Mary Allen
Dzanja pamtima: aliyense angafune kukhala munthu yemwe amakonda kwambiri amphaka. Patsiku lamakono la Amphaka Padziko Lonse, tiwulula ngati amphaka alinso ndi zokonda - komanso momwe mungakhalire amphaka.
Timakonda amphaka, palibe funso pa izo. Anthu akhala ndi amphaka kwa zaka pafupifupi 9,500. Mosiyana ndi agalu, amphaka akhalabe odziimira okha. Mwachitsanzo, ambiri amasaka zakudya zawo kapena kudzikongoletsa okha.
Ndi ufulu wonse wodziyimira pawokha, anthu ena ali otsimikiza: Kwenikweni, makiti satifuna konse. Eni amphaka amamva kuti amalemekezedwa kwambiri mphaka wawo akawasankha kukhala munthu amene amamukonda kwambiri. Koma kodi amphaka amagwiritsa ntchito njira ziti posankha zomwe amakonda? Ndipo mumadziwa bwanji kuti mumamukonda kwambiri?
Amphaka ndi Osankha
Ndendende chifukwa chake mphaka amakonda munthu wina kwa mnzake nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kudziwa. Zitha kukhala chifukwa mumasewera naye kwambiri. Kapena kumamudyetsa nthawi zonse. Kapena fungo lanu. Amphaka ena amakhala omasuka makamaka ndi ana, ena kwambiri ndi akuluakulu. Ndipo ena ngati amuna, mwachitsanzo, omwe amatha kuwagwira mpaka ndevu.
Komabe, zotsatirazi zikugwira ntchito: Ndi munthu amene amamukonda kwambiri, mphaka amamva kuti akusamalidwa bwino komanso otetezeka. Ndipo akapanga chisankho chake, palibe chifukwa chokhalira kumusonyeza chikondi. M'malo mwake: kuyandikira kwa amphaka msanga kumakhala kochuluka kwambiri.
Ngakhale anthu okonda kuseŵera ndi okondana kwambiri pakati pawo amafuna kudziŵa nthaŵi ndi mmene amakhalira ndi anthu awo. Chifukwa chake mumakonda kupeza chikondi cha mphaka wanu pakapita nthawi. Chisangalalo apa ndi apo ndi kuyitanira kusewera mwina sizimapweteka.
Nchiyani Chimakupangitsani Kukhala Munthu Wamphaka Wanu?
Zimathandiza ngati mphaka wanu akukudziwani akadali mphaka. Atsikana aang'ono nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa zambiri komanso alibe mantha. Izi zimawapangitsa kuti azidalira anthu mosavuta. Kuonjezera apo, mphaka wanu adzadziwa fungo lanu kuyambira ali aang'ono. Zofunikira zabwino kwambiri ndikuti mudzakhalabe ndi ubale wapamtima pambuyo pake. Koma ngakhale mphaka wamkulu atakhala nanu, mutha kumusangalatsabe.
Mwachitsanzo, chifukwa mumamvetsetsa bwino mphaka wanu. Mwachitsanzo, malinga ndi kafukufuku wina, amphaka amayesa kukopa anthu kuti akwaniritse zosowa zawo. Ndipo mwina ndinu munthu amene mphaka wanu amamukonda chifukwa mumamumvetsetsa bwino. Chifukwa mutha kudziwa ngati mphaka wanu akukupatsani moni kapena akufuna kudyetsedwa.
Mfundo yakuti amphaka amachita mosiyana ndi anthu omwe amakhala nawo m'chipinda chimodzi angakhalenso ndi chifukwa china: Amangodziwa kumene amalandira chiyani. “Iwo ndi anzeru kwambiri kuposa mmene timaganizira,” akufotokoza motero wasayansi wamakhalidwe John Bradshaw ku National Geographic. "Mumadziwa kuti wachibale amakhala ndi chizolowezi chodzuka XNUMX koloko m'mawa ndi kuwapatsa chakudya."
Kotero mwina simuli nthawi zonse munthu wokondedwa wanu mphaka, koma pamene izo zikuyenera iye. Koma chinthu chimodzi ndi chotsimikizika: ndiye mphaka wanu wokondedwa. Ndipo ndicho chinthu chachikulu.