Mary Allen
Eni amphaka sayenera kuchita popanda ulendo wa sabata kapena zosangalatsa zachilimwe kunja kwa nyumba. Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikuyika mphaka.
Dzuwa lambiri, mapiri odzaza ndi maluwa onunkhira, mayendedwe okopa okwera, abwenzi omwe amakuitanani kuti muyende paulendo wanjinga, nyanja zomwe zimatentha bwino, ndi ndege zonse zotsika mtengo kwambiri kumapeto kwa sabata ...
Kodi nchifukwa ninji eni amphaka ayenera kukhala osiyana ndi ena onse okhala m’mizinda ikuluikulu amene amangofuna kutuluka, kuzimitsa, ndi kuthaŵa makoma awo anayi? Ngati icho sichinali chifukwa cha chikumbumtima cholakwa. Nanga mphaka atani? Kodi amadzimva kuti wasiyidwa, ndi kuchitiridwa nkhanza? Kodi kukhumudwa kumakupangitsani kuchita zoipa, ndipo kodi kupanikizika kumafooketsa chitetezo chanu cha mthupi? Ndipo: Kodi wokonda mphaka wodalirika angasiye mnzakeyo mpaka liti?
Zoonadi, palibe yankho lachidziwitso ku mafunso onsewa, chifukwa amphaka ali ndipo nthawi zonse adzakhala umunthu, wina sungafanane ndi wina. Koma onse ali ndi makhalidwe ofanana. Mutha kukhala nokha bwino, osatopa ndikukhala pano. Mukapita, Kitty adzazindikira, mukabwerera adzagwiritsa ntchito mopanda manyazi kuti mukonzenso njira iliyonse yomwe angathe.
Musasiye Chilichonse Chofunidwa
Ngati palibe sitter yomwe ilipo kapena sakufunidwa, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti pali madzi abwino akumwa okwanira - m'mbale zingapo, owiritsa kapena ngati madzi amchere. Pamasiku otentha ndi bwino kuyika chakudya chouma m'mbale - zokwanira nthawi yonse yosowa. Kapena mu dispenser, yomwe ili ndi timer ndipo pang'onopang'ono imatulutsa zidutswa za chakudya. Komanso, ganizirani za zakudya zochepa zomwazika za mphaka kuti mupeze ndikudya akamatuluka. Ndipo ganizirani za ukhondo. Payenera kukhala chimbudzi chaukhondo chonyezimira chokhala ndi zinyalala zokwanira tsiku lililonse, apo ayi, mphaka wanu amakwinya mphuno yake moyenera.
Khazikitsani mphamvu za anyani ndi mpando wazenera momwe angawonere TV. Ndi carillon yodzipangira yokha yomwe imatha kukhala ndi mipira yamatabwa pa chingwe kapena mpira wodzazidwa ndi miyala. Ndi mapilo ochepa azitsamba omwe mumawayika pamalo omwe mumakonda. Izi zipangitsa maso, makutu, ndi mphuno kukhala zamoyo.
Chimene chikusowekabe pa chisangalalo cha mphaka (kupatula inu) ndi mtengo wongopeka ndi kusewera, womwe ulinso woyenera kuyendayenda, kusamalira thupi, kugona, komanso ngati nsanja yoyang'anira. Ndipo ola lowonjezera losewera ndikusisita mukabwerera.
Dzuwa lambiri, mapiri odzaza ndi maluwa onunkhira, mayendedwe okopa okwera, abwenzi omwe amakuitanani kuti muyende paulendo wanjinga, nyanja zomwe zimatentha bwino, ndi ndege zonse zotsika mtengo kwambiri kumapeto kwa sabata ...
Kodi nchifukwa ninji eni amphaka ayenera kukhala osiyana ndi ena onse okhala m’mizinda ikuluikulu amene amangofuna kutuluka, kuzimitsa, ndi kuthaŵa makoma awo anayi? Ngati icho sichinali chifukwa cha chikumbumtima cholakwa. Nanga mphaka atani? Kodi amadzimva kuti wasiyidwa, ndi kuchitiridwa nkhanza? Kodi kukhumudwa kumakupangitsani kuchita zoipa, ndipo kodi kupanikizika kumafooketsa chitetezo chanu cha mthupi? Ndipo: Kodi wokonda mphaka wodalirika angasiye mnzakeyo mpaka liti?
Zoonadi, palibe yankho lachidziwitso ku mafunso onsewa, chifukwa amphaka ali ndipo nthawi zonse adzakhala umunthu, wina sungafanane ndi wina. Koma onse ali ndi makhalidwe ofanana. Mutha kukhala nokha bwino, osatopa ndikukhala pano. Mukapita, Kitty adzazindikira, mukabwerera adzagwiritsa ntchito mopanda manyazi kuti mukonzenso njira iliyonse yomwe angathe.