UMary Allen
Ukuthola ishawa yangempela enjeni esanda kugeza kuwukuzithokozisa okukhethekile okungakaze kuphunyuke noma ubani onenja.
Inja emanzi iyaqhaqhazela ukuze yome futhi ngokushesha okukhulu, (noma mhlawumbe ukubona ukusabela okuhlekisayo kukamama) kodwa ngezinye izikhathi umngane wakho angase aqhaqhazele nakuba ijazi lingamanzi? Lokhu kungase kube ngenxa yokukodwa kwalokhu okulandelayo:
Izinkinga zesikhumba ezilumayo noma ezilumayo
Njengoba wazi, izinja akulula ukuzinwaya umzimba wonke njengoba sinakho, ngakho-ke kungaba uphawu lokuluma, ikakhulukazi uma inja ivamise ukuba nama-eels phansi noma ikhuhla ifenisha.
Izindlebe ezicasukile
Ukutheleleka ezindlebeni, utwayi ezindlebeni, noma mhlawumbe inkeba yotshani noma enye into engene endlebeni, ngokuvamile kubangela inja ukuba inyakaze iphikelele, ikakhulukazi ekhanda. Naka kakhulu uma unenja enezindlebe ezinde noma uboya obuminyene kakhulu ezindlebeni, maningi amathuba okuba ihlaselwe yizifo ezindlebeni. Ukutheleleka kwezindlebe okuphindaphindiwe kungase kube ngenxa yokungezwani komzimba nezinto ezithile.
Kuyabanda
Njengoba nje ungase uqhumise “umlilo wabagibeli” noma unyakazise lapho uzizwa ubanda, inja ingase izithintithe, noma ithuthumele, ukuze ifudumale.
Inja ifuna ukunyakazisa into engathandeki
Kithina, kungase kube isisho, kodwa inja inganyakazisa ngokoqobo kokubili ukucindezeleka nezenzakalo ezingemnandi. Ngokuvamile inja inyakaza ngokuzenzekelayo, njengokusabela ngokomzimba. Lokhu akusho ukuthi inja inezinkinga. Ukuvevezela kungase kube indlela yokuthi inja izole kancane (njengalapho sidonsa umoya kakhulu) bese igxuma ijabule njengangaphambi kokuba ikati elesabekayo ligxumele phambili ngemva kocingo.