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Ingabe umdlwane wakho uyakhula futhi uyashintsha?
Mhlawumbe nawe uyazibuza ukuthi kanti umdlwane wakho awuseyena yini umdlwane.
Ngakho uzibuza umbuzo odlala indima enkulu ekuqeqesheni inja.
Lesi sihloko sichaza ukuthi inja yakho ingumdlwane isikhathi esingakanani nokuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi.
Zithokozise ngenkathi ufunda!
Kafushane: Inja ingumdlwane kuze kube nini?
Ukuthi inja ingumdlwane isikhathi esingakanani futhi kuncike ohlotsheni kanye nesimo sayo. Izinhlobo zezinja ezinkulu ikakhulukazi zithatha isikhashana ukukhula ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ngazo, isikhathi somdlwane ngokuvamile siphela ngemva kwesikhashana kunezinhlobo ezincane.
Nokho, lapho eneminyaka ephakathi kwamasonto angu-16 nengu-18, ngokuvamile umuntu akasakhulumi ngomdlwane, kodwa usekhuluma ngenja encane.
Ngisho nomdlwane, kunengqondo ukusebenza ngothando nangokungaguquguquki ekuziphatheni okuhle. Uzothola amathiphu amaningi awusizo kulokhu eBhayibhelini lethu lokuqeqesha inja.
Siphela nini isikhathi somdlwane futhi kwenzekani ngaleso sikhathi?
Isigaba esibizwa nge-juvenile siqala phakathi nenkathi kusukela enyangeni yesihlanu yokuphila, umdlwane uba inja encane. Lokhu akwenzeki ngokuzumayo ngobusuku obubodwa, kodwa kuyinqubo yentuthuko. Uhlobo lwenja yakho nalo ludlala indima. Ukuthambekela komuntu ngamunye komngane wakho onemilenze emine nakho kuyasebenza.
Izigaba zeminyaka yobudala zingahlukaniswa ngokulandelayo:
kuze kufike ku-max. Amaviki angu-18 - isikhathi somdlwane
Kusuka emavikini ayi-16 - isigaba / ukukhula kwentsha kuya kwenja encane
Kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisi-7 - ukuthomba
Kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-12 - inja endala
Ngesonto le-18 lokuphila umuntu ngokuvamile ukhuluma ngenja encane.
Lokhu kukhula kuvame ukuhambisana nokushintsha kwamazinyo. Inja yakho manje ngeke ikhule ngokushesha njengezinyanga zokuqala zokuphila.
Kungani isigaba somdlwane sibaluleke kakhulu?
Uma ungumdlwane, izisekelo eziningi zokuziphatha kwenja yakho kamuva ziyabekwa.
Kubalulekile ukuthi umdlwane wakho ujwayele izinto ezahlukene ngendlela eyakhayo, okungukuthi ngaphandle kwengcindezi. Ngomfuyi omuhle, uthola ukwazi abanye abantu nezilwane kusenesikhathi, kanye nezinto zasendlini namathoyizi ahlukahlukene. Lokhu kuzolungiselela inja yakho impilo yayo yesikhathi esizayo.
Lokhu kuhlalisana kudinga ukuqhubeka ngisho nangemva kokuthuthela ekhaya elisha.
Kusukela ngesonto lesishiyagalombili lokuphila, umdlwane ungathuthela emndenini wawo omusha. Ngalesi sikhathi usesigabeni sokuhlalisana kwabantu.
Kufanele usebenzise lesi sigaba ukuze wenze umdlwane wakho ujwayele izinto eziningi.
Ngalesi sikhathi, inja yakho ifunda kalula nangokudlala, ngakho-ke okufundile kuhlanganiswe kahle kakhulu. Ngokusekelwa okuhle uzosiza umdlwane wakho ukuba uziphathe kahle eduze kwabantu nezinye izinja.
Ngale ndlela, angakwazi ukuthuthukisa amakhono okulawula izifiso zakhe, ukubekezelela ukukhungatheka nokukulalela.
Ngingawusekela kanjani umdlwane kangcono ngalesi sikhathi?
Ukuhlalisana akugcini nasekhaya lakho. Umdlwane wakho uzodinga ukujwayela ikhaya lakhe elisha nabantu abasha kuqala. Ngemuva kwalokho ungahamba naye ezindaweni ezahlukene njengamapaki, izindawo zokudlela noma imigwaqo yezitolo.
Kubalulekile ukuthi inja yakho ifunde ukuthi kunezinto eziningi ezahlukene, kodwa ungazisabi. Ngoba izinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha ezenzeka phakathi nokuphila kwenja zibangelwa ukwesaba. Uma uxoxisana nenja yakho ngaphandle kokucindezeleka, ungakwazi ukususa lokhu kwesaba.
Uma usuvele ulethe umdlwane wakho ekhaya lakho unamasonto ayisishiyagalombili, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuvakashela iqembu lokudlala lomdlwane. Ngoba ngezinye izici, inja yakho ingakwazi ukuqeqesha ukuvimbela kwayo ukuluma, ifunde ukuba ndawonye ngendlela ekhululekile futhi ngaleyo ndlela ithole indawo yayo emphakathini wezinja.
Uma umdlwane wakho ubunonina kanye nezingane zakubo isikhathi eside, uthole lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kokufunda lapho.
Ithiphu:
Sebenzisa ngokucophelela isikhathi somdlwane ukuze usebenze nenja yakho ekwakheni izibopho nemithetho yokuhlala ndawonye, ngakho udala isisekelo sokuthuthuka okuhle.
Inja ibalwa nini njengenja encane?
Ngaphambi kokuba inja yakho ikhule ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, idlula ezigabeni eziningi zokuthuthuka eqhubeka nokufunda kuzo.
Ukushintsha kwamazinyo kumemezela ukuphela komdlwane wenja yakho. Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka kusukela ezinyangeni ezine kuya kweziyisihlanu.
Kusukela kulesi sikhathi kuqhubeke, amanye amahomoni abe nomthelela omkhulu enjeni yakho futhi ubuchopho bakhe kancane kancane buba “indawo enkulu yokwakha”. Inja yakho ilokhu izama futhi ibheka imikhawulo.
Uma inja yakho ingakaze ihambe ohlangothini lwakho kuze kube manje, manje izoqala ukuhlola okukuzungezile ngokuzimela.
Umdlwane uba nini ngokuzola?
Izinja ezisencane ikakhulukazi zibonakala zinamandla angenamkhawulo. Kukhona ukuzulazula endlini, ukuklebhula amathoyizi futhi kudonse ukunaka ngokukhonkotha noma ukukhala.
“Kuthule” kanye “nomdlwane”, lawa magama amabili avamise ukuhambisana kuphela lapho amehlo enja evala. Kodwa ngemva kwakho konke, umdlwane ulala cishe amahora angu-18 ngosuku. Phakathi kukhona isipiliyoni nokufunda.
Ngisho nasesigabeni sezinja ezincane, izinja eziningi zisenamandla amaningi. Nokho, isimo sengqondo sincike kakhulu kuhlobo. I-Cocker Spaniel noma i-Basset Hound cishe izozola kune-Jack Russell Terrier ngisho nakule minyaka.
Ngisho noma kuncike kakhulu ohlotsheni ukuthi angakanani amandla omdlwane wakho, izinja ezincane zimane ziyinqwaba yamandla. Nokho, kusukela eminyakeni engaba unyaka owodwa, izinga lamandla liye lehla kuwo wonke umuntu.
Ngiyathokoza ukwazi:
Ukuzulazula nokudlala kubalulekile ezinjeni ezisencane. Nokho, ukuziphatha ngokweqile kungase kube uphawu lokuthi “imingcele yabazali” ayikho.
Isiphetho
Isikhathi somdlwane sifushane kakhulu. Emasontweni ambalwa ngemva kokuba umdlwane wakho uzohlala nawe, lesi sigaba esibucayi sesiphelile.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwenja yakho kuthatha isikhathi nokusekelwa kwakho. Ngokukhuliswa okuhle, udala isisekelo esiqinile salokhu. Ngakho-ke kufanele usebenzise lesi sikhathi ngokuqaphela ukuze ulungiselele inja yakho ngokusemandleni akho konke okusemandleni ayo futhi ngaleyo ndlela ukuphila kwenu ndawonye.
Ukuze uthole ukuqeqeshwa okungenakucindezeleka nomdlwane namanye amathiphu okuxhumana nabantu, vakashela ibhayibheli lethu lokuqeqesha izinja.