UMary Allen
Izindaba ezinhle kunoma ubani onekati eliwolintshi: Izifundo eziningi nokuqaphelisisa kuvumelana ukuthi amakati anoboya obuwolintshi angase abe nobungane kunamanye. Umhlaba wezilwane zakho wembula ukuthi yini engemuva kwawo.
Inhlolovo yakamuva yabanikazi bamakati ibonise ukuthi amakati awolintshi ahlukaniswa njenganobungane ngokukhethekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokwemiphumela, umbala woboya uvame ukuxhunyaniswa nobulili bekati: Amakati e-Orange abesilisa kakhulu kunabesifazane.
Nakuba kungekho bufakazi besayensi ngalesi sihloko, kusekhona ubandlululo, okungenani phakathi kwabanye abanikazi bamakati, ukuthi ama-tomcat anobudlelwane kakhulu kunamakati.
Ngokuzimela kwalokhu, kwakukhona ucwaningo ngombala wejazi lamakati ekuqaleni kuka-1995. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, abacwaningi bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi ama-kitties anombala osawolintshi anamandla kakhulu kunezimo zabo. Umbono wakhe: “Mhlawumbe ngenxa yokubusa kanye nobuntu bawo obunesibindi, amakati awolintshi akhululeke kakhudlwana ukusondela kubantu kunamakati asabekayo, anamahloni.”
Ingabe Umbala Wejazi Unalo Ithonya Kusimo Senhliziyo Nokuziphatha Kwamakati?
Ingabe kuzwakala kungavamile ezindlebeni zakho ukuthi izici ezithile zihlobene nombala wejazi lakho? Eqinisweni, kunezinye izilwane lapho kunokuhlobana phakathi kokubukeka nokuziphatha, kuhlanganise namagundane nezinyoni. Incazelo eyodwa engase ibe khona: Izakhi zofuzo ezithile ezithonya ukuziphatha noma ezinye izici zomzimba zingazuzwa njengefa kanye nalabo abanomthwalo wemfanelo wombala wejazi.
Udokotela wezilwane uDkt. Karen Becker naye ukhuluma ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe namakati awolintshi kusizindalwazi sakhe esithi “Izilwane Ezifuywayo Ezinempilo”: “Uma ngicabanga ngawo wonke amakati awolintshi anomlingo engihlangane nawo eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-20 yomsebenzi wami, bekungeyona zinolaka noma ziyaphikisana. Empeleni zikhethekile kakhulu. ”