Kubweretsa Amphaka Pamodzi - Mabwenzi Kwa Moyo Wonse? Gawo 1

Amphaka awiri akunyengererana mitu yawo kenako nkugona pakama, kukumbatirana wina ndi mnzake, atadumpha m’kholamo pamodzi ndi chisangalalo chosaneneka – kwa ife eni amphaka palibe lingaliro labwinoko. Izi ndi zomwe tikufuna amphaka athu.

Komabe, zenizeni nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosiyana. Nthawi zambiri pamakhala amphaka okhala m'nyumba imodzi omwe amapewa komanso kulolerana. Ngati pali kusowa chifundo kwa wina ndi mzake kapena ngati amphaka ali ndi zokumana nazo zoipa wina ndi mzake, maubwenzi amphaka amakula omwe amadziwika ndi kukhumudwa, mkwiyo, mantha, kapena kusatetezeka. Izi zitha kutanthauza kupsinjika kosalekeza kwa omwe akukhudzidwa, komwe thanzi lawo ndi moyo wawo ungavutike. Ndipo kwa ife anthu, kuyang'ana kwa amphaka athu sikulinso kwachidwi. Nthawi zambiri, kukumana koyamba pakati pa mabwenzi awiri amphongo m'moyo kumakhala kovutitsa komanso kolemetsa. Ndiye amphaka awiriwa amayamba moyo wawo pamodzi pansi pa mikhalidwe yovuta ndipo sikuti amangofunika kudziwana komanso kugonjetsa zokumana nazo zoipa. Izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwa iwo.

M'nkhani ya magawo awiriwa, mupeza zomwe mungaganizire kukhazikitsa njira yamtendere ndi mgwirizano mukamacheza ndi amphaka anu. Izi zikuphatikizanso mafunso:

• Kodi muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito chiyani posankha amphaka?
• Kodi banja la amphaka ambiri liyenera kukwaniritsa ziti?
• Ndipo - makamaka pokhudzana ndi kuphatikiza - ndi liti pamene kuli bwino kupeza chithandizo kuchokera kwa mlangizi wamakhalidwe?

Kodi Mphaka Wanu Amawona Bwanji Amphaka Achilendo?

Choyamba tiyeni tiyankhe funso limeneli mwachidule. Mukuganiza kuti mphaka wakunja amamva bwanji akaona mphaka wachilendo panja?

• Joy?
• Chidwi?
• Kodi akusangalala m'katimo, ndi kupita mosatekeseka kukalonjera mlendoyo, wokweza mchira wake?

Amphaka otere alipodi: Ambiri a iwo ndi amphaka achichepere osakwanitsa zaka 2 omwe amacheza modabwitsa ndipo sanakumanepo ndi vuto lililonse. Koma zolengedwa zogwira mtimazi ndizosiyana, osati lamulo. Zomwe mumamva mukamayang'ana mphaka wachilendo ndi zabwino kutchula kusakhulupirirana, kukwiya kuti wina amalowa m'dera lanu, kapena kuopa wolowerera uyu.

Amphaka achilendo amawopseza wina ndi mnzake - kuwopseza kukhulupirika kwawo komanso zinthu zofunika kwambiri (kusaka nyama, malo odyetserako, malo ogona, mwina obereketsa). Mphaka angachite bwino kukayikira mphaka wachilendo!

Ngati mukufuna kubweretsa mphaka wanu ndi munthu wina, muyenera kuganiza kuti awiriwo sangagunde ndi chidwi poyamba.

Kodi N'chiyani Chimalimbikitsa Ubwenzi?

Ngati amphaka awiri achilendo mwadzidzidzi ali pafupi kwambiri kwa wina ndi mzake, mantha nthawi zambiri amayambitsa kutengeka kwakukulu kwamaganizo: Pamakhala phokoso ndi kulira - ngati zinthu zikuyenda bwino ndipo amphakawo akuwongolera. Ngati kugwedezeka kuli kwakukulu kwambiri kapena ngati mmodzi mwa awiriwo sali mbuye wamkulu pakuwongolera mopupuluma, kuukira kapena kuthawa ngati mantha kumachitika mosavuta pazochitika zotere, zomwe zingayambitse kuthamangitsidwa koopsa komanso ngakhale ndewu. Zonsezi sizimachititsa kuti munthu apeze mabwenzi pambuyo pake. Kuyankhulana mwaukali ndi kulira ndi kulira, koma koposa zonse zamphamvu za mantha ndi ndewu, zimayimira zochitika zoipa zomwe - malingana ndi kukula kwa zochitika ndi khalidwe la amphaka - zikhoza kudziwotcha mozama mu kukumbukira maganizo. Ndiye iwo ali massively mu njira rapprochement.

Ubwenzi, kumbali ina, ukhoza kubwera pamene kukumana koyamba pakati pa amphaka aŵiri kukonzedwa m'njira yoti onse azitha kuyang'anana modekha ali pamalo otetezeka. Malo otetezeka sikutanthauza, koma koposa zonse, mtunda wokwanira waukulu. Kutalikirana kwapakati pa ziwirizi, amphakawo angadziwone ngati ngozi yomweyo. Mukakumananso, muyenera kuyesetsa kuwonetsetsa kuti amphaka anu azikhala omasuka momwe angathere pamisonkhanoyi. Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yochepetsera pang'onopang'ono kusakhulupirirana kwathanzi ndikuchedwa kutsegula. Ngakhale kuti zokumana nazo zoipa pakati pa amphaka ziyenera kupeŵedwa panjira iliyonse, chirichonse chomwe chimapereka mpumulo, malingaliro abwino, ndi chimwemwe pamisonkhano ndizothandiza.

Tidzafika mtsogolo pang'ono zomwe zingatanthauze pochita bwino. Choyamba, tiyeni tiwone mfundo ziwiri zofunika zomwe zingakhalenso zofunika kwambiri pakukula kwa ubwenzi pakati pa amphaka: chifundo ndi zosowa zofanana.

Chifundo ndi Zosowa Zofanana

Nkhani yoyipa poyamba: Tsoka ilo, sitingathe kumvera chisoni. Zimagwira ntchito mosiyana ndi amphaka kuposa momwe zimachitira ndi ife, anthu. Pali chifundo ndi kutsutsa poyang'ana koyamba. Chifundo chimawonjezera chifuno cha kulankhulana mwamtendere ndi mwaubwenzi. Kusagwirizana kumachepetsa kwambiri kufunitsitsa uku. Ngati pali kusagwirizana pakati pa amphaka awiri ndipo izi sizingagonjetsedwe, ndiye kuti amphakawa sayenera kukhala pamodzi.

Nthawi zina pali mtundu wa imvi dera poyamba. Amphaka sakudziwa zoti aganizire za wina ndi mnzake. Osati kokha, koma makamaka ndiye, kuyanjana kungakhale kosavuta ngati amphaka amasangalala ndi zinthu zofanana.

Choncho, posankha mphaka wothandizana naye, onetsetsani kuti amphakawo ndi ogwirizana kwambiri m'madera ambiri a moyo. Mfundo zapakati ndi:

• Zofunikira zofananira pakuchita: wachinyamata yemwe amakhala wokonzeka kuchitapo kanthu akhoza kukhala wokondana kwambiri ndi tomcat wokonda zochitika, koma kwa mphaka wamkulu yemwe ali ndi vuto la impso zitha kukhala zokakamiza.
• Masewera a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha: Ngakhale amphaka amakonda kumenya nkhondo pamasewera ochezera, ana amphaka amakonda kwambiri masewera othamanga osasewera masewera omenyana. Kupatulapo kumatsimikizira lamuloli. Chifukwa chake, ngati muli ndi amphaka kapena muli nawo, chonde yesani kusankha mphaka wokondana ndi masewera omwe amakonda. Kupanda kutero, wovutitsayo amayamba kukhumudwa msanga ndipo mzimu wachifundo kwambiri umakhala ndi mantha mosavuta.
• Zofunikira zofananira za kuyandikana ndi kukhudzana ndi thupi: Amphaka amasiyana kwambiri momwe amafunira kuyandikana ndi amphaka ena. Ngakhale kuti ena amafunikira kukhudzana ndi kuyeretsedwa, ena amafunikira kukhala patali mokwanira. Izi zimakhala ndi kuthekera kwakukulu kwa kukhumudwa kapena kukakamizidwa. Ngati amphaka awiri agwirizana pa chikhumbo chawo cha kuyandikana ndi mtunda, ndiye kuti akhoza kupanga gulu logwirizana.

Kodi Mungathe Kukwaniritsa Zofunikira Pakhomo Lokhala ndi Amphaka Ambiri?

Kuti amphaka angapo akhale okondwa ndi inu kosatha, nthawi zambiri pamakhala zofunikira zochepa. Izi zimasiyana kwambiri kutengera gulu la amphaka, koma simudzalakwitsa ndi izi:

• Khalani ndi mabokosi a zinyalala okwanira mzipinda zosiyanasiyana. Lamulo la golide ndi chiwerengero cha amphaka +1 = chiwerengero chochepa cha mabokosi a zinyalala
• Mungagwiritse ntchito lamulo lomwelo mwachindunji pazinthu zina zonse zofunika za mphaka: malo okanda, mabedi ogona, malo otentha m'nyengo yozizira, malo obisala, malo okwera, malo amadzi, ndi zina zotero.
• Kodi muli ndi nthawi yokwanira yosewera ndi kukumbatirana ndi amphaka onse motsatizana ngati amphaka anu sangathe kugawana nawo zochitika zapaderazi? Zimenezi zimachitika kawirikawiri.
• Kodi muli ndi zipinda zokongola zokwanira kuti mphaka aliyense athe kudzipezera yekha chipinda ngati sakufuna kuwona anthu kapena amphaka?
• Kodi mukudziwa kuti mphaka amafuna nthawi yochulukirapo?
• Ndipo zowonadi, palinso mtengo wogulira chakudya, zinyalala, ndi chisamaliro chazinyama?
• Kodi achibale anu onse amavomereza kutenga amphaka amodzi kapena angapo?
• Kodi amphaka anu apano ndi omwe mumasankha amphaka amphaka omwe amakonda kukhala ndi amphaka ena? Ndipamene amakhala ndi mwayi wokhala osangalala m'banja la amphaka ambiri.

Chonde musazengereze kuyankha moona mtima mafunso omwe mwina sangakhale omasuka.

Chiyembekezo

Kodi mwapeza mphaka yemwe angafanane ndi mphaka wanu yemwe alipo? Ndipo muli ndi chidaliro kuti mudzakwaniritsa zofunikira za chitsime cha amphaka ambiri? Kenako chonde mverani malangizo a gawo lachiwiri la nkhaniyi mukamacheza.