UMary Allen
Ubungane phakathi kwengane nenja kungaba okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kuzo zombili izinhlangothi. Kodwa-ke, kunezinto ezimbalwa, ikakhulukazi kubazali, okufanele uzicabangele zisuka nje ukuze izinhlangothi zombili zikhule zikhululekile futhi ziphephile. Lapha ungathola ukuthi yini okudingeka uyinake ngokuningiliziwe.
Izinto Ezibalulekile Kuqala
Ohlangothini lwenja, akulona uhlobo olunqumela ozodlala naye ofanele, kodwa umlingiswa ngamunye wenja: Akufanele ukhethe inja engakuthandi ukuzithoba noma ngokuvamile enenkinga yomona noma ingcindezi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, inja emnene elinganiselayo futhi ezolile futhi ekwazi kahle izimo ezihlukene ilungile. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi usenakho kakade ukulalela okuyisisekelo okudingekayo. Ukuba nomdlwane nomntwana ngesikhathi esisodwa kuyingcindezi ephindwe kabili okufanele igwenywe. Kuba lula ngomdlwane lapho ingane okungenani isineminyaka emithathu ubudala.
Izibalo ezihlukahlukene zibonisa ukuthi ukukhula nenja kuyinto enhle ngempela: Izinja zenza izingane zijabule, ziphile kahle, futhi ziqine ngokwengqondo futhi zivaleka, izingane ezinamahloni ukuphuma.
Amathiphu Ajwayelekile
Ngaphansi kwale nto encane, singathanda ukufaka kuhlu ulwazi oluthile olujwayelekile oluzokwenza ukuphila kube lula ngenja nengane. Uma inja isivele isemndenini ngaphambi komntwana, kufanele uyivumele ihogele izinto zengane ngaphambi kokuthintana ngokuqondile ukuze ijwayele iphunga. Kufanele futhi umvumele ahogele ingane emhlanganweni wokuqala. Isinyathelo esilandelayo kufanele sinqunywe umzali ngamunye: Ezinjeni, ukukhothwa okufanayo kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile ekubambisaneni futhi inja enobungane izozama ukuyikhotha ingane. Ngokombono we-bacteriological, umlomo wenja uhlanzekile kunomlomo womuntu, uqukethe ngisho nezinto ezilwa namagciwane. Ngakho uma uvumela inja ikhothe umntwana (ngendlela elawulwayo nangokulinganisela, yebo), isibopho phakathi kwalaba ababili ngokuvamile siyokhula ngokushesha.
Ngokuvamile, kubalulekile ukuthi inja ibe nokuhlehla okuphephile: Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu lapho ingane iqala ukukhasa futhi ihamba. Izindawo lapho inja idla khona ukuphumula nokulala kufanele kube nemingcele enganeni. “Indlwana yasendlini” enjalo (okusho ukuthi kuhle) iphumuza wonke umuntu ngoba inja inokuthula kwayo futhi abazali bayazi ukuthi kokubili inja nengane kuphephile. Ngendlela, ungakwazi ukuguqula ubukhona bengane bube yinto enhle enja ngokuyinaka kakhulu futhi uyinikeze ukwelapha noma ezimbili.
Okufanayo kanye Nokubambisana
Manje sekumayelana nokuqinisa isibopho phakathi kwalaba ababili. Lokhu kubalulekile ngenxa yezizathu ezimbalwa: kudala ukwethembana, kuvimbela ulaka, futhi kudinga kokubili ukucabangela okunye. Ngokuvamile, izinja eziningi zithatha indima yokufundisa lapho ingane ifika emndenini: ikhula ibe abasizi abawusizo nabalingani bengane ekhulayo.
Isibopho esinjalo ngokuyinhloko sidalwa ngokuhlanganyela. Lokhu kuhlanganisa imidlalo efanelekile (isb. ukulanda imidlalo), ukuphulula ngothando, nezikhathi zokuphumula ndawonye. Okubalulekile wukwenza ukuhlangana kube mnandi ngangokunokwenzeka kinina nobabili. Izingane ezindala nazo kufanele zisize ekuqeqesheni inja futhi zithwale umthwalo wemfanelo. Lokhu kufaka phakathi, isibonelo, ukuhamba ngezinyawo noma ukuzilolonga amayunithi athile okuqeqesha. Nokho, njengabazali, ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele ucabangele ibhalansi yamandla. Isibonelo, ingane eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala ingakwazi ukuphatha i-poodle encane, kodwa ngokuqinisekile akuyona i-wolfhound.
Izinga kanye Nokwenqatshelwa
Kuvame ukungqubuzana kuleli phuzu, njengoba kukhona izinto ezanele zokungaboni ngaso linye phakathi kwabathandi bezinja ngisho bengenazo izingane. Ngokuvamile, lapho usebenzelana nezingane nezinja, isikhundla "epaketheni" asibalulekile kangako, ngoba yilapho kuphakama inkinga yamandla: Izimpisi ephaketheni zinquma izinga phakathi kwazo, umholi wepakethe akakwenzi. ngenelela. Ngokushesha nje lapho inja ibona ukuthi ingane ayikwazi ukufeza indima ebusa kakhulu, izoziqinisekisa. Njengomzali, awufuni neze ukuthi indodakazi yakho eneminyaka emithathu ubudala ilwele isikhundla esiphakeme ngokwakho.
Yingakho akufanele ugxile ekuhleleni kokuqala, kodwa ubuyele emuva ekusungulweni kwemikhawulo nemithetho: Ukuvinjelwa okunjalo kungadalwa yinoma ubani osephaketheni futhi kuzimele ku-oda lokuhamba phambili. Isibonelo, abazali kufanele babonise inja ukuthi ukungqubuzana ngokomzimba kuyinto engafaneleki futhi ngeke kubekezelelwe.
Kufanele basebenze njengabalamuli phakathi kwengane nenja, bafundise futhi baqondise izinhlangothi zombili ngokulinganayo. Uma inja yazi ukuthi abazali bangabalingani abafanelekayo nabaholi bapakisha, iyobethemba ukuthi izohoxa ezimweni ezinzima futhi ibavumele bahole. Njengoba ingane isencane kakhulu ize ifinyelele eminyakeni ethile ukuba isabele ngendlela elinganayo enqabeni, abazali kufanele bangenele lapha. Ngakho uma umntwana ehlukumeza inja futhi inja ibonisa ukungakhululeki kwayo, akufanele uyijezise inja; kunalokho, kufanele ngokungaguquki futhi ngokushesha, kodwa ngokunganaki, thatha ingane futhi uyifundise ukushiya inja yedwa uma ingafuni.
Inja yakho ifunda ukukwethemba futhi ayizizwa isongelwa ingane. Ngakho-ke, ungayithumeli inja noma uthathe ithoyizi layo uma ikhala enganeni, isibonelo Lokhu kudala ukuxhumana okungalungile nengane, okungaba nomthelela onamandla ebuhlotsheni esikhathini esizayo.
Ngokuvamile, ukugquma okusongelayo akufanele kujeziswe: Kuwuphawu olubalulekile ekukhulumisaneni phakathi kwenja nengane noma abazali. Inja ifunda (uma usabela njengoba kusanda kuchazwa) ukuthi abazali basabela ngokushesha lapho bekhala futhi bathathe ingane noma bayeke ukuziphatha okuyihluphayo. Ngale ndlela, izimo ezisongela kakhulu aziveli kwasekuqaleni.