti m’nyumba zina amawerengera mokweza kwa agalu amantha, amanyazi, ankhawa, kapena okwiya kuti akhazikike mtima pansi.
Mawonekedwe Ankhope Achifundo
Nkhope yathu imasonyeza mwamsanga mmene tikumvera. Mukamapereka moni kwa galu wanu ndi mawu aubwenzi, omasuka, mumamusonyeza kuti simukumukwiyira.
Ku Cuddle
Mwa agalu, chibadwa cha ng'ombe ndi kusaka chikadali chogona. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake agalu amakonda kusewera ndi kusuntha. Muzigona limodzi pamphasa kapena m'munda nthawi yachilimwe kuti mulimbikitse mgwirizano pakati pa inu ndi galu wanu. Agalu amakonda kuyandikana kwambiri ndipo amakonda kukumbatirana ndi eni ake.
Mapewa Kutsamira Pa
Chizindikiro china chofuna kuyandikira: Galu wanu akutsamira pa inu. Mutha kutengera mawonekedwe awa mosamala ndikuwonetsa galuyo kuti mumakonda.
Chofewa
Monga momwe kuyang'ana mwachikondi, kukhudza kumatulutsa oxytocin - mwa anthu ndi nyama. Chifukwa chake, kutikita minofu pang'ono, kusisita, ndi kukwapula kofatsa kumadzetsa chisangalalo chenicheni kwa galu wanu. Galu wanu amakonda kukhudza mofatsa, makamaka m'makutu, omwe ali ndi njira zingapo zamisempha.
Yendani Poyenda
Kunena zoona: kuyenda pafupipafupi. Agalu amakonda chizolowezi, kotero kuyenda tsiku ndi tsiku, kuphatikiza ma module angapo ophunzitsira, ndikwabwino kuwonetsa galu wanu kuti mumawakonda. Zochitika zogawana zimakulitsa chidaliro komanso mgwirizano - monga momwe ziliri mu paketi yeniyeni.