UMary Allen
Amakati ayizidalwa zomkhuba - ukuba nomntwana njengelungu elisha lomndeni kuwushintsho olukhulu kuwo. Ngakho-ke kufanele ujwayelane nesilwane sakho esifuywayo ngokucophelela futhi uhlale uqinisekisa ukuphepha okwanele.
Wonke amakati ahlukile: amanye amakati awafuni nhlobo izingane. Anomsindo kakhulu kuwo futhi awesabisa kancane, ngakho-ke kungcono uhlale kude nawo. Abanye banelukuluku lokufuna ukusondela ezinganeni ezincane, bazibukisise bese bezihogela. Abanikazi bamakati kufanele bahlale nezilwane ezifuywayo futhi baqaphe ngokucophelela ukusabela kwazo.
FUkuhlangana Okukuqala Phakathi Kwekati Nomntwana
Lapho ikati nengane bazana, umuntu kufanele ahlale ezolile futhi aveze ukulondeka. Ukuzola okunjalo kuvame ukudluliselwa esilwaneni, kuyilapho ukuxakeka kungaqinisekisa ukuthi ikati lasendlini liba lingalondekile futhi likhathazeke.
Uma i-velvet paw iziphatha kahle, kufanele idunyiswe ngamazwi amnene kanye nemivimbo. Uma ungathanda ukuhoxa futhi, ungakwenza lokho: ungalokothi uphoqe isilwane sakho esifuywayo ukuba sisondele, kodwa bavumele bazinqumele ukuthi bafuna ukwazi nini futhi isikhathi esingakanani umntwana.
Amathiphu Okuphilisana Ngokuthula
Amanye amakati athambekele kuwo umhawu yamalungu amasha omndeni - zama ukukugwema ngokunaka kakhulu isilwane sakho esifuywayo. Uma izivakashi ziza ukuze zazi ingane yakho, kufanele futhi zifuye ikati lakho elibucayi ekhanda ukuze ziyibonise ukuthi nayo ibalulekile.
Ungalokothi ushiye ikati nengane zingagadiwe ndawonye futhi qinisekisa ukuthi isilwane sakho sihlala sinendlela yokubalekela lapho unomntwana. Amathoyizi ekati kanye nezitsha zekati kufanele zibekwe ngaphandle kokufinyelela kwengane ekhasayo - ngakolunye uhlangothi ngenxa yezizathu zokuhlanzeka, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukugwema umona.