UMary Allen
Uma ufuna ukuthatha ikati, ngokuvamile kufanele ukhethe phakathi kwekati ne-tomcat. Funda ngendlela ubulili obuthinta ngayo umlingiswa nokuziphatha kanye nomthelela obunawo ebudlelwaneni nabantu.
Isinqumo sokuthi ukhetha ukuthatha ikati noma i-tomcat singumuntu ngamunye. Kodwa ikakhulukazi ezindlini ezinamakati amaningi, ubulili bunganquma ukuhlalisana okuvumelanayo.
Umehluko Ezilwaneni Ezingakathenwa
Umehluko ekuziphatheni phakathi kwamakati nama-tomcats ubonakala kakhulu ezilwaneni ezingavunyelwe:
I-tomcat evamile (engafakwanga):
- Ukuthambekela kokunhlanhlatha lapho ubheka izindlovukazi lapho kushisa
- Indawo emaka ngomchamo onuka kakhulu
- ngokuvamile anolaka kwamanye amakati
Ikati elijwayelekile (elingaxhunywanga):
- khulisa amakati enhlanganweni yezindlovukazi
- babambisane kwezokuvikela kanye nokudla
- ukuziphatha ngemva kokuthenwa
Ukuthenwa kwekati noma i-tomcat nakho kushintsha ukuziphatha kwesilwane. Ezimweni eziningi, lokhu kufunwa kakhulu ngumnikazi. Ukumakwa komchamo kuyancipha, ukuzulazula nokulwa kuyancishiswa - amakati angenayo i-neutered, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abesilisa noma abesifazane, aba nomphakathi kanye nokuthula ngokusebenzisa i-neutering. Noma kunjalo, izilwane zihlala ziyiduna noma insikazi kanye nezici zazo eziqondene nobulili.
Ingabe Ubulili Buyabuthinta Ubudlelwano Bomuntu?
Ukuthi ubulili bekati bunethonya ebudlelwaneni babantu akukakafakazelwa izifundo. Nokho, ucwaningo oluningi lwabanikazi bamakati lubonisa ukuthambekela okuthile.
ikati nomuntu
Ama-hangover kuthiwa anamandla kakhulu, kodwa aqhelelene kakhulu nabantu. Baphinde babhekwe njengabanamandla kakhulu ekudlaleni komphakathi nabantu futhi babekezelele ukudelela okungalindelekile, okufana nokwabantwana. Ukwengeza, ama-hangover ngokuvamile alula ukuwakhuthaza ngokudla - kodwa futhi avame ukukhuluphala ngokushesha.
ikati nomuntu
Amakati esifazane awanawo ulaka, kodwa anolaka futhi ane-idiosyncratic. Kungokwemvelo yawo ukunikeza amakati ngokudla. Ngakho-ke, babona ukuzingela njengomsebenzi wempilo futhi ngokuvamile bangabazingeli abanesiphiwo - okubuye kubonakale ngokudlala ndawonye nabantu.
Izinto Ezibalulekile Zokuphilisana Ngokuvumelana
Nokho, uthando nokuzwelana kubaluleke kakhulu kunobulili lapho uhlala nabantu. Ezinye izici eziningi nazo zinendima ebalulekile ebuntwini bekati. Okubili okubaluleke kakhulu yilezi:
- Izidingo zofuzo zekati:
I-Genetics inquma ukuthi ikati lisaba kakhulu noma liyazethemba, livulekile, linobungane futhi liyabekezelela, noma alinamuntu futhi alikubekezeleli ukuxhumana. Ubuntu bekati bubonakala bunomthelela omkhulu kumakati. Indlovukazi iyisibonelo esihle samazinyane ekati emasontweni ambalwa okuqala futhi angawafundisa ukuziphatha kokwesaba noma ukuzethemba. - Ukuhlalisana kwabantu:
Kuphela ngokusebenzisa okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle nabantu (kwakamuva kusukela evikini lesibili lokuphila) lapho ikati lifunda khona ukuthi abantu bangaba abangane abahle kanye nabalingani bokuphila.
Ingabe Ukusatshalaliswa Ngobulili Kudlala Indima Emikhaya Enamakati Ahlukahlukene?
Okuhlangenwe nakho kubonise ukuthi amaqembu amakati obulili obufanayo ngokuvamile avumelana kangcono. Kodwa ngisho nalapha kukhona okuhlukile, njengoba kufakazelwa amapheya amaningi avumelanayo we-tomcats namakati. Uma ufuna ukuthatha amakati amabili noma ngaphezulu, kuhle ukhethe izingane zakini kusuka kudoti ofanayo. Kuvame ukuba nokuxhumana okuseduze ikakhulukazi phakathi kwabo.