UMary Allen
Ikati elinolaka kubantu lingaba yinkinga enkulu. Kodwa-ke, ngezinyathelo ezifanele, izinkinga zokuziphatha ezinjengokunwaya nokuluma zinganqandwa ezimweni eziningi.
Ngokuvamile ikati lizosabela ngobudlova kubantu ngenxa yokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, noma ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho okubi. Kodwa noma ngabe ingwe yasendlini inolaka ukuziphatha ngesizathu - ikati elinolaka limelela ingozi, ikakhulukazi kubavakashi abangajwayele isilwane noma izingane ezincane. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa kwekati ngendlela efanele.
Inolaka Kubantu: Ukuphazamiseka Kungasiza
Uma ikati lihlasela umnikazi walo, lingasiza ukuphazamisa ikati lasendlini ngokushesha nje lapho kunezimpawu zokuthi selizoveza amazinyo noma lelule izinzipho. Lokhu kusebenza, isibonelo, ngokubhampa ibhola lerabha eliqinile phansi noma ukuthatha isilwane esigxishiwe bese usilahla kude nawe. Nganoma iyiphi inhlanhla, ikati lizonaka toy esikhundleni sokuhlasela umuntu.
Kungasiza futhi ekwehliseni ulaka lwekati ngezikhathi ezijwayelekile zokudlala okuqinile. Kubalulekile lapha ukuthi ungakuvumeli ukucasuka uma ukuhlasela kwekati kukujikela. Izingubo ezenziwe ngendwangu ewugqinsi futhi ezinemikhono emide nemilenze ziyimpoqo.
Liphathe Kahle Ikati
Akufanele ushaye ikati elinolaka. Okungcono kakhulu, ungajezisa isilwane ngezifutho ezimbalwa ezivela ku- spray ibhola - kodwa lokhu ngokuvamile kusiza kuphela uma ikati likhipha ulaka lwalo emakhethini noma ifenisha futhi ungazama ukunqoba ukuziphatha ngokulungisa isimo. Uma kungenjalo, ukubekezela nokuzwela kuyadingeka.
Uma ikati liba nolaka kubantu lapho bezama ukufuya noma ukulicosha, kungcono ukukuhlonipha lokhu futhi kancane kancane wenze isilwane sijwayele ukuthintana nomuntu esikhundleni sokubangela ukuhlaselwa okungadingekile.
Ikati Elinolaka: Icala Lesazi Sengqondo Yezilwane?
Uma ungakwazi ukulawula ulaka lwekati lakho uwedwa, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezilwane singakusiza. Ngaphambi kokwenza lokho, noma kunjalo, kufanele uhambise ikati lakho elinolaka kudokotela wezilwane ukuze akhiphe imbangela ephilayo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi isilwane sakho singase sibe nolaka kubantu ngenxa yokuthi balimele noma bayagula, sibenze bazizwe bengaphephile futhi bethukile. Isibonelo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yekati sizokwenza ukwenza ukwelulekwa kokuziphatha kwekati nawe futhi sikunikeze amathiphu okuthi ungalehlisa kanjani ikati lakho elinolaka. Lokhu kubandakanya, isibonelo, izinguquko ezilandelayo:
● Ukuhlehla okwengeziwe kwekati, izindawo eziphakeme, nezindawo zokucasha
● Umsebenzi owengeziwe wesilwane, imidlalo, ” ukunothisa imvelo "
● Kumakati angawodwa: ikati eliwuzakwethu njengozakwethu
● Ukuthula okwengeziwe, isineke, nothando ngekati
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yekati sisebenza nawe ukwakha “uhlelo lokwelapha” lomuntu siqu futhi sikusiza ukuthi ulusebenzise. Ungaxoxa naye nganoma yimiphi imibuzo, ukungabaza, nokungaqiniseki. Ukuvakashela e- omunye umsebenzi wezilwane kungase futhi kube isengezo esiwusizo. Uyazi ukuthi yimaphi amakhambi apholile, Imbali ye-Bach amalungiselelo, noma amakhambi e-homeopathic aphephile futhi ayasiza ikati lakho.