UMary Allen
Kungokwemvelo ukuthi inja yakho ikhonkothe. Izinja zisebenzisa ugebhezi lwazo ukuveza imizwa eyahlukene kanti ugebhezi olulodwa lungasho izinto ezihlukene kuye ngesimo. Ukukholelwa ukuthi inja yakho ngeke ikhonkothe akunangqondo - noma kunjalo, ukukhonkotha ngokweqile kungaba ukuziphatha okuyinkinga. Kukhona nezinye izinto abaningi abangakutsheli zona ngokuba umnikazi wezinja.
Kungani Izinja Zikhonkotha Ngokweqile?
Ukuze inja yakho ibe isakhamuzi esihle esinemilenze emine, idinga ukufunda ukuthi kufanele ikhonkothe nini nokuthi ithule nini. Ingxenye yomsebenzi wakho njengomnikazi wezinja ukufundisa inja yakho ukuthi yini ebalulekile. Qala ukulungisa inkinga ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma ulinda isikhathi eside, kuzoba nzima nakakhulu ukushintsha ukuziphatha.
Ukufundisa inja yakho umyalo “wokukhuluma/uthule” kuwumqondo omuhle. Nokho, lokhu kulula ukukusho kunokukwenza. Umgomo wale miyalo uwukufundisa inja ukukhonkotha futhi ithule lapho iyalwa. Lokhu kungathatha inja amasonto ambalwa ukufunda, ngakho qhubeka usebenza kukho, noma thola usizo lomqeqeshi wezinja. Uma inja yakho iqeqeshwe kakhulu kodwa isaqhubeka nokukhonkotha ngendlela eyihaba, kumelwe uzame ukuxazulula izinkinga eziwumsuka futhi uthole umsuka wokukhonkotha.
Izinkinga zezokwelapha
Ezinye izinja zikhonkotha ngoba zisezinhlungwini noma zizwa ukuphatheka kabi. Thola ukuthi ingabe inja yakho ibuhlungu kakhulu noma kuphi; uzobhodla uma kubuhlungu lapho othinta khona.
Izinja eziguga
Njengoba izinja zikhula, kuvamile ukuba ziqale ukukhonkotha kakhulu. Ezinye izinja ezindala zingase ziqale ukukhonkotha futhi ziqhubeke amahora ambalwa - zingazi nhlobo ukuthi zenzani. Ngaphezu kwezinkinga zokucabanga, ezingase zifaniswe nesifo i-Alzheimer, izinja eziguga zingase zibe nokukhubazeka kwamehlo, izithulu, noma ubuhlungu bomzimba obuzibangela ukuba zikhonkothe.
Ukwesaba kungenza inja yakho ikhonkothe
Uma inja yakho isaba, izoveza ukwesaba ngendlela yokukhonkotha. Lokhu kungenzeka ekhaya nakwezinye izindawo futhi inja ikhomba ukuthi yinto eyesabayo. Kungaba umuntu, umsindo omkhulu (ofana neziqhumane noma ukuduma), noma isimo esiyinqaba (noma esisha).
Inja igada indawo yayo
Izinja zingaba yindawo uma umuntu omusha noma inja ingena endaweni ezicabanga ukuthi iyindawo yazo. Bazizwa bengabanikazi bendawo yabo futhi bafuna ukuyivikela. Indawo yenja ingaba yikhaya layo, ingadi yazo, noma ubhasikidi wayo. Uma inja yakho ikhonkotha ngezikhathi ezinjalo kuphela, mhlawumbe lesi yisizathu.
Isizungu singathinta ukukhonkotha
Izinja ziyizilwane ezifuywayo futhi ngaleyo ndlela zikhetha inkampani. Uma bebodwa isikhathi eside, bangase baqale ukukhonkotha ukuze babonise ukunganeliseki kwabo. Inja ingase futhi ilangazelela ukuba nenkosi yayo noma inkosikazi yayo hhayi nje ukuba nenye inja. Inja enesithukuthezi, noma inja engakutholi ukukhuthazwa okwanele (ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba), nayo ingabhodla.
Ibinzana lokubingelela noma isidingo sokunakwa
Uma inja ikubingelela ngokukhonkotha, lokhu kuvame ukukhonkotha okunobungane. Nokho, kungaba kukhulu kakhulu uma inja ikhonkotha wonke umuntu emshayayo. Ugebhezi lungase lube ngenxa yokuthi inja yakho ilambile, idinga ukuyoshaywa umoya, noma icela nje ukunakwa.
Ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana
Izinja ezingathandi ukushiywa zodwa zihlushwa ukukhathazeka ngokuhlukana. Ngaphezu kokukhonkotha, izinja ezihlushwa yilokhu zivame ukubonisa ezinye imikhuba ephoqelelayo.
Ungakuqeda Kanjani Ukukhonkotha Kakhulu
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuvimbela ukukhonkotha, okokuqala nokubaluleke kakhulu, ukuzama ukugwema noma ukususa umsuka wokuziphatha. Kufanele futhi ugweme ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha. Kunalokho, nika inja yakho enye into ezogxila kuyo.
Bona udokotela wezilwane ngokukhonkotha kwenja yakho
Uma inja yakho ivele ibe umlutha walokhu kuziphatha, kungase kube umqondo omuhle ukuthintana nodokotela wakho wezilwane ukuze ayohlolwa impilo. Udokotela wezilwane angabe esekhipha izizathu zezokwelapha njengesisekelo sokuziphatha kwenja futhi akusize wenze uhlelo olusekelwe ezidingweni zenja yakho. Inja esikhulile ekhonkotha ngokweqile kungenzeka ibe nezinye izidingo zezokwelapha futhi idinga uhlelo oluhlukile kunelenja encane. Mayelana nezinja ezindala, zama ukuthola imbangela yokukhonkotha. Khawulela ukusebenzelana kwenja futhi unikeze inja ukufinyelela endaweni encane lapho ingathatha khona kalula. Ungakwazi, isibonelo, ukuvumela inja ukuba ikwazi ukufinyelela amakamelo ambalwa kuphela ekhaya, esikhundleni sokuyivumela ukuthi ihambe ngokukhululeka endlini yonke.
Lungisa ukuziphatha kwenja yakho
Ukuze uyeke ukukhonkotha ngenxa yokwesaba, isizungu, isidingo sokunakwa, noma ukumaka indawo, zama ukuthola isisekelo sokuziphatha. Uma kungenzeka, susa inhlamvu empilweni yenja bese uqala ukusebenzela ekuguquleni indlela yokuziphatha. Qala ngemiyalo elula njengokuthi “hlala” kanye “nolala” ukuze ususe ukugxila ekukhonkotheni futhi ukhuthaze inja lapho yenza njengoba usho. Nikeza inja yakho izivivinyo eziningi; lokhu kusho ukuthi inamandla amancane okuvala ngakho-ke iba nokuzola. Ukuvuselela ingqondo ngendlela yamathoyizi okuhlafuna noma amaphazili nakho kuyinketho enhle.
Ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana
Uma inja yakho ihlushwa ukukhathazeka ngokuhlukana, zama ukugwema ukushiya inja yodwa isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ungathola usizo kumqeqeshi wezinja noma uhlelo lokuqeqesha ukuze “ufunde” mayelana nenja ezoshiywa inkosi noma inkosikazi. Lolu hlobo lokuqeqesha lungathatha isikhathi, ngakho yiba nesineke.
Okungafanele ukwenze:
Kunezinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzigweme uma inja yakho ikhonkotha kakhulu:
- Gwema ukududuza, ukuphulula, noma ukuphakela inja lapho ikhonkotha futhi icela ukunakwa. Ukushaya izandla nokududuza kukhuthaza ukuziphatha futhi kuyakugcizelela.
- Ungalokothi uthethise inja yakho. Ngeke nje kuyisize inja ukuthi iqonde ukuthi akufanele ikhonkothe, kodwa ingase iqinise ugebhezi nakakhulu.
- Ungalokothi ushaye inja yakho noma usebenzise izinto ezisetshenziswayo ezifana namakholomu kagesi. Akukhona nje ukuthi lokhu kubuhlungu kakhulu futhi kubuhlungu enja, kodwa izinja eziningi zifunda ukuqonda ukuthi zisebenza kanjani futhi zithole izindlela zokuzikhohlisa.
- Ungayivumeli inja yakho ikhonkothe njalo lapho ingaphandle. Ngeke uyifundise inja ukuthi ithule nini ngokuyimemeza ngaphesheya kwegceke. Futhi kuyindlela ephumelela kakhulu yokungajwayelani nomakhelwane bakho.