UMary Allen
Ukubukeka okujulile okunjalo okuvela emakati kungase kusabise kakhulu. Mhlawumbe yingakho uye wazibuza ukuthi kungani ikati lakho likugqolozele. Izizathu zingahlukahluka - umhlaba wakho wezilwane unikeza umbono jikelele.
Amakati anedumela lokungaqondakali ngesizathu. Phela, ukuziphatha okuningi okungokwemvelo kumakati kuyinto engavamile ngokombono womuntu. Isibonelo: ukugqolozela.
Ngoba nakuba thina bantu kufanele sicwayize futhi ngemva kwemizuzwana embalwa, amakati ngezinye izikhathi abonakala ekwazi ukubheka amehlo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala kusongela kakhulu. Kodwa ezimweni eziningi, ukubuka kwe-pussy yakho akuyona into yokukhathazeka ngakho.
Kungenzeka nokuthi umqeqeshe ukuthi azenzele wena - ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Amakati empeleni ayedwa, yingakho engavamile ukuzwa isifiso sokubheka amehlo. Nokho, amakati angafunda ukuziphatha uma elindele okuthile kuwo. Isibonelo, ukudla noma ukunakwa, kuchaza inhlangano yezenhlalakahle yezilwane yaseBrithani "Ukuvikelwa Kwamakati".
Isibonelo, uma uke waphakela noma waphulula ikati lakho esikhathini esedlule ngenkathi lifuna ukugqolozela, manje lingase lihlobanise ukubuka nalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle. Amakati meow ngesizathu esifanayo.
Ikati Lakho Likugqolozele Ngenxa Yothando
Ukubukana ngamehlo okujulile nakho kuwuphawu oluhle lobuhlobo bakho: Amakati mancane amathuba okuthi ashintshane ngokubuka isikhathi eside nomuntu angamethembi. Ukuhlonipha okukhethekile: uma ikati lakho licwayiza kancane ngenkathi lenza lokhu. Ngoba lokho kusho into ethi "Ngiyakuthanda" ngolimi lwekati.
Ukuziphatha ngokuvamile akukhathazi. Kodwa-ke, uma ikati lakho lingalokothi ligqolozele futhi kungazelelwe liqala ukugqolozela, kufanele ukhulume nodokotela wakho wezilwane ngakho ukuze akhiphe izinkinga zempilo.
Ngaphezu kwalesi simo sengqondo esihle, ukugqolozela kungabonisa nezinye izimo ezingokomzwelo. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ucabangele lonke ulimi lomzimba ekuhlaziyeni kwakho. Inganikeza ulwazi mayelana nokuthi ikati lijabule yini, lithukuthele, noma liyesaba yini, kuchaza udokotela wezilwane u-Wailani Sung kokuthi “PetMD”.
Ingabe ikati lakho likhululekile futhi liyacwayiza phakathi? Khona-ke cishe unelisekile. Kubukeka kuhlukile uma umzimba ushubile, abafundi bavuleke nezindlebe zincike eceleni. Khona-ke ukubuka kungabonakala njengesixwayiso: ikati liqaphile futhi lifuna ukushiywa lodwa.
Abone Ukugqolozela Okwethusayo
Ingabe ikati lakho liyadada futhi mhlawumbe licashe ngaphansi kombhede ngenkathi likugqolozele? Bese ebonakala esaba okuthile. Lokhu kungase kuqaliswe, isibonelo, ngemisindo emikhulu ngaphakathi noma phambi kwendlu. Khona-ke kungasiza ukuzehlisa umoya kuqala ukuze ubonise ikati lakho ukuthi liphephile.
Kodwa-ke: Uma ikati lakho ligqolozele elinye ikati kunokuba ligqolozele wena, ngokuvamile libonisa ukuphakama kwalo. Njengokugqolozela abantu, kungenzeka ukuthi ikati lakho lingacwayizi.
Kunezizathu ezingokoqobo zalokhu: Njengezilwane ezidla ezinye, amakati kufanele akwazi ukubhekisisa inyamazane yawo. Amakati ngokwemvelo afuna ukubeka iso eliseduze endaweni yawo - futhi uyingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yendawo yawo, futhi ngendlela futhi ungumphakeli wokudla.