UMary Allen
Ikakhulukazi abantu basemadolobheni banonembeza ongemuhle izikhathi ngezikhathi ngoba kumele bagcine “ikati elimpofu” “livalelwe”. Noma bazincisha injabulo yomuntu oshade naye endlini ukuze bamsindise le mpilo “engeyona eyemvelo”.
Ngoba kufanele nje baphume, babaleke, babambe amagundane, noma yini oyenzayo njengekati. Hhayi-ke…kuzamile kokubili, kodwa akukho ukuqhathanisa? Kodwa. Lesi sihloko maningi amathuba okuthi sihlukanise isizwe ngenxa yokuthi amakati angaphakathi anesikhathi sokuphila esifakazelwe esiphindwe kabili kunamakati angaphandle avame ukungabi namsebenzi uma kuziwa embuzweni othi: ukuboshwa endlini, intambo ende (ingadi), noma ukuphila okufushane? "Okungcono okufushane nokujabulisayo" kuvame ukuzwakala ngaphandle kokuthi umuntu azi ukuthi "kufushane" kungaba mfushane kangakanani. Idlanzana labanikazi bamakati selilahlekelwe yizithandwa zabo besebancane, futhi kubanikazi abaningi bamakati, into eyodwa eqinile: neze, nanini. Manje, ubani onezimpikiswano ezingcono?
I-Apartment Versus Free Access
Amakati akujabulela ngempela ukuzulazula ngaphandle, ukubamba amagundane, futhi awadle (noma ukuwanikeza abantu bawo). Bathanda ukwenza noma yini abazizwa bethanda ukuyenza. Wonke amakhono angokwemvelo ohlotsheni lwazo nokuthi ngokunengqondo awasoze adlala ngendlela efanayo ngaphakathi kwefulethi avuselelwa ngokuzenzakalelayo ngokushesha nje. Amakati “awakhohlwa”, ayajwayela. Lokhu kube amandla abo asezingeni eliphezulu ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka, okuqinisekise ukusinda kwabo, kanye nalokho, naphezu kwakho konke, abalokothi bazilahlekele. Futhi yingakho amakati angaphakathi angajabula kakhulu - nje "ahlukile".
Ngohlanya Olujwayelekile
Ngoba yimuphi umthandi wekati ongayazi imizuzu “emihlanu” edumile ohlelweni lwansuku zonke lwe-velvet paw yasefulethini? Ugijima ngokukhulu ukushesha, aphendule amakhabethe aye phezulu naphansi, futhi enze amaqhinga epalini eklwebhayo - kuye ngohlanga nesisindo sokulwa, ifulethi lonke liba yinkundla yokufaneleka, indlela eyimfihlo yokudlala ngokhaphethi abanqwabelene. Futhi konke lokho ngaphandle kwensingo yotshani, ngaphandle kwezimbali, izihlahla, izihlahla, nezimvemvane. Angeke kube nombuzo wokumosha...
Ikhaya Lami Liyinqaba Yami
Abanikazi bamakati akufanele nje bondle abangane babo abanemilenze emine kahle nangendlela efanele, baqinisekise ukuthi bangajabulela ukudla kwabo ngokuthula futhi benze ibhizinisi labo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, bawagone, bawafule futhi babaphathe ngokucophelela, futhi bahlale bebheka impilo yabo, iposi elikhulu eliklwebhayo elinazo zonke izinhlobo zokuzijabulisa - okuhlanganisa okukhethekile okukodwa/okumbalwa - ukuthenga - abanikazi bamakati kufanele futhi - ngomqondo oyiqiniso wegama - bavumele i-velvet paw "iphile".
Lokho kusho ukuthi: Kufanele sivumelanise impilo yethu yansuku zonke kanye nekhaya lethu eqinisweni lokuthi sinekati - isilwane esinezidingo ezikhethekile (nakuba kulula ukusifeza) futhi esingase sithole ukusetshenziswa okuhlukile kwama-knick-knacks kunathi. Futhi ukuze sazi ukuthi lezi zidingo zingase zibukeke kanjani, kufanele sizame ukuthola ukuthi yini eyenza amakati ngokujwayelekile - kodwa ezethu ikakhulukazi - umaka, ngoba zonke zingabokuqala.
Plea
Amakati kufanele futhi afune ukuba abalingani abathandekayo (okufanele) ahluke kuphela kubalingani abanemilenze emibili ngokuya ngokucatshangelwa kanye namalungelo okufanele anikezwe wona nokuthi ukuhlala ndawonye kudinga. Nakuba ngokuvamile zithatha indawo yalokho ukuphila okusiphikile, akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho—inqobo nje uma sibahlonipha futhi sibaphatha ngendlela abayiyo. Khona-ke umngane onemilenze emine uzobe elungile, uzozizwa ejabule, aneliseke futhi ajabule futhi angaphuthelwa lutho. Ngoba thina bantu kuphela esikwazi ukulangazelela into esingayazi noma esingakaze siyibone. Lokho akwanele njengesizathu sokuphika amakati “inkululeko yegolide”? Akuwona wonke amahlosi osofa angakujabulela ukushintshana ngale njabulo emangalisayo, kodwa futhi eyingozi futhi engabazekayo yenkululeko kanye nezigigaba zayo zekhaya eliphephile kanye nomuntu onothando, oqondayo okuvumela ukuthi kube yilokho okuyikho: ikati.