UMary Allen
Ngezinye izikhathi kuthatha isandla esingaguquki ekuqeqesheni ikati. Futhi akhona amaphethini wokuziphatha okufanele ama-kitties ahehe. Kodwa-ke, kukhona ukuziphatha kwekati okuvamile okungafanele uvimbele ikati lakho ukuthi likwenze.
Ingabe ububovu bakho buyakuhlanyisa ngokuziphatha kwakhe? Kuthiwani uma ephinda ecasha ngemva kweshalofu lezincwadi, ashanele inkomishi yetop top, noma eklwebha imicamelo? Noma kunjalo, akufanele wenqabele ikati lakho ekwenzeni lokhu - okungenani hhayi ngokuphelele. Lapha ungathola ukuthi kungani.
Fihla
Amakati avame ukuba nedumela lokuzimela. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kufanele. Ngoba amakati athanda ukuzinqumela ukuthi afuna ukusondela nini futhi isikhathi esingakanani kubantu bawo. Futhi lapho izinto zibacindezela kakhulu, bahlehla baye ezindaweni zabo zokucasha. Futhi kufanele sibanikeze lokhu kuhoxa.
Udokotela wezilwane u-Wendy Hauser uchazela “Insider”: “Abanikazi bamakati akufanele baphoqe amakati abo ukuba anake. Nakuba amakati ejabulela ukunakwa komuntu, akhetha ngemithamo emincane kunezinja, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ngokwawo. Abanikazi kufanele bahloniphe lezi zidingo eziyisisekelo zabangane babo bekati futhi bangalokothi bazibophezele kuzo, isibonelo bangazibambeli ngokuphambene nentando yabo. ”
Gxumela Ku-Sideboard
Amanye amakati athanda ukugibela phezu kwetafula noma etafuleni lasekhishini ngenkathi ukudla kupheka esitofini. Akunankinga ekuqaleni - inqobo nje uma bengaphusheli izinto phansi namakati abo. Noma kunjalo, abanikazi bamakati abaningi bayaphazanyiswa yilokhu kuziphatha. Ukuvimbela lokhu ukuthi kungenzeki, abangakwenza nje wukuzama ukuphazamisa ama-pussies abo ngaphambi kokuba bagxumele ebhodini.
Kodwa yini engasebenzi nhlobo: vele ucindezele ikati phansi. Ngokwenza kanjalo, ungamlimaza, hhayi nje ngokomzimba kodwa nangokwengqondo. Imiphumela yesikhathi eside ingaba izinkinga zokuziphatha, isibonelo. Kunalokho, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi uphathe ikati lakho ngokuqapha.
Scratch
Yebo, ukufunde ngendlela efanele. Kunjalo, akulungile ukuthi ikati lakho likunwaye. Kodwa-ke, sivame ukufaka isandla singahlosile ekutheni lokhu kwenzeke ngokwethu. Isibonelo, lapho sivumela ama-pusses ethu adlale ngezandla zethu. Ukunwaya iphephadonga noma ifenisha nakho kuwela esigabeni "sokuziphatha kwekati okungafuneki".
Noma kunjalo, ngeke ukwazi ukuyekisa ikati lakho ekwenzeni lokhu, ingasaphathwa eyokukwenqabela. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukunikeza ikati lakho indawo efanelekile yokuklwebha. Ngokwesibonelo ngendlela yokuklwebha okuthunyelwe.
Umvuzo Esikhundleni Sokujezisa
Ingabe ikati lakho libonisa ukuziphatha okungafuneki? Khona-ke kubalulekile ukuthi ungabajezisi, kodwa sebenzisa ezinye izindlela zokuvimbela ukuba benze kanjalo. Abaqeqeshi bezilwane, isibonelo, bavame ukutusa ukuqiniswa okuhle. Esikhundleni sokumemeza noma mhlawumbe ngisho nokubajezisa ngokomzimba uma amakati enza okuthile okungalungile, ungawavuza ngokuwaphatha kahle, ngokumbambatha, noma udlale ndawonye uma eziphatha ngendlela efiselekayo.
Ngoba ukuziphatha okuthile okungase kusikhathaze thina bantu ngokuvamile kuwukubonakaliswa kwezidingo zemvelo zamakati. Isibonelo, uma amakati elokhu egxuma phezu kompheme wasekhishini, angase afune iphoyinti lapho angaba nombono omuhle wendawo yawo. Esikhundleni sokumjezisa ngakho, ungamane umise isihlahla sekati noma enye indawo ephakeme yokuphephela kuye.