UMary Allen
Inja yakho iphakamisa izidladla zayo, futhi awusho ukuthi, “Nginike udladla”? Ngalokhu, umngane onemilenze emine ubonisa ukuthi uqhuba kanjani. Lesi simo singabonisa ukulangazela - noma ukwesaba nokucindezeleka.
Ulimi lomzimba wenja luyajabulisa futhi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuluchaza. Ngokwesibonelo, ukutshikizisa umsila womngane onemilenze emine akukwazi ukuveza injabulo kuphela kodwa nokwesaba noma ulaka. Lokhu kufana nalapho inja yakho iphakamisa izidladla zayo. Lokhu kukhombisa imizwa eyahlukene kuye ngomongo.
Odokotela bezilwane kanye nochwepheshe bokuziphatha bahlukanisa phakathi kokuphakamisa izidladla ngenxa yengcindezi noma ukwesaba, ukulindela, nokugxilisa ingqondo:
Udladla Oluphakanyisiwe Njengophawu Lokungavikeleki
Ngezinye izikhathi izinja ziphakamisa izidladla zazo ezimweni lapho zizwa zisongelwa noma zisengozini. Lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi bakhathazekile noma bacindezelekile njengamanje. Lokhu kubonakala ikakhulukazi lapho inja nayo idonsa umsila wayo futhi iqala ukuqoshama.
Uma ubona lezi zimpawu zokucindezeleka enjeni yakho, kufanele uyithulise ngokuyincenga nangezwi elithambile. Ngakho-ke ubonisa inja yakho ukuthi okwamanje akukho usongo nokuthi ingakwazi ukuzola.
Inja Iphakamisa Isidladla Ilindele
Kodwa ukuphakamisa i-paw kungase kwenzeke ngesizathu esihluke ngokuphelele: kusukela ekujabuleni nasekujabuleni. Abanikazi bezinja bavame ukuqaphela ukuthi abangani babo abanemilenze emine baphakamisa izidladla zabo lapho, ngokwesibonelo, bebona ubumnandi. Lokhu kuvame ukuhambisana nokubuka okujabulisayo nezindlebe eziqaphile. Khona-ke inja iqaphile ngokuphelele.
Ukugxila Ngokugcwele
Ikakhulukazi, izinja zokuzingela zingaphakamisa izidladla zazo lapho zikhetha umzila. Lokhu kuzokukhombisa ukuthi umngane wakho onemilenze emine ugxile ngokuphelele entweni. Umzimba wonke uqinile futhi uhlale ulungele ukugijima, ukujaha noma ukudonsa inyamazane.
Kodwa izinja zezinye izinhlobo nazo ngezinye izikhathi ziphakamisa izidladla zazo zangaphambili lapho zizwa iphunga elimangalisayo futhi zifuna ukulihogela.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinja zingase ziphakamise izidladla zazo kwezinye izimo, kuhlanganise phakathi nokudlala noma ukukhombisa amalungu amadala nasezingeni eliphezulu ohlobo olufanayo ukuthi azilona usongo. Lesi sakamuva kwesinye isikhathi sibuye sihlotshaniswe nemizwa yokwesaba nokuzithoba. Ezinye izinja zibuye zibonise lokhu kuphakamisa okuzithobayo kwezidladla zazo lapho zithukwa noma zijeziswa abanikazi bazo.
Uma inja yakho ibeka isidladla emlenzeni wakho noma ikunwaya kahle, cishe ifuna ukukunaka. Okokugcina, inja yakho izophinde iphakamise izidladla zayo lapho uzilolongela.
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