UMary Allen
Esikuthanda kakhulu ngezinja zethu ukunamathela kwazo, ukuzinikela kwazo kwezinye izimo, nokuthi zihlale zizama ukusijabulisa.
Ngezinye izikhathi, nokho, ukufuna ukusondelana nenkosi noma inkosikazi ibacasula kancane. Phela, kunezimo lapho wonke umuntu engathanda inkululeko encane noma angathanda ukuba yedwa.
Ukuya endlini yangasese, isibonelo, kuyinto esithanda ukuyenza sodwa!
Ukulandelela kuzo zonke izinyathelo
Uma kuyimidlwane sithola lokhu okunamathiselwe kanye nokulandelelwa kokunyakaza kwethu kuhle kakhulu futhi sikuvumela ngenjabulo.
Kodwa uma umdlwane wakho ube usukhula ube yinja enobude obungamahlombe obufika ku-70 cm, ungaba minyene kancane endlini yangasese.
Bese behlezi eduze kwakho benentshisekelo, bahogele, babuke, futhi ngezinye izikhathi baze baqaphe kakhulu.
Ukuvikelwa ngisho nasezindaweni ezisondelene kakhulu
Izinja, njengenzalo yangaphambili yezimpisi, ziyizilwane eziphelele. Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezenza ezinye izinhlobo zizizwe zikhululekile emindenini emikhulu.
Amalungu ephakethe ayavikelana. Inja yakho akudingeki nokuba ibe ne-alpha gene yalokhu.
Ngakho ukuphishekela endlini yangasese kufeza umsebenzi wokuzivikela. Uhlezi nebhulukwe lakho phansi, ubonakala usengozini kumngane wakho onemilenze emine. Ngakho wenza umsebenzi wakhe njengesilwane esiwumthwalo futhi uqinisekisa ukuvikeleka kwakho ngesimo sengqondo sokuqaphela!
Uma umngane wakho onoboya naye ezizwa njenge-alpha futhi uthanda ukumyeka enze ngendlela yakhe, kuwumsebenzi wakhe kakhulu ukukubeka iso.
Isixazululo esingalungile
Ngenxa yokuphelelwa ithemba, abantu abaningi babhaklaza isicabha ebusweni bezinja zabo futhi bawukhiye. Kukhona abahlakaniphe kakhulu abakwazi ukuvula iminyango!
Ukukhiya umngane wakho onemilenze emine ngaphandle akuyixazululi inkinga. Kunalokho, manje awuvusi nje ukuqapha kwakhe kuphela kodwa nelukuluku lakhe lokwazi!
Isixazululo esifanele
Uma uqala ukuqeqesha umdlwane wakho bese uthi “Hlala!” noma “indawo” eyingcweti, umenza futhi umyalo othi “hlala!” ukufundisa. Lokhu kubalulekile ezimweni eziningi ezizayo noma kunjalo.
Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, umdlwane wakho uzohlala phambi komnyango usesimweni sokulinda, noma kunalokho usendaweni “yokuhlala”. Uzosheshe afunde ukuthi awukaze uhlale kuleli gumbi isikhathi eside futhi ubuyela kuye ungalimalanga.
Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa lesi sinyathelo semfundo zisuka nje noma ube nesineke nenja endala. Kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ungaguquguquki!