UMary Allen
Ingabe ngezinye izikhathi uzizwa ujahwa ikati lakho? Ingabe uhlale ekulandela - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukuya ekhishini noma mhlawumbe ngisho nasendlini yokugezela? Kuningi kulokhu okungenzeka ukuthi ucabanga. Izilwane zakho zikutshela ukuthi kungani ikati lakho lingase likugijime.
Ikati Lakho Selijwayele Ukukulandela
Amanye amakati azibamba ngekhanda njengamakati ukuze alandele abantu bawo yonke indawo. Lena indlela amakati aziphatha ngayo komama bawo: Ayawasukela ngoba ukusondelana nonina kusho ukuvikelwa nokudla - kufana kakhulu nokuba seduze nabantu.
Ukuxubha nokuphulula amazinyane akho ngokuvamile kuzoqinisa lesi sibopho phakathi kwakho. Amanye amakati avele alandele abantu bawo ngenxa yelukuluku noma ngoba athanda ukuba senkampanini yawo. Ububi balokhu, nokho, ukuthi lapho amakati ehlala eduze kwabantu bawo, azwa ubuhlungu bangempela bokuhlukana nokucindezeleka lapho eyedwa.
Ikati Lakho Likugijimisa Ngoba Liyakuthanda
Uma ikati lakho lihlale likusukela, lokho empeleni kuwukuncoma okukhulu: Likukhethe njengomuntu elimthandayo. Mhlawumbe naye uzokukhombisa ukuthi ubekukhumbule.
Uma ungekho ekhaya emini, isibonelo, ngoba usebenza, ikati lakho lingase lingafuni ukukushiya wedwa kusihlwa. Cishe uthemba ukuthola eyodwa noma enye iyunithi yokudlala nokudlala.
Le yindlela Obuyisela ngayo Uthando Lwekati Lakho
Ikati lakho likukhombisa uthando lwalo - futhi ulijabulisa kakhulu uma ulikhombisa nelakho. Njengoba? Kuya ngokuncamelayo kwekati lakho. Ngenkathi amanye amakati ethanda ukudlala ngokunganaki, amanye afuna iseshini ye-cuddle enwetshiwe. Ngokufunda ukuqonda ulimi lomzimba wekati lakho, uzofunda ngokushesha ukuthi lingathanda ukutotoswa kuphi futhi kanjani.