UMary Allen
Ngokushesha nje lapho inja yakho ibona inja esikanye nayo noma umuntu ohambweni lwakho olungahambisani naye futhi uya emantongomane ngokuphelele? Ngiyazi ukuthi kunzima kangakanani lokhu.
Cishe awusalokothi uphumele emgwaqeni, uhlola yonke indawo ukuze uhlale ubona yonke into phambi kwenja. Lokhu akukuphathi kahle nje kuphela, kodwa nakulabo abaseduze kwakho.
Ususithathile kakade isinyathelo sokuqala. Uyibonile inkinga. Manje kubalulekile ukusebenzela isisombululo ngaphambi kokuba ukuziphatha kusungulwe futhi mhlawumbe kube kubi nakakhulu.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo, uzothola izimbangela ze-leash aggression inja yakho kanye nezixazululo ezisiza ngempela.
Kafushane: Leash aggression in the Hun
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-Leash enja akusho lutho ngaphandle kokuthi iziphatha ngendlela ehlukumezayo lapho ibona ama-conspecifics noma abantu. Isikhathi esiningi uziphathisa okohlanya, aziphonse entanjeni ekhonkotha ahayize kube nzima nokubamba.
Izinja eziningi ezibonisa ulaka lwe-leash ziziphatha ngendlela engabonakali lapho zihlangana nezinye izinja nabantu.
Ukuze ulawule ukuhlukumeza kwenja yakho, udinga ingxube yezixazululo. Kufanele uzisebenzele futhi ufundise inja yakho ukufunda.
Yiziphi izizathu ze-leash aggression?
Azikho izizathu eziningi eziholela ku-leash aggression. Kunalokho, inkinga iwukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-leash sekuyisiko.
Lokhu akusho lutho ngaphandle kokuthi inja ayisabi nolaka kuntambo ngesizathu sokuqala, kodwa manje isimane nje isiyiphethini yayo evamile, egciniwe yokuziphatha. Ukuziphatha kuye kwaqina.
Izizathu ezilandelayo zingadala ulaka lwe-leash.
Inja yakho ikhungathekile
Ukukhungatheka kuyimbangela yokuqala ye-leash aggression. Emuva lapho inja yakho isewumdlwane omncane, cishe yayivunyelwe ukugijima ngokuthanda kwayo. Kuyaqondakala lokho, ufuna ukuthi ingane encane yazi yonke into, ibe nobudlelwane obuhle, futhi ihlangane nawo wonke umuntu ngendlela enobungane.
Imidlwane emincane ivame ukuvunyelwa ukuthi iye kubantu abangabazi abayinaka futhi bayifuye. Imidlwane ibuye ishiywe ngentambo ezinjeni ezingaziwa ukuze yazane nezinye izinja.
Manje umdlwane omncane usukhulile futhi othintana nabo balinganiselwe. Izinja ezinkulu azisatholi bonke abantu bebahle futhi zifuna ukutotoswa. Izinja ezingajwayelekile zisabela ngendlela ehlukile emidlwaneni emincane.
Inkinga ke leyo manje. Inja yakho ayizange ifunde ukudlula abanye abantu nezinja ngaphandle kokuxhumana nazo.
Ngakho-ke ukukhungatheka kukhula kancane kancane, okugcina kuzikhulula ngendlela ye-leash aggression.
Inja yakho ikhathazekile noma ayivikelekile
Izinja ezigcinwe ku-leash zivinjelwe ekukhulumisaneni kwazo nge-leash. Ngaphambi kokuba zihlangane, lezi zinja zincamela ukuhamba ziqonde phambili ukuze ziphephe.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi inja yakho ibe nesipiliyoni esibi ku-leash. Izinja eziningi zibe sezenza lokhu kuzo zonke izinja noma abantu ngokuzenzakalelayo.
Ithiphu yami: funda inja yakho, izokutshela isizathu sokuhlukunyezwa kwentambo
Ungakwazi njalo ukutshela inja yakho isizathu sokuhlukunyezwa kwayo ngokubheka ulimi lomzimba wayo. Funda okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngolimi lomzimba wenja. Kuyisihloko esithakazelisa kakhulu futhi singaba usizo olukhulu kuwe ezindaweni eziningi.
Yini esiza ngempela ekulweni ne-leash aggression?
Okubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa futhi into enzima kakhulu, ukuthi uhlala ukhululekile wena. Ngiyazi lokhu akulula. Ngokuqinisekile uhlangabezane nokubukeka okuningi kokulinganisa, okungenzeka ngisho namazwana alulazayo. Funda ukukufihla lokhu. Inja yakho izwa ukungavikeleki kwakho, kodwa idinga ukuvikeleka nobukhosi obuvela kuwe njengamanje.
Khumbula ukuthi yonke inkinga idinga isixazululo somuntu ngamunye! Ngikuhlanganisele ikhambi losizo lokuqala lapha uma inja yakho ine-leash aggression.
Yiba lula futhi upholile
Inja yakho ithatha izinga lakho lokucindezeleka. Ngakho-ke yiba lula. Uma ulungiselela ukuhamba, ungacabangi ngezinkinga, cabanga ngento enhle. Ngaphandle, awuskeneli yonke indawo ezungezile njengenjwayelo, kodwa gxila ephuzwini elilodwa elikude futhi uphefumule kakhulu.
Lokhu kushintsha ukuma kwakho namandla akho. Lokhu kudluliselwa 1:1 enjeni yakho. Amamatheke ngenkathi ekwenza. Ngisho noma lokhu kuzwakala kuwubuwula manje, kodwa ukumamatheka kuphumuza izicubu ezingenakubalwa.
Shiya izinkinga ngemuva
Uyazi lapho inja yakho ithuthumela ku-leash. Ezigabeni zokuqala zokuqeqeshwa, zama ukugwema ukungqubuzana ngokuphuma endleleni yabo. Ngezinye izikhathi i-arc enkulu yanele. Uma ingekho enye indlela, buyela emuva ngendlela efanayo.
Ungayiniki inja yakho elinye ithuba lokuwela iphethini yokuziphatha efundiwe.
Fundisa inja yakho enye indlela yokuziphatha
Inja yakho iyalithanda ibhola layo? Noma ukunambitheka kwakhe okuthandayo? Khona-ke usuvele unezidingo ezidingekayo ezinhle.
Uma uzithola usesimweni lapho wazi khona: isizokwethuka, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda inja yakho. Inja yakho ivunyelwe ukubheka umuntu obhekene nayo.
Nikeza inja yakho umyalo othi “Bheka.” Uma engakwazi lokhu, yakha lokhu ngaphambi kokuqeqeshwa. Lapho nje inja yakho ikubuka, uyinika udumo oluphakeme kakhulu. Uvunyelwe ukukwenza ngokweqile. Inja yakho idinga ukwazi ukuthi yimuphi umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu ewenzile!
Bese uyamkhipha kulesi simo.
Uphinda lokhu kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzoqaphela ukuthi ibanga ngalinye lenja yakho ukusuka ku-trigger lizokwehla.
Ithiphu: Qinisekisa ngokunembile ngesichofozi
Uyawazi ukuqeqeshwa kokuchofoza? Ngokuchofoza kuyenzeka ukuthi uqinisekise isenzo ngokunemba kokukhomba. "Ukubukeka" kungakhiwa kahle kakhulu ngosizo lokuchofoza.
Phakathi nakho konke ukuqeqeshwa kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi inja ayingeni esimweni lapho iba nolaka ku-leash futhi. Uma kungenjalo, kufanele uthathe isinyathelo emuva.
Yikuphi okungcono nge-rambo yelineni: ikhola noma ihhanisi?
Ukuqeqeshwa kokushintsha ukuziphatha akwenzeki ngokuphazima kweso. Yingakho kunengqondo ukutshala impahla efanele.
Ukugqoka ihhanisi kunconywa ezinjani ezinolaka lwe-leash.
Ukweqa intambo ngekhola kungaba yingozi empilweni yenja yakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Uma uhamba nenja yakho ngentambo, ngincoma okuthunyelwe kwami mayelana nokuthi: Inja iluma intambo?
Ingabe inja enolaka idinga umlomo?
Uma wazi ukuthi inja yakho ithanda ukugxumela ezinye izinja, ukugqoka umlomo kuyanconywa. Qinisekisa ukuthi uthola iseluleko nge-muzzle esitolo esikhethekile futhi uthuthukise ukuyifaka kahle.
Ngenxa yokuthi inja yakho ifaka amafinyila, nawe ukhululeka. Manje uyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi akukho lutho olubucayi olungenzeka. Lokhu kuzola bese kudluliselwa enjeni yakho.
Isiphetho
Inja ene-leash aggression akuyona nje isimo esicindezela kakhulu inja, kodwa futhi nakuwe.
Yonke inja izimele. Kodwa uma uthuthukisa ulwazi olujulile lolimi lomzimba wenja yakho, zinike isikhathi esanele sokuqeqeshwa okujulile, futhi ungaphelelwa yinhliziyo, ukuhlasela kwe-leash kungaxazululeka.