Mary Allen
E like me ka mea ʻaʻole hoʻokahi ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hoʻokahi wale nō manaʻo. ʻOi aku ka makaʻu a makaʻu paha kekahi mau ʻīlio ma mua o nā ʻīlio ʻē aʻe. 'Ōlelo kekahi i ka naʻau kiʻekiʻe. He eha a he makana paha? ʻO ka hānau hānau a i loaʻa paha?
Hoʻi hope ʻo Shushu kāne ʻano hui ʻia mai kēlā me kēia pahu ʻōpala i ka pōʻeleʻele a lilo i mea ʻino loa i ka ʻike ʻana i nā brooms a me nā umbrellas. Hoʻopuka ʻo Shushu i kāna nane, wahi a ke kahu ʻo Tatjana S. * mai ka Zurich Unterland. "Ua loaʻa iaʻu mai kona wā liʻiliʻi, ʻaʻohe mea i loaʻa iā ia." Manaʻo pinepine ʻo ia ʻaʻole pono ka ʻīlio kāne e hana pēlā. A laila, minamina hou ʻo ia iā ia. He mimosa anei ka Shushu?
ʻO ka Mimosa kahi huaʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻole. Mai ka pua e ʻālohilohi ana i nā leo viole a i ʻole melemele. ʻO kahi lāʻau paʻakikī a paʻakikī hoʻi, e pelu ana i kona mau lau ma kahi liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ka makani makani a noho ma kēia kūlana pale no ka hapalua hola ma mua o ka wehe hou ʻana. No laila, kapa ʻia nā kānaka a me nā holoholona ma muli o ka mimosa.
Pono ʻo ia e hele i kēlā - ʻaʻole anei?
ʻIke ʻia ka sensitivity kiʻekiʻe i nā kūlana he nui a pili pinepine i nā ʻike āpau. ʻO ke kani ʻana o ka uaki i manaʻo ʻia he mea hoʻonāukiuki, ʻo ka ʻala o ka pauda i ka Pōʻalua o ka makahiki hou, a i ʻole he uila ʻālohilohi loa. He nui nā ʻīlio i maʻa pinepine i ka hoʻopā ʻana, ʻaʻole makemake e hoʻopā ʻia e nā malihini, a moe paha ma ka papahele paʻa i loko o ka hale ʻaina.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻoluʻolu loa nā mea koʻikoʻi, ʻike i nā naʻau maikaʻi loa a me nā haʻalulu, ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻopunipuni iā lākou iho e ko lākou mau hoa. "ʻAʻole i loaʻa i nā kānaka a me nā holoholona i hānau ʻia i ka kānana i loko o kā lākou ʻōnaehana nerve e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā mea koʻikoʻi mai nā mea hoʻoulu ʻole ʻole," wehewehe ʻo Bela F. Wolf i kāna puke "He koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi kāu ʻīlio?". I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa wale i ka leo hoʻonāukiuki a i ʻole nā ʻala maikaʻi ʻole, ke kū mau nei ʻoe me lākou. E like me ka ʻenekini kaʻa e hoʻihoʻi mau loa ana. A no ka mea pono e hana mua ʻia kēia mau mea hoʻoulu, hiki ke hoʻonui ʻia ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana o nā hormones stress.
ʻAʻole he mea hou ka ʻike kiʻekiʻe. Ua aʻo ʻia ia i hoʻokahi haneli i hala e ka physiologist Lūkini ʻo Ivan Petrovich Pavlov. Ua ʻike ʻo Pavlov, ʻo ia ka mea i ʻike ʻia no kāna ʻike ʻana i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa maʻamau (ʻo ia ka mea i loaʻa iā ia ka makana Nobel), ua ʻike ʻo ia ʻo ka maʻalahi ke kumu e hana ʻokoʻa ai ʻoe i kekahi mau kūlana ma mua o ka mea i manaʻo ʻia. A me ka naʻau o nā holoholona. Hoʻi hope, hoʻi hope, a huhū paha. No ka mea ʻaʻole hiki i ka poʻe nona ke hoʻomaopopo i kēlā ʻano ʻano, hoʻopaʻi lākou i kā lākou ʻīlio a koi aku paha iā lākou e waiho. Wahi a ka motto: "Pono ʻo ia e hele i kēlā!" I ka wā lōʻihi, he koʻikoʻi nā hopena a alakaʻi i nā maʻi kino a noʻonoʻo paha. A ʻaʻole like me nā kānaka, hiki ke mālama i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, waiho mau ʻia nā ʻīlio i kā lākou hana ponoʻī.
Hoʻomanaʻo i ka Traumatic Experience
No laila pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā paʻakikī loa kāu ʻīlio? Inā ʻoe e noiʻi liʻiliʻi, e ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mau nīnau nīnau i manaʻo ʻia e hāʻawi i ka ʻike. Ua mākaukau ʻo Wolf i kāna puke a nīnau i nā nīnau e like me "Ua maʻalahi kāu ʻīlio i ka ʻeha?" kamaʻilio pū kekahi me ia i ka manawa like a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke pakele i ke kūlana?" a "Ua ʻike ʻia paha kāu ʻīlio me ka maʻi ʻaʻai i kekahi mau meaʻai?" Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke pane ʻae i ka hapalua o kāna mau nīnau 34, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka ʻīlio.
ʻO kēia predisposition ka mea maʻamau, ʻaʻole ia e maʻalahi ke ʻike. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi me ka hypersensitivity i loaʻa ma muli o kahi ʻike traumatic i hoʻomanaʻo ʻia a hoʻomanaʻo ʻole ʻia e ka ʻīlio i kekahi mau kūlana. Maʻaneʻi hiki iāʻoe ke hana ma ia mea - ma ka liʻiliʻi ināʻikeʻia ke kumu. I ka poʻe, kapa ʻia kēia ma ke ʻano he post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), he hopena noʻonoʻo lohi i kahi hanana koʻikoʻi i hele pū ʻia me nā hōʻailona e like me ka huhū, ka makaʻala, a me ka lele.
ʻO ka Sensitivity ma kahi o Alpha Throw
No Wolf, hiki i nā ʻike traumatic ke alakaʻi i ke kaumaha i nā ʻīlio a i ʻole ka huhū leash i ʻike pinepine ʻia. Manaʻo ʻo Wolf e hāʻawi ka PTSD i ka wehewehe no nā mea āpau e hoʻonāukiuki i nā ʻīlio. "Akā ʻo ia ka mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia e nā kula ʻīlio a me nā mea aʻo." He kūlana e alakaʻi i ka lawelawe hewa. No ka laʻana, haʻi ʻo ia i ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo alpha throw, kahi e hoʻolei ʻia ai ka ʻīlio ma kona kua a paʻa a waiho ʻia. "ʻO ka hakakā ʻana i kahi holoholona me ke kumu ʻole a me ka makaʻu ʻana iā ia i ka make ʻaʻole ia he hana ʻino wale i nā holoholona, akā he uhaki hilinaʻi hoʻi i ka ʻaoʻao o ka mea nona," wahi a ke kauka holoholona. ʻAʻole kiki, kuʻi, a hoʻouna paha ka hopena, akā ʻo ka ʻaoʻao. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua ʻike mua kahi ʻīlio traumatized i ka hana ʻino.
He mea kōkua inā loaʻa iā ia ka manawa e hoʻomaha ai i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, ʻaʻole pono e hoʻomanawanui i nā kūlana koʻikoʻi, a he hana maʻamau i kēlā me kēia lā. Wahi a Wolf, akā naʻe, inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻōla iā ia, ʻo ka mea mua āu e makemake ai ʻo ke aloha pau ʻole, ke aloha, a me ka noʻonoʻo.