Ava Williams
Akamuhle yini futhi bheka ukuthi muhle kanjani! U-Vanessa usenamasonto ayisithupha manje esithandwa sakhe futhi ulindele zonke izifiso ezivela emehlweni alo tsotsi. Uhlala ethola okwakamuva okunikezwa ukukhangisa. Ingubo yakhe yokulala ishintshwa kabili ngesonto ukuze inganuki, futhi ngesikhathi sokudla kwakusihlwa, uhlanganyela isinkwa ngasinye nomngane wakhe onemilenze emine. Izingxenye ezilinganayo ncamashi, kunjalo, ngoba ufuna ukungenzeleli.
Ukudla kwethu okuvamile kakade kuyinkinga kubantu, kodwa okufanayo ngezimpisi zethu zosofa? Lena inhlekelele yezempilo, iphupho elibi langempela.
UVanessa usho kahle uma kukhulunywa ngomngane wakhe onemilenze emine, njengezigidi zabanye abanikazi bezinja. Bonke baye bajika ngendlela engafanele emgwaqeni wothando lwezilwane ngesikhathi esithile. Nokho, izibiliboco nokudla kumane kuyisiqu esisodwa esixukwini esikhulu sokungaziphathi kahle. Ngoba impilo yangaphakathi engokomoya nayo ifuna ukondliwa, kodwa jabulisa ngezithako ezifanele futhi yilapho inkinga yangempela ilele khona. Siletha zonke lezi zilwane emhlabeni wethu futhi siziba izidingo zazo ezifanele izinhlobo zazo.
Lapho isikhohlakali esincane sesinathi, sicabangani ngami?
Inja inesikhathi esiningi sokusibheka nokufunda - ukuziphatha kwethu, ukunyakaza kwethu, ukuphefumula kwethu, ngisho nemizwa yethu. Lo mfana ohlakaniphile usebenzisa kabi ubuthakathaka bethu ukuze athole lokho akufunayo. Awasebenzi njengabantu, okungaba yinqaba, kodwa angakwazi ukuxhumana nemicimbi. Uma izikhiye zinkeneneza, siyahamba, noma uma inkosi iphethe izitsha zethu, kukhona ukudla okumnandi. Ngokuya ngobuhlanga nesimo, ukuxhumana nemicimbi kungase kuvele nakakhulu… noma cha. Futhi singathonya ngokuqaphela lokho abangani bethu abahlakaniphile abanemilenze emine abakucabangayo ngathi ngolimi lwethu lomzimba.
Kuleli qophelo, umbuzo ucishe uvele ngokuzenzakalelayo:
Kuyini ukucabanga?
Ingabe izinja zethu zingakwenza lokho? Masenze ngaphandle kwawo wonke ama-technical gibberish, akekho osiqondayo noma kunjalo. Sifingqa impendulo ngemisho emibili nje: Uma isidalwa sibona/sibona isimo bese sithatha lesi sigameko ngenye indlela yokwenza futhi izenzo zaso zithonywe yiso, lokhu kucabanga singakubiza ngonembeza ohlanzekile.
Izinja zethu, okungenani eziningi zazo, zingakwazi ukubona ukuxhumana okuyinkimbinkimbi futhi zikufake ezenzweni zazo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uVanessa okukhulunywe ngaye ekuqaleni akaphethe, kodwa inja yakhe inquma ukuthi izoya kuphi. Ikanye naye, inja izibona njengenkosi yendlu futhi uVanessa ukhona kuphela ukuze amnikeze ukudla ngesikhathi. Cishe uhlale eyibuka, ngaphandle kwalapho elele, enelisekile futhi egxilile, engutsheni yakhe—enuka njenge-lilac lapho isanda kuwashwa. Iningi labangane be-canine bazi okuncane kakhulu ngabangane babo kanye nomhlaba omangalisayo owabo. Noma uyazi ukuthi kwenzekani enjeni lapho ingane igona umngane onemilenze emine ngothando? Kuye ngohlobo nesimo, inja ngayinye ibona lokhu kuziphatha njengokuzithoba, ngoba emhlabeni wezinja, yizinga eliphansi kuphela eliya kwilungu lephakethe eliphezulu. Ohlala naye ongcolile ucabanga ukuthi izingane zisephaketheni elingezansi kwakhe. Umphumela uba izibalo lapho abantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi izingane, belunywa izinja eziqeqeshwe kabi.
Lokhu akufanele kudidaniswe nokudumisa kwezinja ezisebenzayo uma zenze umsebenzi omuhle, njengoba lapha kuwukuqinisekisa okuhle kwesenzo esihle. Nokho, lokhu kwenzeka kancane ngokujabula, kodwa ikakhulukazi ngokuncoma ngomlomo, lapho inja ibona iphimbo nokuthinta komzimba ... futhi izihlole.
Ukungaqondi
Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abangani abanemilenze emibili nemine ngokuvamile abakhulumi ulimi olufanayo, ngakho omunye umane akaqondi ukuthi omunye ufunani. Ake sithi uvumela inja yakho ukuthi igxumele kusofa wakho futhi ngezikhathi ezithile yenza indawo yokuphumula ethokomele lapho. Ngaphandle kweqiniso lokuthi umngane wakho onemilenze emine ucabanga ukuthi ukhuphukile esigabeni sephekhi, uzovame ukulala kule ndawo ethokomele kusukela manje kuqhubeke.
Kwesinye isikhathi, ngeke usakubona. Kodwa ngolunye usuku ufuna ukucambalala wena kule ndawo bese umemeza ohlala naye: Yehla. Isimemezelo sakho sinomsindo futhi sicacile - ngeshwa kuphela kubantu. Kodwa inja ayikuqondi ukuziphatha kwakho. Kuphakathi kokuthi ngokungeneliseki ususa indawo ayithandayo noma uvikela impahla yakhe. Ukuze kungabikho ukungezwani: Akuyona inkinga uma inja yakho iza kuwe isofa. Kodwa uma uyivumela ngokucacile noma uma i-rascal encane ilungela kusofa njengendaba. Ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi unemithetho ecacile zisuka nje egxilisa inja ezweni layo lemicabango: usofa uyindawo yomphathi wethu wamaphakethe.
Ukulwela indawo efiselekayo kusofa kuyisibonelo esisodwa, kodwa singasetshenziswa kwezinye izimo eziningi.
Singathonya ukucabanga kwenja yethu ngokubukeka nokuziphatha kwethu uma sazi umhlaba wezinja nemithetho yawo yephakethe.