Mary Allen
Mphaka watsopano, chiweto, kapena munthu akalowa, mphaka wanu amatha kuchita nsanje. Zinyama zanu zidzakuuzani momwe mungazindikire nsanje amphaka komanso momwe mungapewere khalidwe lansanje.
Mwina mumazidziwa bwino izi: Mukugona bwino pa sofa ndi mphaka wanu ndipo nonse ndinu omasuka. Koma mphaka wanu wachiwiriyo akangofika, nthawi yomweyo amagunda ndi dzanja lake ... , kapena foni yam'manja.
Komabe, akatswiri ambiri a nyama zakutchire amavomereza kuti nsanje imakhudza kwambiri maganizo a munthu. Mungathe kunena za mpikisano pankhani ya khalidwe la amphaka.
Amphaka ngati malo otetezeka omwe sasintha kwambiri. Amadzitengera zoseweretsa zina ndi malo mnyumba mwawo - monga chidwi chanu. Ngati mwadzidzidzi akuyenera kugawana nawo zina mwa izi, zimakulitsa malingaliro awo ampikisano.
Zimenezo zingakhale zomveka kuthengo, chifukwa kumeneko akumenyera chuma chochepa monga chakudya ndi madzi abwino, popanda zimene sakanatha kukhala ndi moyo. Ngati awona chuma chawo chikuwopsezedwa ndi olowa, amphaka apakhomo amafunanso kuwamenyera nkhondo.
Pochita izi, amangotsatira chibadwa chawo - ngakhale atapeza zonse zomwe amafunikira pamoyo wawo.
Kodi Mphaka Wanu Ndi Wansanje? Umu ndi Momwe Mumadziwira
Izi ndizofanana ndi amphaka ansanje:
- Mphaka wanu amakwiya, amawombera, ndi kumenya zamoyo zina kapena zinthu zina.
- Amamenyana ndi amphaka kapena ziweto zina.
- Mwadzidzidzi amakanda kapena kuluma mipando, makatani, ndi/kapena makapeti.
- Mphaka wanu amachitanso bizinesi kunja kwa bokosi la zinyalala.
- Mphaka wanu ali patali kwambiri kuposa masiku onse, mwinanso kubisala kwa mphaka wolamulira kwambiri.
- Iye akufuula moumirira, akumanyoza wolowererayo ngati kuti akumunyoza.
N'chifukwa Chiyani Amphaka Amachita Nsanje?
Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri zomwe mphaka wanu amachitira chonchi. Ambiri amasonyeza kuti ndi “ansanje” mukamasamalira kwambiri chinthu (monga foni yanu yam’manja kapena laputopu), munthu kapena nyama ina. Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, izi zitha kukhala chifukwa chomwe mphaka wanu amagona pa kiyibodi - kapena amakuwonani mopanda manyazi pakugonana.
Nsanje kwa okhala m'chipinda chatsopano imawonekera makamaka amphaka omwe m'mbuyomu anali ndi inu nokha. Kuwonekera mwadzidzidzi kwa wachibale watsopano, monga khanda kapena chiweto chatsopano, kungayambitse khalidwe lansanje.
Makamaka ngati mphaka wanu sanacheze bwino ngati mphaka, ndiye kuti adzadalira kwambiri inu pambuyo pake ndipo adzachita nsanje mwamsanga.
Amphaka amathanso kusintha machitidwe awo a tsiku ndi tsiku: mwachitsanzo, ngati ndondomeko yawo yodyetsera isintha. Mwina mphaka wanu akumva kuopsezedwa ndi chiweto chinacho ndipo alibe malo othawirako. Kuopa "mpikisano" kungadziwonetsere mu khalidwe lansanje.
Mungathe Kuchita Izi Potsutsana ndi Nsanje Za Mphaka Wanu
Chofunikira kwambiri ndikuzindikira chomwe chimayambitsa nsanje. Ndiye mutha kukhazika pansi mphaka wanu ndi miyeso yoyenera. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kukhala ndi nthawi yambiri ndi mphaka wanu. Mwanjira iyi, mphaka wanu amadziwa nthawi yomweyo kuti ndi wofunikira kwa inu.
Monga lamulo, khalidwe losafunika limasiya mwamsanga. Mwa zina, mutha kusewera kapena kukumbatira mphaka wanu, kuwasisita, kapena kupereka mphotho pamakhalidwe abwino.
Ndikofunikiranso kuti mphaka wanu akhale ndi malo ake omwe sangasokonezedwe. Mwachitsanzo, mwina mutha kusamutsa malo odyera atsopano a ziweto kupita kuchipinda china. Kapena mungamangire mphaka wanu malo atsopano oti mugonepo, kumene angakhoze kuwona bwino banja. Zingathandizenso kuti zoseweretsa za mphaka wanu zikhale zotetezeka kuzinthu zawo zatsopano.
Kuphatikiza apo, payenera kukhala chakudya chokwanira, madzi abwino, mabokosi a zinyalala aukhondo, ndi malo abwino ogona a nyama zonse kuti pasakhale khalidwe lopikisana nalo poyamba. M'nyumba zazing'ono, zokwatula ndi njira yabwino yoperekera malo okwanira amphaka.
Ndi bwino kuphatikizira mphaka wanu pakusintha koyambira. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kusisita mphaka wanu mutagwira mwana m’manja mwanu. Wokondedwa wanu watsopano akhoza kudyetsa mphaka kapena kuwachitira zabwino. Ndipo pamene mphaka watsopano wasamukira, mukhoza kudyetsa wakale poyamba - monga chizindikiro cha malo ake apadera.