UMary Allen
Ubusika abugcini nje ngokubanda kodwa futhi nenkathi emnyama. Sivame ukuphuma endlini kumnyama ekuseni futhi sibuye kusihlwa. Lokhu kusho nokuthi ukuhamba kwansuku zonke nenja kuvame ukwenzeka ebumnyameni, okusho ukuthi kufanele kubhekwe izinto ezimbalwa ukuze kuvikelwe isilwane ezingozini ezingase zibe khona.
Ukulungiselela Esikhundleni Sokucindezeleka
Abantu abakwazi ukuhamba ebumnyameni - akumangazi ngoba ukubuka kunqunyelwe ngokucacile futhi abaningi abazizwa bekhululekile ikakhulukazi "nge-engeli" encane. Nokho, yini okufanele kukhunjulwe: Yiqiniso, inja ayiwugwemi lo muzwa wokucanuzela kwenhliziyo.
Zama ukubheka phambili ekuhambeni ebumnyameni ukuze ukhulule ukucindezeleka okuvamile. Yiqiniso, kufanele ukhethe kuphela izindlela ozazi kahle futhi ezikhululekile kuwe, ngoba lokhu kungase kudide abanikazi nezilwane. Kungcono ukugcina inja yakho ibambelele ngaphandle uma ifinyeleleka ngamaphesenti angu-100 futhi ihlezi iseduze nawe noma kunjalo. Ingozi yokuthi ikhala loboya lizothatha okuthile futhi libaleke likhulu kakhulu. Ayilungile ekukhanyeni kodwa ingase ibe inkinga yangempela ebumnyameni.
Uma uzohamba umzila wakho emgwaqeni ophithizelayo ongenawo umgwaqo oseceleni, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ugijime ngokumelene nesiqondiso sohambo futhi uholele inja lapho zingekho khona izimoto. Ngisho nokuwela umgwaqo ebusuku, kunjalo, kufanele uqaphele nakakhulu. Kufanele futhi uzilungiselele iqiniso lokuthi umngane wakho onemilenze emine angase esabe lapho abadlula ngendlela abagqoke amajazi amade aminyene bephuma ebumnyameni bephethe isikhafu nesigqoko.
Imishini Elungile Ebumnyameni
Imishini efanele ibalulekile futhi ukuze abantu abaseduze kwakho babone umuntu nenja ebumnyameni. Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi wena nenja yakho ningabonwa abanye abasebenzisi bomgwaqo. Ikakhulukazi, kukhona izingozi ezivamile nabagibeli bamabhayisikili ngoba abakwazi ukubona inja ebumnyameni ngakho-ke bashayisana nayo - lokhu, yiqiniso, kuyingozi kakhulu kuzo zombili izinhlangothi.
Ngokuvamile, amakholomu ezinja ezikhanyayo ahlala enconywa - hhayi kuphela ukuze inja ibone abanye, kodwa futhi ukuze ukwazi ukulandelela isilwane sakho ebumnyameni. I-vest noma, uma isha kakhulu, ijazi elikhanyayo nalo liyisinqumo esihle. Uma uthanda, ungasebenzisa nokucwayiza okunamathela kukhola. Kodwa qaphela: ngokucwayiza, ulahlekelwa umbono wenja phakathi kwezibani futhi ungase uzibuze ukuthi umngane wakho onemilenze emine angahamba ibanga elingakanani phakathi kwezimpawu zokujika. Kufanele futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ama-blinkers namakholomu akhazimulayo abonakala ngokucacile: ezinjeni ezinamajazi amade kakhulu, imithombo yokukhanya ingashabalala ngokushesha kwejazi.