UMary Allen
Ikati lakho likuhhewula noma lizama ukukunwaya? Ingabe ikati lakho lihlasela imilenze yakho noma amanye amakati? Uma amahlosi asekhaya enolaka, akuphumi ububi, kusho uchwepheshe wezilwane zakho uChristian Wolf. Ngokuvamile, kukhona okunye ngemva kwakho.
Uma amakati enolaka, kungase kube nezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Amakati awazalwa enolaka futhi esesimweni esibi; kunezizathu zangempela zalokhu kuziphatha.
Kodwa ikuphi? Amakati agulayo noma alimele ikakhulukazi ayevame ukusabela ngobudlova, ngokusho kochwepheshe. “Ubuhlungu buyafika, ubuhlungu buyaphela, ngezinye izikhathi bunamandla, ngezinye izikhathi buba buthakathaka,” kuchaza uChristina. "Kodwa lapho kuphakama isimo lapho ubuhlungu bukhulu ngempela, khona-ke ikati lifuna ukuyiveza yonke into ngandlela thile." Amakati amaningi abe esesebenzisa ulaka njengendlela yokuphuma.
Uma ubona ukuthi ikati lakho linolaka kungazelelwe, kufanele nakanjani uliyise kudokotela wezilwane, uncoma uchwepheshe wekati. Ngoba: Lena ukuphela kwendlela ongaqiniseka ngayo ukuthi ukuziphatha mhlawumbe akubangelwa ukugula okubuhlungu noma ukulimala.
Ikati Elicindezelekile Futhi Lingaba Nolaka
Nokho, akufanele kube njalo. Amakati acindezelekile noma anesithukuthezi ngezinye izikhathi anolaka, kusho uChristina. “Ayikho into embi ngekati njengokudinwa,” kusho yena. "Futhi lokho kuholela ekukhungathekeni okuningi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi." Lokhu kukhungatheka kungavezwa ngolaka.
Isibonelo, ukucindezeleka kungase kwenzeke emikhayeni enamakati amaningana. UChristina: “Amakati awazwani, kukhona isimo sengqondo esibi esingapheli, mhlawumbe kukhona ngisho nobuxhwanguxhwangu bangempela phakathi kwamakati. Futhi lapha futhi, amakati amaningi asabela ngobudlova. ”