UMary Allen
Abantu abadala kanye nezinyane lekati ngokuvamile bangagcinwa ndawonye, kodwa kunezinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzikhumbule. Thola lapha ukuthi ukugcina ikati elidala nekati elincane ndawonye kungasebenza kanjani nokuthi yini wena njengomnikazi okufanele uyigweme.
Ukugcina amakati amancane nabadala ndawonye kungasebenza kahle kakhulu. Akukhathalekile ukuthi ngumama nekati lakhe noma amanye amakati amabili. Ngoba into eyinhloko ukuthi ikati elidala lihambisana kahle namanye amakati noma cha: uma ikati lomama ngokuvamile lihlala njengekati elilodwa, lingakwazi ukwenqaba ingane yakhe ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa. Ngokuphambene, kukhona namakati amadala azwana kakhulu nabantu abangabazi kanye nemininingwane encane.
Uma usuvele unekati elidala futhi ufuna ukuthola osemncane, kusafanele unake izinto ezimbalwa.
Yamukela Amazinyane Avela Ezindlini
Amakati anonyaka owodwa ubudala angasasho ukuthi “Oh, yeka ukuthi amahle!” ukukhala kuvame ukuphelela ezindlini zezilwane. Kodwa-ke, la makati angafanelana kahle njengamakati esibili. Inzuzo yabo ukuthi sebevele behlangene kahle namanye amakati, kodwa basazimisele ukufunda nokuzivumelanisa nezimo.
Kuyafaneleka ukubheka ngokukhethekile ikati elinjalo. Ngonyaka owodwa, amakati ayashesha, anamandla, futhi ayadlala, awanawo umoya ophakeme futhi awuhlakaniphe njengoba ayenjalo engxenyeni yonyaka edlule. Futhi ikati elidala elidala lingase lijabule ukuthi akufanele libekezelele ubuhlungu obukhulu embongolo.
Imfundo Yentsha Ngekati Elidala
Amakati, njengomdlwane, ajabulela ukuvikelwa komdlwane, kodwa kuphela lapho emancane ngempela, hhayi njalo. Ngokushesha kuzodingeka badlale ngemithetho yamakati amadala. Lokhu bakufunda kusukela phakathi nezinyanga ezintathu kuze kube yilapho sebenonyaka owodwa ubudala, nakuba isigaba sokufunda singapheli. Lesi sikhathi sokufundisa nokufunda singaba usizo ekuhlanganiseni ikati elincane nelidala, ngoba ikati elidala lamukela osemusha elisengakwazi “ukuqeqesha” ngokwemithetho yalo, okungenzeka libe ngcono kunekati elidala ngokulinganayo.
Kungcono ukugwema izinhlamvu ezidlulele
Kungaba yinkinga uma ikati lokuqala lingeyena ngempela umphathi futhi manje selibhekene nesimbangi ezinyangeni ezingcono kakhulu zokuphamba. Maningi amacala anjalo, agcina ngokuthi ikati lokuqala licasuke kakhulu. Abantu akufanele bakhohlwe ikati labo lokuqala elidala ngenxa nje yokuthi ikati elihle selingenile. Ngakho-ke, njengomnikazi, yenza isinqumo esinengqondo sokuthatha isikhathi sekati lakho elikhulile.
Umgomo kufanele kube ukuthula kwasekhaya ngaso sonke isikhathi. Futhi uthola lokho ngokuhlanganisa izinhlamvu kahle.
Isilwane esincane esinamahloni sihamba kangcono nekati elidala eligciniwe. Ikati lokuqala elibusayo nalo lizozwana nekati elihlathini.
Kungcono ukungabhanqi umehluko wezinhlamvu owedlulele, okungukuthi ungabeki kitten ethukile phambi kwe-Rambo tomcat. Ngisho nekati elidala elithulile kanye nekati elinamahloni, elijabule alihambisani.
Abadala Bamakati Badinga Ukuphumula
Akuwona umqondo omuhle ngokuzumayo ukuphonsa kitten encane phambi kwekati elikhulu. Amakati amadala ngokuvamile adinga ukuphumula nokunakwa okwengeziwe kubanikazi bawo. Awanyakazi kakhulu njengoba ayejwayele futhi adinga ukudla okukhethekile. Ikati elincane eline-hyper aliyena neze umlingani ofanele wesikhulu sekati.