UMary Allen
Ukuzalwa kwenja kuyinto ekhetheke kakhulu. Imidlwane eminingi ayizalwa yodwa kodwa njengezelamani.
Mingaki imidlwane owesifazane ezalayo kuncike ngokuphelele ohlotsheni. Kulapho kuphakama umbuzo okhetheke kakhulu kubanikazi bezinja abaningi:
Ingabe abakwa-littermate bayazana
lapho behlangana futhi ngemva kwesikhathi eside?
Empeleni, ama-littermate angakwazi ukubonana ngokuhogela ngisho nangemva kokuhlukana isikhathi eside. Izinja zinenkumbulo enuka kamnandi.
Lapho imidlwane nomama behlala ndawonye isikhathi eside, iphunga liya ligxilile ezingqondweni zabo.
Uma izilwane sezichithe cishe amasonto amahlanu ndawonye, maningi amathuba okuthi zizokwazi ukubonana ngisho nangemva kweminyaka.
Ingabe izinja ziyakwazi ukubona izilwane ezihlala kuzo ngephunga?
Ngakho imidlwane eminingi ikhula ndawonye phakathi kwezelamani. Ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila, umama kanye nama-littermates yizikhungo zomhlaba.
Izinjana zigoqana zisondelane. Ukusondelana namalungu omndeni kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngoba umndeni wezinja uhlala ufudumele futhi ukwehlisa umoya. Kamuva siyadlala futhi sizijabulise.
Kuyofika usuku lapho izelamani ziyohlukaniswa khona. Ngemva kwalokho isilwane ngasinye siya emndenini waso omusha.
Amasonto okuqala okuphila phakathi kwezingane zakubo
Ngokuvamile, imidlwane kufanele ihlale nonina kanye nezingane zakubo okungenani amasonto ayisishiyagalombili ngemva kokuzalwa.
Izinja zidlula ezigabeni zokukhula ezihlukene ngemva kokuzalwa:
- Isigaba se-Vegetative noma isigaba se-neonatal
- isigaba soguquko
- isigaba se-embossing
Isigaba ngasinye sibalulekile empilweni yabo yakamuva ngoba bafunda kunina nezingane zakwabo.
Ngeshwa, lokhu akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kungenzeka ukuthi umndeni usheshe uhlukane noma ugula kakhulu. Kulokhu, kumuntu wakhe ukujwayela inja impilo yakhe yakamuva.
Izigaba zokukhula kwemidlwane
Amasonto amabili okuqala empilo abizwa ngokuthi yi-vegetative noma i-neonatal phase. Izindlebe namehlo kuvalwe. Inja ilala kakhulu, igona nonina nezingane zakwabo, futhi incela.
Bese kulandela isigaba soguquko. Umncane usalala kakhulu kodwa kancane kancane uyaqala ukubona indawo ezungezile.
Isigaba esilandelayo, isigaba se-embossing, sibaluleke kakhulu. Umdlwane manje usuqala ukwenza ukuxhumana kwawo kokuqala nokuxhumana nabantu.
Umdlwane ulahla umama nezingane zakwabo
Ngakho ungacabanga ukuthi i-littermates kanye nezinja ezingumama zibaluleke kangakanani kumdlwane.
Abazali babo nezingane zakubo yilokho akubonayo, akuzwayo, nakuzwayo kuqala ekuphileni kwakhe. Umndeni wezinja unikeza imfudumalo futhi udlulisa ukuvikeleka. Imidlwane ifunda komunye nomunye futhi abalingiswa bakamuva bezilwane bayakhula.
Ngemva kwesonto lesishiyagalombili, ngokuvamile kuyisikhathi sokuvalelisa. Imidlwane izotholwa emindenini yayo yesikhathi esizayo futhi ingase ingaphinde ibone izingane zakubo.
Nokho, okusele inkumbulo yenja enuka kamnandi. Futhi lokho kungahlala ukuphila konke.
Kuze kube nini inja ibona unina nezingane zakubo?
Lokhu kusho ukuthi inja ingase ikhumbule iphunga lomndeni, okungukuthi unina kanye nama-littermate, impilo yonke.
Ngokocwaningo, inkumbulo yephunga kuthiwa izibonakalisa lapho inja isihlale nonina usuku noma ezimbili kuphela.
Kuthatha isikhathi eside ezinganeni zakini. Uma izilwane sezichithe cishe amasonto amahlanu ndawonye, maningi amathuba okuthi zizokwazi ukubonana ngisho nangemva kweminyaka.
Kungaba yinkinga uma ugcina ama-littermates. Lokhu kwaziwa ngokuthi yi-littermate syndrome.
I-littermate syndrome
Impela leli qiniso lingenza kube nzima ukukhuphula ama-littermate ndawonye.
Ukugcina izinja eziningi kudoti owodwa ngezinye izikhathi kungaba yinkinga.
Kufanele ucabange ukuthi lezi zilwane ziyafunda komunye nomunye futhi zinakho konke okufanayo. Bafanelana ngokuphelele futhi umuntu uyinto encane nje.
Uma izinja zihlukaniswa kuphela komunye nomunye ngesikhathi sakamuva kakhulu, zibonisa ukwesaba okuqinile kokuhlukana.
Ingabe ama-littermate ayazwana?
Ukukhulisa ama-littermate amaningana kudinga isikhathi esiningi nokubekezela kunokukhulisa umdlwane ngoba isibopho phakathi kwezilwane sinamandla kunesabantu.
Izelamani zingangenela imibango enzima yokubusa.
Kungaba nzima ikakhulukazi phakathi kwabalingani ngesikhathi sesigaba sokuklelisa. Izinja zibe sezizama ukulungisa indawo yazo emndenini. Lokhu kungaholela ekuqhudelaneni okukhulu phakathi kwezelamani.
Umbuzo Ovame Ukubuzwa
Inja ingabakhumbula yini izingane zakwabo?
Ngemva Kweminyaka Yokuhlukana: Ingabe Izinja Ziyazikhumbula Izingane Zazo? Izinzwa zazo zokuhogela zisiza izinja ukuba zibone izingane zakubo. Kithina, mancane amathuba okuthi sihlangane nengane yakwethu esalahleka kudala emgwaqeni.
Kuze kube nini izingane zakubo zibonana?
Kuthatha isikhathi eside kuzelamani. Uma izilwane sezichithe cishe amasonto amahlanu ndawonye, maningi amathuba okuthi zizokwazi ukubonana ngisho nangemva kweminyaka.
Umdlwane ukhumbula izingane zakubo kuze kube nini?
Kuthiwa umdlwane kufanele uhlale eduze kukanina nezingane zakubo okungenani amasonto angu-7-9.
Ingabe izinja zingakhumbulana?
Uma izilwane ezincane zihlukaniswa kuphela ngemva kwamasonto angu-16, ziba nethuba elihle lokukhumbulana ngemva kweminyaka eminingi. Nokho, uma behlangana kuphela ngemva kweminyaka eyisithupha kuya kweyisikhombisa, kungase kube sekwephuze kakhulu.
Inja ikhumbula unina kuze kube nini?
Uma uhlukanisa umama nezingane ezineminyaka eyisithupha kuya kweyishumi ubudala, basabonana ngephunga labo. Lolu cwaningo lubonisa ukuthi inkumbulo yokuhogela nokuqashelwa kwamalungu omndeni kuhlala kuyo yonke impilo yenja.
Izinja zimkhohlwa nini umnikazi wazo?
Cha, izinja azibakhohlwa abantu bazo. Futhi hhayi okuhlangenwe nakho ababenakho nabantu babo. Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi kungani inja eyayiphatheke kabi ngomnikazi wokuqala ingamnaki lapho isinomunye umnikazi futhi iphinde ibone owokuqala.
Ingabe inja ingangikhumbula?
Nokho, lokho akusho ukuthi izinja aziphuthelwa nhlobo ukuba zodwa ekhaya. Bangase baphuthelwe ukuba nabo, kodwa lokho kulangazelela ezinjeni eziqeqeshwe kahle kuwukulindela ngaphezu kokulangazelela, okuqhathaniswa nomuzwa womuntu lapho othandekayo ethatha uhambo olude.
Ingabe inja ingaba nenzondo?
Cha, izinja azinawo amagqubu. Abanakho ukubona kusengaphambili noma ubuhlakani bemizwa bokucasuka noma ukuziphindiselela. Iningi lokuziphatha elibonakala lingathetheleli libangelwa ezinye izinto ezinjengomzwelo wemvelo, isimo, kanye nokukhuliswa.