UMary Allen
Abanye bakuthola kucasula, abanye bayakujabulela ukuba seduze: Uma ikati lihlezi phezu kwakho, kungaba nezizathu eziningi. Sichaza ezivame kakhulu lapha.
Noma ngabe okokulala, ukuthola ukutotoswa, noma ukukuvimbela emsebenzini - ikati lakho lihlala, lilale, futhi likugone ngaso sonke isikhathi? Akayedwa kulokhu: Amakati amaningi afana nalokhu kusondelana kwabantu bakubo. Okungenani inqobo nje uma ungazinqumela ukuthi ukutholwa nini, kangaki, futhi isikhathi esingakanani.
Wake wazibuza ukuthi kungani ikati lakho lithanda ukuhlala phezu kwakho kakhulu? Cishe kunezizathu eziningana zalokhu. UMarilyn Krieger, uchwepheshe wokuziphatha kwamakati, uchaza ezinye zazo.
Ngokwenza kanjalo, uyaqaphela ukuthi okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuncoma okukhulu kuwe: ngoba ikati lakho kufanele lithembele kuwe kakhulu lapho lihlala phansi emathangeni akho. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, angakuqinisa ukwethemba kwakhe.
“Uma unikeza ikati ithuba lokuzikhethela ukuthi lifuna ukuhlala emathangeni akho noma cha, futhi uma likwazi ukuhamba ngesikhathi lithanda, liyojulisa ukuthembela kwalo kuwe,” kuchaza uMarilyn Krieger kumagazini i-“Catster”.
Izilwane zakho zikutshela ukuthi kungani ikati lakho likhetha wena njengendawo yalo yokuphumula:
Ufudumele
Akuzwakali kunothando kakhulu, kodwa kukhona okuthile ngakho: Amakati athanda izindawo ezithokomele, ezifudumele. Yingakho bethanda ukuhlala ngasefasiteleni elangeni, kuma-heaters, noma phambi kweziko. Ukushisa komzimba wakho kusebenzela injongo efanayo kubo njengengubo kagesi ethokomele. Yebo, lokhu kusebenza futhi ngenye indlela: Ngekati elihlanza emathangeni akho, lifudumele kakhulu futhi likhululekile nakuwe.
Ikati Lakho Lifuna Ukunakwa Kwakho
Esinye isizathu sokuthi ikati lakho lizohlala phezu kwakho: Lena indlela eqinisekile yokuthola ukunaka kwakho. Phela, kunzima ukuyiziba uma ilele kuwe njengebhola elisindayo, eliphefumulayo loboya. Ngoba ngisho noma amakati evamisile - ngokungalungile - anedumela lokunganaki: Amakhithi amaningi athanda inkampani yethu futhi alangazelela ukunakwa kwethu.
Ngakho ikati lakho cishe lizama ukuthola ama-pats ambalwa. Ngenxa yalokho, uvuselela imizwa ejulile yokuxhumana. Ngoba, njengoba uMarilyn Krieger echaza: Lapho etotoswa, kukhumbuza amakati amaningi ngokulungiswa konina lapho beseyizinyane lekati.
Ingabe ikati lakho lixova umlenze wakho ngesikhathi esifanayo? Lolu wuphawu oluhle kakhulu lokuthi ukhululekile uma enawe njengamanje. Ngoba lokhu futhi kuwukuziphatha okuvela ezikhathini zezinyane lekati lapho ubomvu bakho bufuna ukuvuselela imibele kamama wakhe ngendlela enembile ngokunyakaza kokuxova.
Ikati Lakho Liyohlala Kuwe Ngoba Lingakunukela Kahle
Lapho ikati lakho lihlezi phezu kwakho, lizozwa imisindo nokunyakaza komzimba wakho eduze kakhulu. Ukuphefumula kwakho, ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakho - ekati lakho lawa amathoni apholile, afana nemisindo emhlophe esetshenziselwa ukulalisa izingane. Kungakho izidladla zethu zevelvet zilala ngokushesha kangaka lapho zizenza zikhululeke emathangeni ethu noma esiswini.
Enye ibhonasi yamakati: Ngephunga lakho elijwayelekile ekhaleni, azizwa ephephile futhi evikelekile.
Izingubo Zakho
Ikati lakho lingase lihlale phezu kwakho uma ugqoke ijakhethi yoboya bezimvu noma ukugeza okuthambile kunejakhethi yemvula yepulasitiki ebushelelezi noma izindwangu eziklwebhekayo. Ngoba ama-kitties akhetha izinto ezithambile, ezithokomele.
Ngokuzayo lapho ikati lakho lihlala phansi phezu kwakho, uzokwazi: Isizathu salokhu mhlawumbe inhlanganisela yesifiso sokusondelana, ukufudumala, ukuvikeleka, nokunethezeka. Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, isimemo sesikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye. Futhi uma wamukela lokhu, ubuhlobo nesidladla sakho sevelvet buzosondela kuphela!