UMary Allen
Ezinye izinja zilala kangcono uma umnakekeli wazo elele eduze kwazo. Uma inja yakho ijabulela ukulala nawe futhi ilele kule ndawo, ibonisa ukwethembana kwangempela nesibopho esiqinile. Inja yakho izizwa ikhululekile futhi ivikelekile uma inawe. Izinja zibonisa uthando lwazo ngezindlela eziqondile kakhulu.
Kungani inja yami ihlale ifuna ukulala nami?
Kunoma yikuphi, ukulala ndawonye "ngephakethe lonke" kuyisidingo esijulile ezinjeni eziningi. Ukubonakaliswa kobumbano. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ungumlingani wakhe obaluleke kakhulu wokuxhumana nabantu. Noma umndeni wakho wonke.
Kusho ukuthini uma inja yami ingibhekile?
Empeleni kungaba nezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani inja yakho ikugqolozele. Eziningi zalezi zisukela kokungenangozi kuye kokuhle, kuyilapho ezinye zibonisa ukuziphatha okunolaka. Inja yakho ingase futhi izame ukukutshela ukuthi idinga ukuphuma noma ukuthi isitsha sayo samanzi asinalutho.
Kungani inja yami ingilalela?
Ukuthintana ngokomzimba kuwuphawu lothando
Inja yakho ifuna kuphela ukuthintana ngokomzimba nomuntu emkhathalela ngempela. Kodwa qaphela: Izinja azizona abalandeli bokugona njengathi abangani abanemilenze emibili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bakhetha ukujabulela ukusondelana ngokomzimba ngokugona kusofa noma ngokushaywa kakhulu.
Inja ilala kanjani lapho ikhululekile?
Izikhundla zokulala zivela kumuntu olele ovamile, othanda ukulala ngokugcwele emhlane wakhe, "ukuma kokuzivikela" okugoqekile kokuzwela okuncane. Izinja ezilala ngezinhlangothi zivule imilenze zikhululekile ngokuphelele. Bazizwa benethezekile futhi bephephile endaweni yabo.
Kungani inja yami ihlala ilala ekugcineni konyawo?
Lapho inja noma ikati lilele phansi onyaweni lombhede, lifuna ukusondela kuwe futhi libonise ukuthi lizinikele kuwe. Izilwane ezifuywayo ziphinde zikhethe lesi sikhundla lapho inkosi yazo noma inkosikazi yazo ingaphumuli: zingagxuma ziphume embhedeni ngokushesha uma izinto ziba matasa kakhulu kuzo.
Inja ikhombisa kanjani ukwethemba?
Inja ethemba abantu bayo iziqondisa kubo kuzo zonke izimo, ifika kubo ngenjabulo lapho ibiza futhi ifuna ukusondelana nabo, futhi ihlale ikulungele ukwenzela abantu bayo okuthile, ukusebenzisana nabo, isib B. ukulanda ibhola noma ukubonisa amaqhinga kubonisa umuntu uthando lwakhe.
Ingabe kuhle ukugona nenja?
I-Oxytocin ikhishwa emzimbeni ngesikhathi sokuxhumana, njengomama nengane yakhe noma umbhangqwana onothando. Ososayensi bayakufakazela: ukuthi ukugona izinja kunempilo! Izinja, njengabantu, zidinga ukuthintwa ngokomzimba ukuze zijabule. Izinja ziyizilwane ezipakishile.
Ngiyithola kanjani inja yami ukuthi igone nami?
Futhi uma ungathanda ukunikeza inja yakho ukunaka okuncane, bese uyonakalise ngeseshini yokuphulula noma yokumasaja: Stroke futhi unwaye inja yakho ngokunyakaza kokumasaja. Gxila ezithweni zomzimba inja yakho ethanda ukuzithinta kakhulu.
Inja yami igona kanjani nami?
Awukwazi ukufundisa ukugona, kodwa okungenani ungabonisa inja yakho ukuthi ingase ibe mnandi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele uthole indawo lapho inja yakho ithanda ukutotoswa noma ukubhucungwa bese ingena lapho. Isibonelo, izinja eziningi zithanda ukuklwejwa endlebeni.
Inja ilala kanjani uma inethezekile?
Umngane onemilenze emine olala ngomhlane uvamise ukwaneliseka kakhulu futhi ukhululekile. Amanye amakhala anoboya nawo alula imilenze yawo yangemuva. Ngokuvamile, kulesi sikhundla, esifana nesikhundla sesi-4, inja izozethemba kakhulu futhi ikhululeke, futhi ivikelekile endaweni eyizungezile.
Ithini indawo yokulala ngenja?
Izinja ezilala kanje zithambile, ziphathwa kalula, futhi zinesimilo esinothando. Indawo yokuthula isemaceleni. Uma inja yakho yenza lokhu, kusho ukuthi inethezekile futhi inethezekile endaweni eyizungezile, ayikwesabi izinsongo. Inja ohlangothini lwakhe cishe njalo inja ejabule.
Ingabe unyawo lwenja lungalala?
Kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi izinyawo zezilwane ngezinye izikhathi “ziyalala”. Uma lokhu bekungenzeka kaningi, ngizoba nodokotela wezilwane ukuthi akubhekisise ukuze ngibe sohlangothini oluphephile.
Kuhle uma inja ilala nawe embhedeni?
Ngokuyisisekelo, ukusondelana ngokomzimba kuhle enjeni nakumnikazi wayo. Ukulala embhedeni nenja kunomthelela wokuzola kubantu futhi kukhuthaza ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa nokuthi lunikeza abanikazi bezinja umuzwa wokuphepha nokuvikeleka.
Kungani izinja zifuna ukuphakanyiswa?
Kodwa uma ngempela kunesikhala esanele futhi inja yakho ifudumele kakhulu (hhayi kuphela lapho ushiswa ilanga kodwa futhi ngemva kokudlala noma ukuzulazula), umngane onemilenze emine uthanda ukulala yelule ngokuphelele ngohlangothi. Lesi sikhundla usibona kaningi ehlobo. Khona-ke i-paw enoboya ithanda ukuhlala kumathayela apholile.
Kungani inja yami ingaphumuli kangaka ebusuku?
Izizathu ezingaba khona zokungahlaliseki kwenja yakho ebusuku kungaba ukuthi esinyeni sayo siqinile, ifudumele kakhulu noma ike yaba nephupho elibi. Kodwa kungase kube nezizathu zempilo. Uma ungaqiniseki, kungcono ukuthintana nodokotela wezilwane.