Indlela Yokujwayelanisa Amakati Nezinja

Izingxenye ezimbili:

1. Yethulani inja nekati komunye nomunye.
2. Zijwayeze izilwane.

Uyafuna ukuthola inja kodwa wesaba ukuthi ikati lakho ngeke liyithande? Ingabe unayo inja nekati ezihlale zilwa? Izinja eziningi namakati awazwani ekuqaleni, kodwa zikhona izindlela zokujwayelana. Thatha isikhathi sakho futhi ufunde ukuthi izilwane ezifuywayo ezimbili zidingani futhi ungenza inja nekati kuphile ndawonye ngokuthula.

Yethulani amakati nezinja komunye nomunye

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uletha ikati elisha noma inja ekhaya lapho elinye ikati noma inja selivele lihlala lapho, noma uzama ukuthola izilwane ezifuywayo ezikhona ukuthi ziphathelane kangcono, isisekelo esihle siyikho konke. Qiniseka ukuthi kunesikhala esanele endlini yakho ukuze uvumele zombili izilwane ziqhelelane nezinye. Kufanele uhlukanise izilwane ezimbili ngokwendawo ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokuqala futhi ngenxa yalokho udinga amakamelo amaningana.
Qiniseka ukuthi inja yakho iyakulalela. Uma kungenjalo, mnike isifundo esisheshayo sokuvuselela. Ungavumeli ukuhlangana kwekati lakho nenja yakho kuphele kabi ngoba nje inja yakho ishiseka ngokweqile noma inolaka.

Uma uletha ekhaya inja entsha noma umdlwane ongakayazi imiyalo yakho, udinga ukuqaphela nakakhulu lapho uyethula ekatini.

Thatha kancane. Ungavumeli inja ixoshe ikati. Ekuqaleni, gcina lezi zilwane ezimbili ngokwehlukana bese ulinda izinsuku ezintathu noma ezine ngaphambi kokuba uzethule komunye nomunye. Izilwane zidinga isikhathi sokujwayelana kanye namaphunga asekhaya elisha.

Amakati nezinja maningi amathuba okuthi alwe wodwa noma angajabuli kakhulu uma ngokuzumayo uwaphoqa ukuthi abe ndawonye. Zigcine emakamelweni ahlukene ukuze zingakwazi ukubonana zize zehlise umoya.

Hlanganisa iphunga lazo zombili izilwane ngokuphulula ikati kuqala bese emva kwalokho inja noma ngokuphambene nalokho (lapho zombili zisemagumbini ahlukene).

Shintsha amagumbi ogcina izilwane kuwo. Inhloso yalokhu ukuthi wonke umuntu akwazi ukucosha iphunga lomunye ngaphandle kokuba esinye isilwane sibe khona. Iphunga libaluleke kakhulu ukuze izilwane zazane. Yenza zombili lezi zilwane zibone iphunga lazo ngaphambi kokuzihlanganisa.

Zama ukusula inja yakho ngethawula, bese ubeka ithawula ngaphansi kwesitsha sekati lakho. Lokhu kuzosiza ikati ukuthi lijwayele futhi lamukele iphunga lenja.

Vumela inja nekati zinukisene ngomnyango ovaliwe. Lokhu kuzosiza kokubili ukuhlobanisa iphunga elisha nesinye isilwane ngaphandle kokuba zombili zikwazi ukubonana.

Phakela ikati nenja ngapha nangapha umnyango uvaliwe. Lokhu kuphoqa kokubili ukumunca nokwamukela iphunga lomunye.

Linda kuze kube yilapho ikati selikhululekile futhi selilungile ngaphambi kokwethula okubili komunye nomunye. Uma ikati lesaba njalo lapho inja isondela eduze komnyango wegumbi layo, ibaleka, futhi icashe, khona-ke idinga isikhathi esengeziwe. Uma ikati selijwayele iphunga nomsindo wenja, sekuyisikhathi sokwethula kokubili.

Bamba ikati lize lizolile futhi likhululekile. Bese ucela ilungu lomndeni noma umngane ukuthi alethe kancane kancane inja eboshiwe ekamelweni. Kancane kancane vumela inja isondele kuwe, ilinde ikati nenja ukuthi zizole ngemva kwesinyathelo ngasinye ngaphambi kokuthatha esinye. Izilwane akufanele zivunyelwe ukuthintana, zijwayelane nje.

• Libambe kuphela ikati uma lifuna.
• Gqoka ihembe elinemikhono emide ukuze uzivikele ekuklwebheni.
• Ungakwazi nokufaka ikati enkampanini yenethiwekhi uma uyisa inja kuyo ngentambo. Lokhu kuqinisekisa ukuthi bobabili ngeke bathintane uma beqala ukuhlangana.

Bonisa izilwane zakho uthando olufanayo. Izilwane, njengabantu, ziba nomona lapho “ingane entsha” ithola ukunakwa okwengeziwe. Bonisa zombili izilwane ukuthi uyazithanda nokuthi awusesabi esinye isilwane.

Hlukanisa izilwane zakho futhi. Ungamphoqi ukuthi nihlale ndawonye isikhathi eside, ngoba lokhu kuzonicika nobabili futhi kungaholela ekucindezelekeni. Qiniseka ukuthi ukuhlangana kokuqala kuhamba kahle futhi kukugcine kufushane futhi kumnandi.

• Yandisa kancane le mihlangano

Qhubeka uhlanganisa inja yakho nekati kuze kube yilapho bobabili sebekhululekile lapho kukhona omunye. Uma ikati selikhululeke ngokwanele, livumele lizulazule ngokukhululekile egunjini kuyilapho wena ugcine inja iboshiwe. Ngemva kwamasonto ambalwa, inja yakho kufanele isetshenziselwe ukungajahi ikati futhi ungamyeka asuke entanjeni.

Ungasebenzisa ama-pheromone, udokotela wakho wezilwane azowayalela, ukuze usize izilwane zombili zihlale zizolile futhi zikhululekile. Buza udokotela wakho wezilwane ukuthi amahomoni okwenziwa asiza yini izilwane ukuthi zijwayelane.

Zijwayeze izilwane

Hlukanisa izilwane uma ungekho ekhaya. Kufanele ugcine lokhu isikhashana ukuze bobabili bangalimazani.

Phakamisa inja yakho uma iphatha kabi ikati. Lokhu kuhlanganisa imidlalo yasendle kanye nokukhonkotha. Esikhundleni sokuvumela inja yakho ukuthi igxile ekatini, nikeza inja yakho eminye imisebenzi noma uzilolonge.

Ungayithethisi inja yakho kulesi simo. Hlala unethemba futhi inja cishe izoba nokuxhumana okuhle nekati esikhathini esizayo.

Vuza futhi udumise inja yakho lapho iziphatha kahle eduze kwekati. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukuziphatha kobungane noma ukuvele uzibe ikati. Inja yakho kufanele ijabulele ikati elingena ekamelweni futhi liyiphathe ngomusa, ingabi nolaka noma iwasunduze kakhulu.

Isho into enjengokuthi, “Oh, bheka, ikati likhona! Hhawu!” futhi uzwakala ujabule kakhulu. Ngale ndlela, inja yakho ifunda ngokushesha ukuba nemizwa emnandi ngekati.

Nikeza ikati ngendawo elivumela ukuthi ligweme inja. Isigxobo esiklwebhayo noma isango lomnyango kwelinye igumbi, noma yini evumela ikati lakho ukuba libaleke. Amakati ngokuvamile azohlasela inja kuphela lapho ehlehliswe ekhoneni kungenandlela yokuphuma.

Yiba nempumelelo. Uma inja yakho noma ikati lingakaze lihlale nesinye isilwane, ayikho indlela engakwazi ngayo ukusingatha isimo. Kuze kube yilapho wethula lezi ezimbili, ngeke wazi ukuthi inja yakho ibona ikati njengethoyizi, inyamazane, noma into eyinqaba, futhi ngeke wazi ukuthi ikati lakho libona inja njengento eyinqaba noma ewusongo. Kufanele uqonde ukuthi ukujwayelana kokubili kungaba yinqubo ende.

Amathiphu

• Ungazami ukuthanda isilwane esisodwa. Kwesinye isikhathi umona udala ukulwa. Uma inja ibona ukuthi ikati lithola ukunakwa ngaphezu kwalokho eyikho, ingase isabele ngendlela engafanele.
• Kuyasiza ukwethula izilwane zodwa zisencane. Izilwane ezincane zijwayela ukuphila nesinye isilwane ngokushesha. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi umdlwane awuwazi amandla awo futhi uthanda ukudlala, ngakho ikati lingase lilimale ngephutha.

Isexwayiso

Ungashiyi izilwane zakho ezimbili zodwa ekhaya ndawonye zize zijwayelene. Awufuni ukuzifaka engozini yokulimala lapho ungekho. Kulula futhi kuphephe kakhulu ukukhiya izilwane zombili emakamelweni ahlukene ngenkathi ungekho ekhaya.