UMary Allen
Abanikazi bamakati akudingeki bakwenze ngaphandle kohambo lwangempelasonto noma ubumnandi basehlobo ngaphandle kwekhaya. Okufanele ukwenze nje ukuthambisa ikati.
Ilanga eliningi, izintaba ezigcwele izimbali ezinuka kamnandi, izindlela ezihehayo zokuqwala izintaba, abangani abakumema ukuthi uvakashele ibhayisikili, amachibi anezinga lokushisa elimnandi, nazo zonke lezo zindiza zangezimpelaviki ezishibhe kakhulu...
Kungani abanikazi bamakati kufanele bahluke kunabo bonke abanye abahlala emadolobheni amakhulu abafuna nje ukuphuma, ukucisha, nokubalekela izindonga zabo ezine? Ukube bekungengenxa kanembeza. Lizosabela kanjani ikati? Ingabe uzizwa elahliwe, futhi ephathwa kabi? Ingabe ukukhungatheka kukushukumisela ezenzweni ezimbi, futhi ingabe ukucindezeleka kwenza amasosha akho omzimba abe buthakathaka? Futhi: Umthandi wekati onokwethenjelwa angashiya umngane wakhe yedwa isikhathi esingakanani?
Yiqiniso, ayikho impendulo yendawo yonke kuyo yonke le mibuzo, ngoba amakati akhona futhi azohlala engumuntu, omunye akanakuqhathaniswa nomunye. Kodwa bonke banezimfanelo zomona ezifanayo. Ungazibamba kahle uwedwa, ungalokothi udinwe futhi uphile okwamanje. Uma usuhambile, uKitty uzoqaphela, uma usubuyile uzoxhaphaza ngokungenamahloni imizamo yakho yokulungisa nganoma iyiphi indlela angayenza.
Ungashiyi Lutho Okufanele Ulufune
Uma kungekho sitter etholakalayo noma engafunwa, kufanele uqinisekise ukuthi kukhona amanzi okuphuza ahlanzekile anele atholakalayo - ezitsheni eziningana, abilisiwe noma amanzi amaminerali amile. Ezinsukwini ezishisayo kungcono ukubeka ukudla okomile ezitsheni - okwanele isikhathi sonke sokungabikho. Noma ku-dispenser, efakwe i-timer futhi kancane kancane ikhulula izingcezu zokudla. Futhi, cabanga ngokudla okumbalwa okuhlakazekile kwamakati ongawathola futhi adle lapho ephuma endaweni yawo. Futhi cabanga ngenhlanzeko. Kufanele kube nendlu yangasese ecwebezelayo enodoti owanele nsuku zonke, ngaphandle kwalokho, ikati lakho lizoshwabana ikhala lalo ngokufanelekile.
Gcina izinzwa zekati zimatasa ngesihlalo sasefasiteleni lapho “ingabuka khona i-TV.” Nge-self-service carillon engaba namabhola okhuni entanjeni noma ibhola eligcwele amatshe. Ngemicamelo embalwa ye-herbal oyikhipha ezindaweni zakho ozithandayo. Lokhu kuzophilisa amehlo, izindlebe, nekhala.
Okusashoda ngenjabulo yekati (ngaphandle kwakho) isihlahla esiklanywe ngomcabango sokuklwebha nokudlala, esifaneleka ngokulinganayo ukuzulazula, ukunakekelwa komzimba, ukulala, kanye nombhoshongo wokubuka. Nehora elengeziwe lokudlala nokuphulula uma ubuya.
Ilanga eliningi, izintaba ezigcwele izimbali ezinuka kamnandi, izindlela ezihehayo zokuqwala izintaba, abangani abakumema ukuthi uvakashele ibhayisikili, amachibi anezinga lokushisa elimnandi, nazo zonke lezo zindiza zangezimpelaviki ezishibhe kakhulu...
Kungani abanikazi bamakati kufanele bahluke kunabo bonke abanye abahlala emadolobheni amakhulu abafuna nje ukuphuma, ukucisha, nokubalekela izindonga zabo ezine? Ukube bekungengenxa kanembeza. Lizosabela kanjani ikati? Ingabe uzizwa elahliwe, futhi ephathwa kabi? Ingabe ukukhungatheka kukushukumisela ezenzweni ezimbi, futhi ingabe ukucindezeleka kwenza amasosha akho omzimba abe buthakathaka? Futhi: Umthandi wekati onokwethenjelwa angashiya umngane wakhe yedwa isikhathi esingakanani?
Yiqiniso, ayikho impendulo yendawo yonke kuyo yonke le mibuzo, ngoba amakati akhona futhi azohlala engumuntu, omunye akanakuqhathaniswa nomunye. Kodwa bonke banezimfanelo zomona ezifanayo. Ungazibamba kahle uwedwa, ungalokothi udinwe futhi uphile okwamanje. Uma usuhambile, uKitty uzoqaphela, uma usubuyile uzoxhaphaza ngokungenamahloni imizamo yakho yokulungisa nganoma iyiphi indlela angayenza.