Kubweretsa Amphaka Pamodzi - Mabwenzi Kwa Moyo Wonse? Gawo 2

M'chigawo choyamba cha nkhaniyi munaphunzira kuti amphaka amafikira amphaka osadziwika mokayikira, kuti zokumana nazo zoipa ziyenera kupewedwa ngati wina akufuna kulimbikitsa ubwenzi pakati pa amphakawo. Munalandiranso malangizo amomwe mungasankhire mphaka woyenera.

Tsopano apa pali malangizo othandiza ophatikiza.

Chipinda Cholandiridwa

Konzani chipinda cholandirira alendo. Lili ndi malo abwino opumira, madzi ndi chakudya, mabokosi a zinyalala, ndi zokwala.

Apa mphaka watsopano akhoza kuchira kuchokera ku chisangalalo cha ulendo ndikukudziwani bwino pang'ono.

Chonde sankhani chipinda cholandirira chomwe sichili chofunikira kwambiri kwa amphaka anu omwe alipo.

Chitseko cha chipinda cholandiriracho chimakhala chotsekedwa mpaka mphaka watsopanoyo akuwoneka womasuka komanso momasuka. Pokhapokha m'pamene msonkhano woyamba pakati pa amphaka anu ungachitike, malinga ngati mphaka wanu yemwe alipo akuwoneka womasuka ndi watsopano kuseri kwa chitseko.

Kukumana Kotetezedwa

Ndi bwino kukonzekera zosunga zobwezeretsera msonkhano woyamba pakati pa amphaka. Ikani chitseko (chodzipangira nokha) cha lattice kapena ukonde wa mphaka pachitseko. Amphaka amatha kuona njira yawo kudutsa chotchinga ichi, koma palibe chomwe chingasokonezeke. Zikafika poipa kwambiri, amphaka amodzi amathamangira chotchinga kapena wina amathawa, koma sipangakhale kuthamangitsa kapena kumenyana. Izi ndikuwonetsetsa kuti amphaka anu sakhala ndi vuto lalikulu wina ndi mnzake. Ndilo theka la nkhondo panjira yopita ku ubwenzi!

Poyamba, pangani zotetezedwa zomwe zimangokhala mphindi zochepa. Mphaka aliyense amathandizidwa ndi munthu amene wapatsidwa, yemwe amamupatsa amachitira ndikufalitsa bata. Palinso zakudya zabwino pamene anthu akulozetsa, kubwebweta, kapena kuoneka wamantha kapena okwiya. Cholinga cha zomwe amachitira pa nthawiyi ndi kuwongolera maganizo ndi kupanga kulankhulana mwaubwenzi kukhala kosavuta. Uthenga uyenera kukhala: "Mukawona mphaka uyu, zinthu zazikulu zimakuchitikirani!"

Apatseni mwayi amphaka kuti awone wina ndi mzake pamtunda wa mamita angapo, makamaka akakumana koyamba. Ikhoza kukhala mamita asanu kapena asanu ndi limodzi ngati ndi kotheka. Zambiri zingakhale zabwinoko!

Msonkhano woyamba wopanda chotchinga cholekanitsa chachitetezo umangochitika pamene misonkhano ingapo pa chotchinga yakhala yomasuka komanso yaubwenzi. Ndikofunikira kuti muwone kuti amphaka amakumanadi pa chotchinga. Ngati sayang’anana nkomwe kapena osawonekera, chimenecho si chizindikiro chabwino, ngakhale chikuwoneka mwamtendere. Ngati amphaka amapewa kukumana ngakhale patatha masiku angapo ndi njira zingapo zolumikizirana, chonde pezani chithandizo kudzera mu upangiri wamakhalidwe.

Kukumana Kwambiri Mwachindunji

Yesetsani kupatsa amphaka malo ambiri kuti akumane nawo koyamba popanda chotchinga choteteza. Chipinda chachikulu chokhala ndi zitseko zachipinda chotseguka mnyumbamo chimapereka njira zambiri zothawirako komanso zothawirako kuposa chipinda chaching'ono chotsekedwa. Ndipo zosankha zimenezi zingapereke kumverera kwachisungiko ndipo motero kumathandizira kumasuka.

1. Tsegulani chitseko chachikulu pakati pa amphaka kuti asakumane pakhomo. Pumirani mozama ndipo, pamodzi ndi munthu wothandizira, kufalitsa maganizo omasuka, abwino.
   Limbikitsaninso chisangalalo ndi zopatsa, mawu odekha, kapena, ngati amphaka achichepere, masewera abata.
2. Osanyengerera amphaka kwa wina ndi mzake, koma athandizeni kupeza mtunda wokwanira womasuka kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake pamene zinthu zakhala zikuyenda pang'ono. Ngati akumva choncho, akhoza kuyandikirananso paokha.
3. Tsitsani kukumana pomwe zonse zili zomasuka. Kenaka perekani amphaka mpumulo - zinali zokondweretsa kwambiri komanso zowawa kwambiri - musanakonzekere kukumana ndi maso ndi maso maola angapo pambuyo pake kapena tsiku lotsatira.
4. Bwerezani kukumana uku mpaka amphakawo atakhala bata ndi chidwi komanso okondana kangapo. Ndiye amakhala okonzeka kukhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yaitali pamaso panu ndi kudziwana bwino.

Kuphatikizika mu Nyumba ya Amphaka Ambiri

Ngati mukufuna kuphatikiza mphaka kukhala amphaka ambiri omwe alipo kale kapena kuwonjezera amphaka angapo kwa amphaka omwe alipo kale, chonde tsatirani zomwe zafotokozedwa pamwambapa imodzi ndi amphaka awiri nthawi imodzi. Ngakhale kuti izi zimatenga nthawi, zimakutetezani ku zoopsa ziwiri zazikulu zomwe zingapangitse kuti kukumananso kukhala kovuta kwambiri: Ngati mphaka imodzi ikumana ndi amphaka awiri kapena kuposerapo omwe adziwana kale, chiopsezo cha kusatsimikizika ndipo motero kuwonjezereka kumakhala kwakukulu. Chiopsezo china ndi apatutsira nkhanza, imene m'malo mwa Creepy watsopano amene kwenikweni ankakonda kapena kuvomereza anzake mphaka akuukira.

Pezani Thandizo Mofulumira!

Popanga mgwirizano, mukuyala maziko a ubale wamtsogolo. Choncho ndi bwino kupitiriza mosamala komanso mosamala momwe mungathere. Katswiri wodziwa zamakhalidwe amphaka angakupatseni upangiri wofunikira mutangoyamba kukonzekera, makamaka ngati simukudziwa momwe mphaka wanu angachitire ndi mphaka wina. Akhoza kukuthandizani kusankha chipinda cholandirira bwino komanso kupanga chotchinga chogwira ntchito. Koposa zonse, akhoza kukupatsani malangizo amomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito maswiti ndi zina zotere kuti mukhale bwino. Pali zinthu zingapo zofunika kuziganizira zomwe sizikupitilira m'nkhaniyi.

Chonde pezani chithandizo ngati mukufuna kudziwa amphaka opitilira awiri kwa wina ndi mnzake. Pamene amphaka amakhudzidwa kwambiri, mapangidwe ake amakhala ovuta kwambiri.

Ndipo chonde lemberani mlangizi wamakhalidwe posachedwa ngati kulumikizananso sikukuyenda mosavuta monga momwe mumayembekezera ndipo amphaka amodzi akuwonetsa mantha akulu kapena pali kusaka ndi kuwukira. Amphaka anu sayenera kulimbana chilichonse tsopano! Muyenera kusiya kudziona ngati adani mwamsanga ngati pangakhale mwayi uliwonse waubwenzi.

Tsoka ilo, sizingatheke kunena mwachidule kuti ndi njira ziti zomwe zimathandiza pazochitika zotere. Zimatengera zomwe zimayambitsa khalidwe la amphaka:

• Kodi ndi nkhanza za m'dera?
• Kodi kukhumudwa kumathandiza?
• Kodi khalidwe lakusaka limasintha kapena mphaka amachita mwaukali podziteteza?
• Kodi mphaka wamanthayo ndi woyenerera kuchita mantha chifukwa akuwopsezedwa?
• Kodi amphaka omwe akukhudzidwa ndi amphamvu bwanji?
• Kodi mungafune chiyani kuti mukhale ofikirika komanso omasuka?

Muyenera kudziwa: simungapange kuphatikiza kulikonse kukhala kopambana. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala ndi dongosolo labwino B lokonzeka ngati mungasiye kuyanjananso. Koma pali njira zophatikizira zamayanjano ovuta omwe amatha kubweretsa zotsatira zabwino ndi nthawi yokwanira komanso mwayi wolipira. Kuti izi zitheke, komabe, ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito munthawi yake.

Chiyembekezo

Zomwe zimathandiza pa mgwirizano umodzi zingawononge wina. Kumbukirani kuti masitepe ophatikizana ayenera kugwirizana nthawi zonse ndi anthu, zomwe adakumana nazo m'mbuyomu, malingaliro awo apano, komanso momwe zinthu ziliri.
Zimalipiradi kuyika nthawi yanu ndi ukatswiri pakubweretsa amphaka pamodzi.

Kodi milungu inayi, isanu ndi umodzi, kapena isanu ndi itatu yakulumikizananso mofatsa ndi yayitali kwambiri mukalandira mphotho yaubwenzi wazaka zisanu, khumi, kapena khumi ndi zisanu?

Panthawi imodzimodziyo, mukuika ndalama mu umoyo wa amphaka anu, panthawi yocheza komanso pambuyo pake m'moyo pamodzi.