UMary Allen
Ukungakwazi ukushiya inja yodwa ekhaya kuyinkinga abanikazi bezinja abaningi ababhekana nayo. Iqhinga liwukuqala kancane kancane ukuqeqeshwa uwedwa lapho umdlwane usemncane.
Ezinye izinja ziyakhala, zikhala noma zikhonkothe lapho zishiywe zodwa, ezinye zenza izidingo zazo endlini noma zigqekeze. Ukuze ugweme izinkinga zesikhathi esizayo, kuhle ukuqala ukuqeqesha inja ukuba ibe yodwa kakade lapho iwumdlwane. Umgomo uwukuba inja izole futhi ingakhathazeki uma ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uyishiye. Kodwa qala ukuqeqeshwa isikhathi esifushane kakhulu, kungase kwanele ukushiya umdlwane imizuzu embalwa ngenkathi uphuma nodoti. Futhi zizwe ukhululekile ukuthatha ithuba lokuqeqesha lapho umdlwane usanda kuzalwa futhi ukozela kancane.
Ungaqala Kanjani - Nawa Amathiphu ayi-5:
Okokuqala, qeqesha umdlwane ukuba ube wedwa kwelinye igumbi ngenkathi usasekhaya. Qinisekisa ukuthi umdlwane unombhede wawo kanye namathoyizi athile, futhi ukhiphe izinto ongazilimaza kuzo noma ongazibhubhisa.
Ithi “Sawubona-ke, woza maduze”, uma uya, futhi hlala usho into efanayo njalo uma uya. Zola futhi ungenzi into enkulu ngokuthi uhlose ukuhamba, kodwa ungazami ukuvika noma. Nakanjani ungawuhawukeli umdlwane futhi ungazami ukuwuphazamisa/ukuwududuza ngokudla noma amaswidi.
Faka isithiyo emnyango ukuze umdlwane ukwazi ukukubona kodwa ungakudluli.
Lapho izinto zihamba kahle, ungazama ukuvala umnyango.
Buyela emuva ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa futhi ungathathi hlangothi, ungawubingeleli ngokulangazela kakhulu umdlwane lapho ubuya. Nweba isikhathi ongekho ngaso kancane kancane.
Khumbula ukuthi yonke imidlwane inobuntu obuhlukene, eminye imidlwane iqale yome kakhudlwana futhi ingavikelekile kancane. Kubalulekile ukujwayela ukuziqeqeshela ukuba wedwa emandleni omdlwane ngamunye.
