UMary Allen
Azisekho izilwane eziyisimungulu: onogwaja bakhombisa ngokusobala ukuthi baqhuba kanjani - kufanele nje ubhekisise futhi uhumushe kahle indlela oziphatha ngayo onezindlebe ezinde. Ngoba uma uqonda ulimi onogwaja, uzojabula kakhulu ngegundane lakho futhi ungenza ngokushesha ezimeni eziphuthumayo.
Uma unogwaja ekunyakazisa ekhaleni, lokhu kuwuphawu oluhle. “Lokhu kuwuphawu oluthophayo lokuthi unogwaja akesabi, kodwa uzizwa ekhululeke ngokuphelele lapho ekhona umnikazi wawo,” kusho u-Esther Schmidt, umbhali wezincwadi eziningi zogwaja.
Ngakho lapho ushukumisa ikhala lakho, ungajabula futhi uthophe. Ukugxuma uzungeza futhi uhlola ngokumangalisayo indawo nakho kuyizimpawu ezinhle.
Uma unogwaja wakho ekukhotha isandla sakho, ungase futhi ujabule: Lena indlela umuntu wakho onezindlebe ezinde abonisa ngayo uthando lwakhe kuwe. Khona-ke ungowesizwe sonogwaja ngokusemthethweni. Izilwane nazo ziveza ukuphila kahle ngokugedla amazinyo azo ngobumnene - isibonelo lapho ziphulula noma zixubha.
Ulimi Logwaja: Qaphela Izimpawu Eziphuthumayo
Uma, ngakolunye uhlangothi, unogwaja wakho ungahambi kahle futhi usezinhlungwini, isibonelo, ubonisa lokhu ngokugedla amazinyo akhe phezulu. Isimo sishubile futhi isilwane sinovalo. Bangase futhi baziphathe ngokunganaki futhi amehlo abo azobe efiphele. Bese uthatha isinyathelo ngokushesha bese uyisa unogwaja kudokotela wezilwane.