Mary Allen
Malinga ndi kunena kwa mawuwo, “mphaka wopenga” ali ndi amphaka osaŵerengeka omwe amakhala yekha. Izi ndithudi nzokokomeza. Koma palinso makhalidwe ena okhudzana ndi amayi amphaka openga. Mumapanga zingati mwa izi?
Ndani winanso amapenga za amphaka? Ife ndithudi! Chithunzi cha "mkazi wamisala wamphaka" adapangidwa makamaka ndi mndandanda monga The Simpsons. M'mbuyomu, mkazi wamphaka wopenga tsopano akuganiziridwa kuti ndi wamkulu pang'ono, mkazi wosakwatiwa yemwe alibe anthu ambiri ocheza nawo kupatula amphaka (ambiri). Izi ndithudi ndizokokomeza kotheratu. Nthawi zambiri pamakhala makhalidwe ena a eni amphaka omwe amagwirizanitsidwa ndi "Crazy Cat Ladies". Tidasonkhanitsa ochepa mwa iwo.
Zosonkhanitsazi ziyenera kumveka ndi maso. Palibe amene amakwaniritsa izi ndi wamisala! M'malo mwake, zikutanthauza kuti mumakonda amphaka ambiri, komanso mphaka wanu makamaka, ndipo mukufuna kuwasangalatsa - ndipo palibe cholakwika ndi zimenezo, pambuyo pake. Mwina pali "Crazy Cat Lady" mwa eni amphaka aliyense. Ndi mfundo zingati zomwe zikukukhudzani?
Cliché 1: Mayi amphaka amatenga zithunzi za mphaka wake. Zithunzi zambiri.
Amphaka amangokhala chithunzi chabwino. Choncho n'zosadabwitsa kuti zithunzi zithunzi pa mafoni amphaka a eni amphaka nthawi zambiri amawoneka ngati chitsanzo chathu: mphaka zithunzi mpaka maso. Koma bwanji osatero? Simungakhale ndi zokumbukira zokwanira! Ndipo ngati izi ndi zopenga kwa ena, zilibe kanthu!
Cliché 2: Mkazi wamphaka amapangitsa mphaka wake kukhala waumunthu
Kodi mudamvapo mawu ngati "Lero mphaka wanga andilola kugona" kapena "Ndiyenera kupita kunyumba, mphaka wanga ali ndi njala"? Kwa akunja, ziganizo zoterezi zingamveke ngati "zopenga" nthawi ndi nthawi. Choncho, mawu okhudza akazi amphaka openga ndi oti amawakonda amphaka awo-kulankhula kapena kwa iwo ngati kuti ndi anthu kapena makanda awo.
Timati: Amphaka ayenera kuloledwa kukhala amphaka nthawi zonse. Izi zikutanthauza kuti: Kuchita umunthu m'lingaliro la "kulankhula kapena ndi mphaka" ndikwabwino kwambiri ndipo ndithudi kwafalikira pakati pa eni amphaka. Izi nthawi zambiri zimangochitika mukakhala ndi mphaka. Humanizing mphaka kuti sangathenso kuchita khalidwe lake lachibadwa, mwachitsanzo, kufinya izo mu zovala, akupita patali.
Cliché 3: Mayi amphaka ali ndi zithunzi zamphaka paliponse
Zithunzi za mphaka wanu. Mwini mphaka aliyense ali nazo zochuluka. Khalidwe limodzi lomwe nthawi zambiri limagwirizanitsidwa ndi "Crazy Cat Lady" ndikuyika zithunzi izi m'malo osiyanasiyana. Kaya ndi foni yam'manja, pillowcase, pa kapu, ngati foni yam'manja kapena pakompyuta, kapena mwachikale monga chithunzi pakhoma: Malingana ndi cliché, palibe malo a "mkazi wamisala" pomwe chithunzi cha mphaka wake alibe malo.
Khwerero 4: Mayi amphaka amakonda kukhala ndi mphaka wake kuposa ndi anthu
Kodi mudakondako madzulo abwino ndi mphaka wanu ndi sofa kuposa madzulo ndi anzanu? Malinga ndi kunena kwa mawuwo, “madona amphaka openga” amakonda kukhala osungulumwa ndipo amathera nthaŵi yawo yambiri ali ndi amphaka awo. Koma ngati muli ndi mphaka, mumakhala bwino nthawi zonse!
Cliché 5: A Сat Lady Amagula Zovala Zosindikizira Mphaka
Mukawerenga mawu akuti "Crazy Cat Lady", kodi mumaganiziranso mkazi atavala juzi yokhala ndi mphaka? Ichinso ndi chidule cha mkazi wamphaka wamisala: amakonda amphaka ndi madiresi ngati amodzi. Timati: ndiye chiyani? Zokonda ndizosiyana. Aliyense amene amakonda ma jumper, nsonga, kapena masokosi okhala ndi amphaka amphaka azivala!
Khwerero 6: Mkazi Wamphaka Amapanga Mbiri Zapa TV Za Mphaka Wake
Mbiri ya Facebook kapena Instagram ya mphaka? Anthu ambiri angatchule kuti "wopenga". Ena amaona kuti ndi zabwino kugawana zithunzi zawo zamphaka zokongola ndi dziko motere. Pambuyo pake, muli nawo ambiri a iwo! Masiku ano, komabe, sizachilendo kuti ziweto zikhale ndi mbiri zawo zapa TV. Sikuti eni ake amphaka ambiri amachita izi, komanso eni ake agalu kapena nyama zina. Kotero si "kupenga" - nkhani chabe.
Cliché 7: Mphaka Amasankha Komwe Apite
Agalu ali ndi eni ake, amphaka ali ndi antchito: iyi ndiye mawu ofunikira m'mabanja ambiri amphaka. Malinga ndi cliché, palibe vuto kwa openga amphaka akazi! Tsankho: Amawonongadi amphaka awo. Mphaka mwadzidzidzi sakondanso chakudya chake? Ndiye apeza wina! Ndipo simungakhale ndi zoseweretsa zamphaka zokwanira. Amphaka nthawi zambiri amachita mwadala. Ndipo monga mwini amphaka wachikondi, mumazolowera zizolowezi za amphaka nthawi ndi nthawi…
Mapeto athu: zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala zachilendo kwa eni amphaka nthawi zina zimatha kuwoneka ngati zopenga kwa akunja. Eni amphaka ambiri chifukwa chake amakwaniritsa mawu amodzi kapena ena okhudza amphaka amphaka. Ndicho chifukwa chake palibe amene ali wopenga kwenikweni. Ofufuza a ku yunivesite ya California adapeza ngakhale mu kafukufuku kuti tsankho lachikale la mkazi wosungulumwa ndi amphaka ambiri ndi lopanda maziko: "Crazy Cat Lady" kulibe. Ndipo komabe: ndani amati nthawi zonse ndi mkazi wamphaka ...