UMary Allen
Lapho umngane ohahayo onemilenze emine ephelelwa isifiso sokudla ngokuzumayo, kubangela ukukhathazeka kumakhosi amaningi. Kungani inja iyeka ukudla? Lo mhlahlandlela wethula izimpendulo ezingenzeka.
Uma inja yakho ingasakuthinti ukudla kwayo, kufanele uqale ubheke ukuziphatha kwayo ngokucophelela. Kunezizathu ezihlukahlukene ezenza umngane onemilenze emine engasakwazi ukudla. Hlola amazinyo nomzimba wenja yakho, bheka ukuthi ukudla kulungile yini nokuthi indawo ingase iphazamise inja yakho ngenkathi idla.
Uma umngane wakho onemilenze emine eqa ukudla okumbalwa kuphela kodwa ebukeka enempilo, ngokuvamile awunakukhathazeka ngakho. Izinja zimboza izidingo zazo zokudla okunomsoco ngokudla. Futhi-ke, lokhu kungahluka kuye ngomsebenzi womzimba noma iminyaka. Isibonelo, izinja ezindala zidinga ukudla okuncane ngesikhathi esithile.
Kodwa-ke, uma i-protégé yakho ingabonisi isifiso sokudla isikhathi eside, kungase kube ngenxa yesinye salezi zizathu ezilandelayo:
Inja Yakho Ayikuthandi Ukudla Kwenja
Ngokuvamile ikhambi elisobala kakhulu inja yakho ayikuthandi ukudla kwayo. Ingabe isiphelelwe yisikhathi? Qiniseka ukuthi uhlola idethi yokuphelelwa yisikhathi ukuze ukhiphe lesi sizathu. Umbala kanye nephunga kungabonisa nokudla kwenja ebabayo.
Ngendlela, ezinye izinja azithandi ukudla endaweni ezingajwayelekile, njengalapho zihamba. Kodwa futhi kufanelekile ukubhekisisa isimo sasekhaya: inja yakho kungenzeka ukuthi idle okuthile okungafanele ikudle: amathoyizi, izingcezu zefenisha noma izitshalo, noma, esimweni esibi kakhulu, izidakamizwa noma amakhemikhali. Konke lokhu kungabangela ukungagayeki kahle nokuhlanza. Kulokhu: kudokotela wezilwane.
Inja Ayidli Ngenxa Yezinkinga Zamazinyo
Izinja eziningi ziyayeka ukuthinta ukudla ngenxa yokuqaqamba kwamazinyo. Yingakho kuhlale kuwufanele ukubheka emlonyeni womngane wakho onemilenze emine. Ingabe uthole izinyo eliphukile noma elixegayo noma isifo sezinsini lapha? Khona-ke ukudla cishe kuyamlimaza.
Kungcono ukubhekisisa wonke umzimba futhi. Ukuhlasela kwezimuncagazi, izigaxa ngaphansi kwesikhumba, ukushintsha kwejazi, noma ukuqubuka nakho kungabonisa isimo esilimaza inja yakho ukudla.
Bheka Ezinye Izimpawu
Uma umngane wakho onemilenze emine engagcini nje ngokulahlekelwa ukudla kodwa futhi ebukeka ezacile futhi ehlushwa ezinye izimpawu ezinjengokuhlanza, isifo sohudo, noma ukuphelelwa amanzi emzimbeni, kufanele nakanjani umyise kudokotela wezilwane. Lokhu kungaba ngenxa yesimo esibi sezempilo esinjengomdlavuza, ukwehluleka kwezinso, izinkinga zesibindi, noma ukutheleleka.
Uma inja yakho ifihla emini, ilala kakhulu, ingasafuni ukudlala noma ukuhamba, ukulahlekelwa ukudla kungase kubonise ukucindezeleka.