UMary Allen
Inja engezwa lutho ngokuvamile ihambisana nokukhubazeka kwayo. Nokho, umniniyo kufanele alungiselele ukuphathwa okukhethekile kwesilwane esifile. Izimpawu zezandla kanye nokunyakaza komzimba kuya phambili.
Njengoba ungeke ukwazi ukukhuluma nenja eyisithulu ngezwi, kufanele ukhulume nayo ngenye indlela. Lokhu kwenziwa kangcono kakhulu ngokusebenzisa izimpawu zezandla, ukuma, nokuthinta komzimba, kanye nesimo sobuso. Izimpawu zezandla zibaluleke kakhulu uma kuziwa ekulaleleni imiyalo ethile yenja. Emkhayeni, kubalulekile ukuvumelana ngezimpawu ezifanayo ukuze umngane onemilenze emine angadideki. Kuyalulekwa futhi ukukhetha izinhlamvu ezilula. Lezi kufanele zibe ihaba ngokucacile nangokuzola ekuqaleni. Uphawu olucacile, oluhlukile lubaluleke kakhulu ekukhumbuleni.
Okokuqala, kufanele wakhe amasiginali ngendlela yokuthi usengakwazi ukuwakhulisa. Kodwa kukhona ezinye izinketho: “Ikhola yokudlidliza ingikhonze kahle kuBeagle wami wesilisa uBenni,” kusho uDesiree Schwers waseKastl (D). Njengoba ebonile ukuthi kufanele eze kuyena uma ikhola idlidliza - “engangikhuthaza kahle kuphela” - ukuhamba ngaphandle kwentambo akuseyona inkinga.
“Ukungezwani kubonakala kuyikhathaza kakhulu inja yami kunami,” kusho uSchwers. Ngoba ukukhulumisana phakathi kwezinja kusekelwe kuphela kancane ekukhulumeni; kwenzeka ikakhulukazi ngolimi lomzimba. Ngeke kuphazamiseke i-joie de vivre noma umzwelo ongokwemvelo njengokuzingela nokuzivikela. “Kufanele ngibhekane nalokhu kabuhlungu kaningi,” kuqhubeka uSchwers.
Ukuthintana Kwamehlo Kubaluleke Kakhulu
Izinja ngokuvamile zibhekisisa kakhulu, ziyakubona ukuma, ukuthinta, nesimo sobuso. Kufanele futhi nakanjani ukhulume nomngane wakho onemilenze emine, ngisho noma engakuzwa, ngoba amazwi akho nakanjani acekelwa phansi ukuma okuthile kanye nesimo sobuso esibalulekile enja. Ngokwesibonelo, umngane onemilenze emine uthola ngokushesha ukuthi ukumamatheka kuwukubonakaliswa kokwaneliseka futhi kusho ukudumisa.
Uma umngane onemilenze emine ebonisa ukuziphatha okungafunwa, ubuye axwayiswe ngesignali yesandla ekhethekile, ukuma okuhambisanayo, nesimo sobuso. Izenzo ezingaba yingozi enjeni kufanele zimiswe ngokushesha, isibonelo ngokuyithinta kahle ngesandla. Kungcono uma inja ibona umuntu ngaphambi kokuthi ithintwe ukuze ingathuki futhi izivikele. Ngakho-ke, ukunaka kwenja kufanele kuhlale kudonswa kumnikazi kuqala. Kunamathuba ahlukahlukene alokhu, njengokudlidliza ngendlela yokukhanya okunyathela phansi noma ukunyakazisa intambo.
Ingozi Enkulu Emigwaqweni Yezimoto
U-Desiree Schwers uyazi ngezimo ezimbili okuvame ukungenelela kuzo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho enye inja ibhodla kuye futhi uBenni unamehlo kwenye indawo futhi. “Njengoba engasitholi isexwayiso kwenye inja, kodwa ngifuna ukugwema ukwanda, ngincamela ukuziqhelelanisa nami.” Ngakolunye uhlangothi, u-Schwers unakekela kahle inja yakhe emgwaqweni, emgwaqeni - "ngoba lapha ingozi yokuthi abeke yena nabanye engozini inkulu kakhulu kimi".
U-Schwers uphinde abheke isibopho esifanelekile njengesibalulekile ukuze inja ikunakekele kahle. "Uma kunjalo, ayikho into ongeke uyenze ngenja eyisithulu." U-Liane Rauch, umnikazi wesikole sezinja saseNaseweis, esisebenza ngokukhethekile ngezinja ezikhubazekile, angavuma kuphela: “Isisekelo esingcono kakhulu sokuphila kwansuku zonke okuvumelanayo nenja ekhubazekile siwubuhlobo bokwethembana nesibopho esiseduze.”
Owesilisa wakhe uSheltie oneminyaka engu-14 ubudala manje usecishe angezwa. Naye, uyawubona umvuzo womsebenzi wokubopha ngokungaguquki. “Ngokuqeqeshwa kokuthinta isandla kanye nokuqeqeshwa kokuthintana kwamehlo okugxile emgomweni, singaqhubeka nokuphila ukuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke njengoba sikujwayele, naphezu kokuba izithulu,” kusho uRauch. Uchaza isingeniso sesinyathelo ngesinyathelo sokuqeqeshwa kokuthinta kanye nokuthintana kwamehlo encwadini ethi "Ukuqeqeshwa Kwezinja Ngaphandle Kwamagama". Ungakwazi ngisho nokuzenza uthandeke ngemidlalo emifushane ekuhambeni ukuze umngane onemilenze emine athande ukuhlala eduze futhi i-freewheeling ngakho-ke akuyona inkinga.