Ava Williams
Ukuhlalisana kuyinqubo yokufunda lapho umdlwane ujwayela abantu ongabazi, izinja, nezinye izilwane, kanye nezimo zansuku zonke nezindawo ezihlukene. Phakathi nesigaba sokuhlalisana (cishe kusukela evikini lesi-3 kuya kwele-12 lokuphila), umdlwane kufanele ukwazi ukwazi zonke izimo ongase uhlangabezane nazo ngesikhathi sokuphila kwawo ngendlela ekhululekile. Izinja ezingahlalisane kahle zivame ukuba nobunzima bokuthola indlela yazo endaweni yazo lapho sezikhulile. Bathambekele ekuziphatheni okwesabekayo noma okunolaka kanye nezinye izinkinga zokuziphatha.
Ukuhlalisana kuyinqubo yokufunda eyethula umdlwane ekubeni seduze kwabantu ongabazi nezinye izilwane, kanye nezimo nezindawo zansuku zonke ezihlukene. Kubalulekile ukunikeza lezi zisusa ezintsha ezingathathi hlangothi noma ezinhle. Ukuhlangana nezinye izinja, abantu ongabazi, nokubhekana nezimo ezintsha zemvelo kungaklonyeliswa ngokunconywa nokuphatha kahle kuhambisane. Ngale ndlela, umdlwane uzoba nesipiliyoni esihle futhi uzovuleleka kukho konke okusha esikhathini esizayo. Nokho, ngokubuthana kwabantu okubi noma okunganele, izinkinga azinakugwenywa. Kuvamisile ukuthi izinja okuthiwa ziyinkinga zinikezwe izindawo zokukhosela izilwane ngoba abanikazi bazo bavele bakhungatheke. Yingakho ukuhlalisana komdlwane ngokucophelela kubaluleke kakhulu.
Isigaba sokuhlalisana kwabantu
Isikhathi esibalulekile sokuzijabulisa nomdlwane kuphakathi kwamaviki angu-3 nangu-12 ubudala. Umfuyi ohloniphekile uzoqinisekisa ukuthintana okuhle kwabantu kanye nendawo ehlukahlukene emasontweni ambalwa okuqala okuphila. Abafuyi abahle bathatha imidlwane ohambweni lwayo lokuqala oluncane nohambo lokuhlola ezakhiweni ezihlukene zezindawo ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Lokhu kuphromotha ukuphepha, ilukuluku, namakhono emoto emidlwane futhi kunomthelela omuhle ekhonweni layo lokufunda. Ngisho nohambo olufushane lwezimoto lungase lube seluhlelweni lomfuyi.
Uma umdlwane unikezwa umnikazi wesikhathi esizayo, uphakathi kwesigaba sokuhlalisana. Emasontweni ambalwa okuqala, kufanele unikeze umdlwane isikhathi sokujwayela indawo yawo entsha nokwazi amalungu ephakethe lawo elisha kabanzi. Khona-ke ungaphuma uye emhlabeni omkhulu obanzi! Kodwa qaphela ukuthi ungagxili umdlwane wakho. Umsebenzi owodwa omkhulu, omusha usuku ngalunye—ohlale uphethe izinto eziningi ezinhle—ungaphezu kokwanele.
Izikole zomdlwane namaqembu omdlwane
Ukuya esikoleni somdlwane kungasiza ngokuxhumana nomdlwane. Eqenjini le-puppy eliphethwe ngokuzibophezela, inja ayigcini nje ngokwazi eminye imidlwane eminingi yezinhlobo ezahlukene ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa, kodwa iphinde ibhekane nemisindo ehlukahlukene, izithiyo, nezimo futhi ngaleyo ndlela ifunde ukubhekana nezisusa ezintsha zemvelo. Lapho uthintana nezinye izici, umdlwane ungadedela umusi futhi wazi imithetho yokuziphatha ephaketheni. Izivivinyo zokuqala zokulalela nazo zikuhlelo. Abanikazi bezinja baphinde bafunde esikoleni somdlwane ukuhumusha ulimi lwenja yabo namasiginali kanye nokuhlola izimo ngendlela efanele. Lokhu kubambisana ngokubambisana kuthuthukisa isibopho phakathi kwendoda nenja futhi kuqinisa ukwethembana.
Umgomo wokuxhumana nabantu uwukuveza kahle inja encane kubantu abahlukene, izilwane, izindawo ezizungezile, kanye nezisusa ngaphandle kokuyikhokhisa ngokweqile. Uma indawo yokuhlala ishintshashintsha kakhulu emasontweni ambalwa okuqala okuphila, kuyoba lula ngenja endala ukubhekana nanoma yini entsha. Ngayo yonke imisebenzi esebenzela ukuzijabulisa nomdlwane, kubalulekile ukuthi umnikazi wenja, ikakhulukazi, asondele kundaba ngomoya ophansi futhi ekhululekile. Ukwesaba kwangaphakathi noma ukukhathazeka kudluliselwa ngokushesha enja futhi kuyenza ingavikeleki nakakhulu.
Ukujwayela ukuthintana ngokomzimba
Inja ngezikhathi ezithile kufanele iye kudokotela wezilwane noma esaluni yokuzilungisa futhi idinga ukulungiswa njalo, ukunakekelwa kwamazinyo, ukunakekelwa kwezindlawu, nokunakekelwa kwendlebe. Ukuze ukuvakashela udokotela wezilwane noma amasiko okuzilungisa kungabi umsebenzi onzima wezinja ezikhulile, kunengqondo ukwenza umdlwane ujwayele ukuthinta izingxenye ezibucayi zomzimba zisuka nje. Hlola futhi uthinte izidladla, izindlebe, nomlomo womdlwane njalo bese uxubha ngebhulashi lomdlwane elithambile imizuzu embalwa nsuku zonke. Uma umdlwane usuwujwayele, zama ukwenza kabusha isimo sokuhlolwa kudokotela wezilwane nomuntu wesibili, ojwayelekile. Cela lo muntu athathe inja ahlole izidladla, izindlebe, amazinyo nejazi. Qeda njalo le mikhuba ngokutuswa nokuphatha okuningi.
Ukujwayela imisindo
Phakathi nesigaba sokuphrinta, umdlwane kufanele futhi waziswe kuzo zonke izinhlobo zemisindo yendawo. Iqala ekhaya ngesicoci se-vacuum, umshini wokuwasha, noma isomisi sezinwele, futhi empilweni yansuku zonke, ikhala imoto, i-tram enkenenezayo, insimbi yebhayisikili, noma umsindo ozwakala esiteshini sesitimela, endaweni yokudlela, noma isikhungo sokuthenga. Qiniseka ukuthi yonke into entsha evuselela imvelo iqiniswa kahle ngokunconywa, ukumbambathwa, noma ukuphatha, futhi kancane kancane kuveza umdlwane wakho ezintweni ezintsha nemisindo.
Ukujwayela izingane, abantu ongabazi, nezilwane
Inja yakho kufanele futhi ijwayele ukuxhumana nezingane zisencane. Izingane zinyakaza ngendlela ehlukile kunabantu abadala, zinamazwi ahlabayo, futhi zisabela ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ukuze ujwayele, ungachitha isikhathi esithile nomdlwane eduze nezinkundla zokudlala zezingane noma ucele ingane yomngane wakho ukuthi idlale nomdlwane. Njengoba izingane kufanele zifunde nendlela yokuphatha umdlwane, umuntu omdala kufanele ahlale ekhona kuyo yonke imihlangano.
Kukhona futhi izinhlobo ezahlukene zabantu abadala okufanele umdlwane uzilungiselele. Abantu abanobude noma izilinganiso ezihlukahlukene, abanemibala yesikhumba ehlukene, abanentshebe, abagqoka izibuko, abagqoka izigqoko, abagqoke umfaniswano, abahamba ngezihlalo ezinamasondo, abasunduza inqola noma ibhayisikili. Futhi-ke, ukuthintana nezinye izinja (osayizi abahlukene, izinhlobo, kanye nesimo somzimba) nezinye izilwane (amakati, amahhashi, izinyoni) akufanele zingabikho. Ngakho konke ukuhamba nomdlwane, ukuhlangana okubushelelezi kufanele kuvuzwe ngemibono emisha.
Ukujwayela imvelo
Ngokuvamile, ukushayela imoto akuyona inkinga enkulu enjaneni encane. Ngakho-ke abashayeli be-die-hard bayelulekwa ukuthi ngezikhathi ezithile basebenzise izithuthi zomphakathi (isitimela esihamba ngaphansi komhlaba, ibhasi, ithilamu, isitimela) nomdlwane wabo. Umdlwane awugcini nje ngokuthola ukwazi izindlela ezahlukene zokuthutha kodwa futhi ufunda nokuzola uma kunezixuku. Kunengqondo futhi ukwenza umdlwane ujwayele ukuba yedwa kusukela usemncane - kungaba sekhaya, emotweni, noma phambi kwesitolo esikhulu. Kungcono ukwandisa amayunithi esikhathi kancane kakhulu futhi uqale ngemizuzu embalwa.
I-Socialization ayiyona i-panacea
Wonke umdlwane unobuntu obuhlukile kanye nezici, ezinye zazo ezazalwa. Endabeni yemidlwane ekhathazeke kakhulu futhi enamahloni, izindlela zokuzijwayeza azisizi kangako. Kulesi simo, akufanele ugcwalise inja ngokungadingekile futhi ukhukhule ngokuvuselela okuholela kuphela ekucindezelekeni nemizwelo emibi. Khona-ke akukho lutho olusele ngaphandle kokusindisa umdlwane kulezo zimo ezisho ukucindezeleka okukhethekile.