Mary Allen
Musanayambe kupeza wachibale wanu watsopano kunyumba, mwina mumalota (monga ngati munthu amene adzakhale kholo) za momwe zidzakhalire kukhala ndi galu m'moyo wanu. Mungaganizire maulendo ataliatali, kuti muphunzitse galu wanu mitundu yonse ya zidule zoziziritsa kukhosi komanso kuti usiku uliwonse muyenera kubwera kunyumba kwa munthu amene amakulandirani mosangalala pakhomo.
Inde, dikirani.
Mwamtheradi - kukhala ndi galu ndizochitika zabwino, koma pali zinthu zingapo zomwe simungadziwe za kukhala mwini galu. Zinthu palibe amene anganene kwa inu.
Galu wanu adzatsegula dziko latsopano la zokoma
Koma mwina osati zokometsera zomwe mungakonde. Mnzanu watsopano atha kukhala ndi zokonda zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi zanu, monga ma peel akale a nthochi, zopukutira zakale kapena bwanji osachita zimbudzi.
Galu wanu adzakupangitsani kumva zinthu zomwe simunamvepo
Ndipo malingaliro awa sadzakhala nthawi zonse chikondi ndi kunyada kwakukulu (komabe, mudzamva izi ndi). Zomwe mukumva zingakhalenso zala zanu mkati mwa galu kuti muyese kutenga ma peel a nthochi kapena zopukutira.
Galu wanu adzayenda nawe maulendo ataliatali
Mwina pakati pausiku, 3 koloko m'mawa, kapena m'malo omaliza a mndandanda womwe mumakonda. Pamene chilengedwe chimayitana kapena galu wanu ali ndi mimba yokhumudwa (atatha kudya chinthu chomwe mulibe nthawi yoti mutuluke mkamwa mwake), bwenzi lanu latsopano lidzakutengerani koyenda nthawi zina zomwe simunasankhe. Koma, sangalalani ndi malo ozungulira usiku. Yang'anani pa nyenyezi. Lolani galuyo kutenga nthawi ndikuyang'ana m'malo mwake momwe ubale wanu umalimbikitsidwira ndi maulendo ausiku awa.
Galu wanu adzakupangitsani kupeza madera atsopano
Lidzafika tsiku limene mudzalola galu wanu kuyenda popanda chingwe ndipo akuganiza kuti njira yomwe mwasankha si yofanana ndi yomwe akufuna kuyendamo. Galu amasankha njira yatsopano ndi uthenga. Mwina njira yomwe simukuidziwa bwino. Tikukhulupirira, mwavala nsapato zothamanga, chifukwa kuyenda kwanu momasuka kudayamba kukhala kuthamanga.
Galu wanu adzakuphunzitsani zonse za khalidwe loyenera
Monga mwini galu watsopano, mwina mudzapita ku mtundu wina wa galu kuti galu wanu apeze mikhalidwe yabwino kwambiri yoleredwa bwino ndikukhala gawo logwira ntchito la anthu. Kapena? Si galu yekha amene ayenera kuphunzitsidwa, komanso inu monga mwini watsopano. Galu wanu akangozindikira kuti ndinu opusa, maphunziro enieni amayamba. Ndi liti pamene kuli koyenera kupatsa galu masiwiti? Tisewera liti? Kodi nthawi yoyenda ndi liti?
Galu wanu adzatsegula dziko latsopano la zonunkhira
"Ndi fungo lanji limenelo?" Ndi funso lomwe mungadzifunse nokha. N'zosakayikitsa kuti fungo limachokera kwa galu kapena chinachake chimene galu wakokera. Fungo ndi chinthu chomwe inu ndi galu wanu mudzafunika kukambirana, chifukwa chomwe chimakupangitsani kumva kuti "wow!" zingapangitse galu wanu kumva "zosangalatsa!".
Galu wanu adzakuphunzitsani chinenero chatsopano
Galu wanu watsopano akamadutsa pakhomo la nyumba yake yatsopano, mudzaphunzira chinenero chatsopano - chinenero chomwe chili penapake pakati pa zokambirana za ana ndi macheza omasuka omwe inu nokha ndi galu wanu mungamvetse. Chilankhulo ichi chidzakhala chanu ndipo chidzakhala chosiyana kwambiri ndi malamulo omwe mukufuna kuti galu wanu amvetsere.
Galu wanu adzakuphunzitsani tanthauzo lenileni la mawuwo
Mutha kuganiza kuti "kutenga" kumatanthauza "tenga mpira womwe ndakuponyerani". Mutha kuganiza kuti “bwerani kuno” zikutanthauza “choka pamenepo ndi kubwera kuno kwa ine”. Galu wanu adzayang'ana kwambiri malamulowa monga malingaliro a momwe angachitire. “Kubweza” kungatanthauze mosavuta kuti “Ndikufuna kukuthamangitsani!” ndipo “bwerani kuno” angatanthauzenso “khalani pomwepo ndi kundiyang’ana”.
Galu wanu adzakonza ndondomeko yanu
Agalu ndi nyama zokonda kudya. Loweruka m'mawa, mutatha sabata lalitali lantchito ndi AW Lachisanu, mungafune kugona ndikupeza tulo tokongola. Zingatani Zitati. Galu wanu mwina ali ndi dongosolo losiyana kwambiri pano. Mwina chifukwa kugona m'mawa si chinthu cha agalu. M'maŵa wogona ndi amphaka.
Galu wanu nthawi zonse amakhala wokonzeka kupsopsona chonyowa
Ngakhale pamene mpweya wanu suli pachimake, galu wanu alipo, wokonzekera chikondi. Kumbukirani kuti zomwe zimanunkhiza kwa munthu zimatha kukhala kumwamba kwa mphuno ya galu. Ndipo chomwe chili chabwino kwambiri ndichakuti galu wanu samadziwa mpweya wake ngati nsomba ndipo amayembekeza kukupsompsonani konyowa!
Galu wanu adzakhalapo nthawi zonse kuti azimvetsera (kapena kunamizira)
Ngati palibe wina woti amvetsere pamene mukudandaula za tsiku lanu loipa, kapena mukamafotokozera zaposachedwa kwambiri pagulu lanu la agalu adothi, kapena nthawi yomwe mudawona munthu wotchuka wa C mu golosale - ndiye galu wanu alipo ndipo kumvetsera kunasintha mawu aliwonse.
Galu wanu nthawi zonse adzakhala chowiringula chabwino
"Ndiyenera kuyenda galu", "galu amafunika chakudya". Inu. Ndikungovomereza. Mwamva kale zifukwa izi za mwini galu wina yemwe wachoka paphwando lanu. Koma, zikomo! Tsopano mutha kupezanso zida zatsopano zodzikhululukira mukafuna kupita kunyumba msanga kuchokera kuphwando, kapena mukafuna kukacheza m'makutu a mnzanu yemwe sangasiye kudandaula za kuwonjezera kwatsopano kwa agalu ake adothi.
Galu wanu adzasunga zinsinsi zanu zonse
Simudzayenera kulamula galu wanu kuti "osauza aliyense". Zinsinsi zanu zonse zidzasungidwa bwino pakati pa makutu okongola atsitsi. Ndipo chomwe chili chabwino ndikuti galu wanu samasamala kuti chinsinsi chanu chachikulu ndi chiyani - popeza chinsinsi chanu sipamene mumabisa maswiti agalu.
Galu wanu adzapatsa mawu oti "zopanda malire" tanthauzo latsopano
Galu wanu adzakukondani mopanda malire. Ziribe kanthu momwe mumawoneka, momwe mulili, kapena nthabwala zanu ndi zonyansa bwanji. Galu wanu adzaganiza kuti ndinu munthu wozizira kwambiri, wozizira kwambiri, wodabwitsa kwambiri woyenda mu nsapato. Palibe amene angakuyerekezere ndi inu. Chifukwa chakuti inu ndi galu wanu mudzakhala mabwenzi apamtima, mudzachita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti mukhale munthu amene galu wanu amakuganizirani ndikuyesera kukonda galu momwe amakukonderani. Mudzapambana, koma musadandaule ngati simukwaniritsa zofunikira tsiku lililonse. Kupatula apo, ndiwe munthu chabe.