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Izinja nabantu Ekuphileni kwansuku zonke: Indlela Yokugwema Ingozi

Kuningi ukungaqiniseki uma kuziwa ezinjeni - kokubili phakathi kwabanikazi kanye nabanye abantu. Akumangalisi, njengoba kunezindaba ezintsha ezithusayo cishe nsuku zonke, kungaba izigameko zokulunywa kwezinja noma izimemezelo “zesenzo esibukhali” kubanikazi balokho okubizwa ngokuthi izinja ezisohlwini. Ekudidekeni okuvamile, inhlangano yokuvikela izilwane Izidladla ezine manje ibonisa ukuthi yini ebalulekile lapho usebenza nezinja ngokuphepha. Kanye nomqeqeshi wezinja oqeqeshiwe wezenhlalakahle yezilwane kanye nesazi sebhayoloji sokuziphatha u-Ursula Aigner, ophinde abe umhloli welayisensi yezinja zaseVienna, abashisekeli bamalungelo ezilwane banikeza amathiphu alula kodwa awusizo okuthi ungazigwema kanjani kangcono izingozi ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.

Ithiphu 1: Ukuqeqesha umlomo wombhobho

Isisekelo sokuphatha ngendlela efanele ukuziphatha sihlala sikhona ukuqeqeshwa okugxile kumvuzo. Ukuqeqeshwa okufanelekile kwe-muzzle kubaluleke kakhulu, ikakhulukazi kusukela kwethulwa ama-muzzles ayimpoqo kulabo okuthiwa izinja ezisohlwini e-Vienna. “Izinja eziningi zizizwa zingalondekile noma zivinjelwe amafinyila eziwafakile. Abakajwayele ukuzwa amafinyila ebusweni babo. Lapha kubaluleke ngokukhethekile ukuzijwayeza ukugqoka isifingqo ngokudumisa kanye nemivuzo yokudla ukuze inja ikhululeke ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngokuqeqeshwa okuhle, inja ingafunda ukuthi izinto ezijabulisayo zingahlotshaniswa nayo.” Lokhu kudinga ukubekezela nekhono (isb. ukufaka izibiliboco emlonyeni) kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza inja ikhululeke ezindaweni zomphakathi ukuze ihole.

Ithiphu 2: Ukuhamba kancane: "khulula" izinja ezimeni ezicindezelayo

Yini engingayenza uma inja yami ikhonkotha noma isabela ngokujabula noma ngisho nolaka lapho ihlangana nezinye izinja noma abantu? “Akudingeki ngibeke inja yami kukho konke ukuhlangana. Ngokwesibonelo, ngiyakwazi shintsha uhlangothi lomgwaqo ngesikhathi esihle lapho Ngibona enye inja iza ngakimi,” kuchaza u-Ursula Aigner. Kubalulekile ukuhamba ngokuthula nangokuzola ngesikhathi esihle, ukudumisa nokuvuza inja. Phela, lokhu futhi kusebenza ngokumangalisayo ezimeni zakudala zokungqubuzana, njengalapho izinja zihlangana nabagibeli bamabhayisikili, abagijimi, njll.: Izinja ziyaqaphela ukuthi abantu bazo bagwema izimo ezicindezelayo kanye nabo futhi ngaleyo ndlela bazinike ukuphepha. Ngale ndlela bafunda ukwethemba izinqumo zabanikazi babo. Lokhu kunciphisa ingcindezi ekuhlanganeni okunjalo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi - ezinjeni nakubantu.

Ithiphu 3: “Hlukanisa” igama eliwumlingo

Uma izinja ezimbili noma abantu besondelene kakhulu, kungadala ukungqubuzana ngokombono wenja. Ukugwema lokhu, ezinye izinja zizama “ukuhlukanisa”, okungukuthi ukuma phakathi kwezinja nabantu. Siyazi ukuthi kusukela ekugoneni okuvela kubantu lapho izinja zigxuma phakathi: Sivame ukutolika lokhu ngokungeyikho ngokuthi “umhawu” noma “ukubusa”. Eqinisweni, bazama ngokuzenzekelayo ukuxazulula ukungqubuzana okucatshangwayo.

Okubalulekile ekuqeqeshweni ukuthi: Ngingasebenzisa futhi ukuhlukanisa kahle njengomnikazi wezinja. “Uma ngibona isimo esingase sibe nengcindezi enjeni yami, ngingakwazi ukukhipha inja yami ngendlela yokuthi ekugcineni ngime phakathi kwayo ukuze ngisize,” kuchaza u-Ursula Aigner. “Ngokwenza kanjalo, sengivele nginikela kakhulu esixazululo, futhi inja ayisazizwa inesibopho.” Lokhu kungasetshenziswa ezimweni eziningi zansuku zonke, isibonelo ekuthuthweni komphakathi: umnikazi uzibeka ekhoneni elithulile phakathi kwenja nabanye abagibeli ukuze enze isimo sikhululeke kakhulu esilwaneni.

Ithiphu 4: Bona izimpawu zokupholisa inja

Ngokuphindaphindiwe, kwenzeka ukuthi abanikazi bamane abazazi izidingo zezinja zabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaqondi ukuziphatha kwe-canine. “Inja ihlale ikhuluma ngomzimba wayo. Uma ngikwazi ukufunda indlela inja ezizwa ngayo, ngiyakwazi ukubona nalapho icindezelekile. Lezi ekuqaleni "zithambile" izimpawu ezipholile njengokujikisa ikhanda lakho, ukukhotha izindebe zakho, ukuzama ukugwema okuthile, ngisho nokubanda. Uma siziba lezi zimpawu, khona-ke izimpawu “ezinomsindo omkhulu” njengokugquma, ukuququda kwezindebe futhi ekugcineni ukugqashuka noma ngisho nokuluma kuza kuqala. Kubalulekile ukwazi: Ngingakwazi ukuvimbela umsindo omkhulu ngokulalela lawo athule,” kuchaza u-Ursula Aigner.

Izinhla zohlobo zinikeza isithombe esingalungile

“Ukuba nolaka akusona isici sento ethile ukuzalwa wenja,” kuchaza u-Aigner. Inja iziphatha ngokugqamayo kuphela ngokuhambisana nemithelela ngayinye yezemvelo - ngokuvamile njengokukhungatheka, ukwesaba, noma ukusabela kobuhlungu kubantu, isibonelo. Ngakho-ke umthwalo wemfanelo wokuziphatha okuvumelanayo nokungangqubuzani okuphansi ungowomuntu zisuka nje.”

Ngakho-ke, ukuhlukaniswa kwezinja zohlu kwenza umqondo omncane - noma ngabe lokho kuyiqiniso elingokomthetho eVienna. Phela, lesi sigaba sidlulisela isithombe "senja enhle - inja embi" esingahambisani neqiniso. U-Ursula Aigner ukubeka ngamafuphi: “Ukungaphathwa kahle kungaholela ekuziphatheni okungajwayelekile noma okuyinkinga kunoma iyiphi inja. Inkinga ngezinja nezinja ezingahlalisana kahle nezinkinga zokuziphatha cishe ikwelinye icala lentambo.”

Ava Williams

Ibhalwe ngu Ava Williams

Sawubona, ngingu-Ava! Sengineminyaka engaphezudlwana kuka-15 ngibhala ngokomsebenzi. Ngigxile ekubhaleni okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi okufundisayo, amaphrofayili ohlobo, ukubuyekezwa kwemikhiqizo yokunakekelwa kwezilwane ezifuywayo, kanye nezindatshana zezempilo nokunakekelwa kwezilwane ezifuywayo. Ngaphambi nangesikhathi somsebenzi wami njengombhali, ngachitha cishe iminyaka eyi-12 embonini yokunakekela izilwane ezifuywayo. Nginolwazi njengomphathi wekhennel kanye nomkhwenyana ochwepheshe. Ngiphinde ngiqhudelane nezinja zami emidlalweni yezinja. Futhi nginamakati, izingulube, nonogwaja.

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