UMary Allen
Izinhlungu eziningi nazo zingadalulwa ngokushisa noma amaphakethe abandayo. Khuluma nodokotela wakho wezilwane ngalokho abakuncomayo esimweni sakho esithile. Ngale ndlela ukhona lapho inja yakho isezinhlungwini futhi ingavimbela ukuhlupheka okwengeziwe.
Uma ufuna ukuthola ikati endaweni yokukhosela izilwane, kufanele ubenze bakubonise wonke amakati ekuvakasheleni kwakho kokuqala. Indlela elula ukuthola amakati, amukela izivakashi ngokuthanda ukwazi futhi uwavumele azitotose ngokushesha. Kodwa ikakhulukazi endaweni yokukhosela izilwane, kufanelekile ukunaka ngokucophelela amakati athule.
Amakati amaningi anamahloni
Amakati alinde buthule ngemuva endaweni yokukhosela awayona into yesibili! Cabanga ufika ekhaya kodwa ukhiye wakho awusangeni. Umndeni wakho, konke obekubalulekile empilweni yakho kudlulile. Usele ungenalutho… Ungaba sesimweni sokuthola inhlolokhono eyimpumelelo njengamanje? Lesi yisona kanye isimo amakati asezindaweni zokukhosela azithola ekuso.
Zimbalwa kakhulu izilwane lapho ezilethwa umnikazi onothando oye wazama ukugwema ukuhlukana. Amakati atholakele abusa kakhulu - izilwane ezilahliwe, ezilahliwe ngesihluku, ezishaqeka ngokujulile futhi ezesabayo ngemuva kwalokho ezikuthole. Kodwa alele osofa amabhubesi adinga nje ukuncibilika kancane ngaphambi kokuthi aphinde athembe umuntu ngokugcwele. Kodwa ukubekezela kuyazuzisa.
Indawo yokukhosela izilwane iyisimo esingavamile
Ngomuntu oqondayo eceleni kwakhe, endaweni ebenza bazizwe bephephile, ikati lizodlula okuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle. Kodwa indawo yokukhosela izilwane ayiyona indawo efanele lokhu, naphezu kwayo yonke imizamo yabagcini. Kunezilwane eziningi kakhulu endaweni encane, ukucindezeleka okukhulu, iphunga eliningi, nomsindo. Emakati amaningi, amaphupho awo amabi endaweni yokukhosela avame ukuhlala.
Bafihla, bazame ukuzenza "abangabonakali". Abaningi bazisindisa ngokuzihoxisa ngokuphelele kubo, bamane banganaki amanye amakati futhi ngaphezu kwabo bonke abantu abangabazi abahlezi bemi phambi kwabo. Ngeshwa, kufanele benze “ingxoxo yesicelo” kanye nalabo bantu mayelana nokutholwa okungenzeka.
Futhi, bheka "Cinderella"
Abantu abafuna umngane wokuhlanza bangase babe nombono ocacile wokuthi hlobo luni lwekati abalifunayo phambi komnyango wendawo yokukhosela izilwane - ukuze babakhohlwe ngokushesha ngemva komnyango. Kunamazinyane ekati agijimela esivakashi ephethe intelezi yezingane futhi (cishe njalo) asonga ngezidladla zawo ngokushesha.
Ngezilwane ezindala, ezizethembayo, ezikhonyayo, ziphushela phambili, zibona ithuba lazo futhi zilisebenzisa ngokungaguquki. Bakuphulula imilenze, bafuna ukwanga, bese bethi “Ngikhiphe lapha” kuzo zonke izindawo ngoba bayazi ukuthi isivakashi esijabule singaba ithikithi labo lempilo entsha.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abanamahloni, abazwelayo, asebekhulile, abalimele ngokwengqondo, abangakwazi ukuzibonakalisa ngokuphelele njengekati lephupho, banesandla esibi.
Amathiphu angu-4 okwenza ukukhetha endaweni yokukhosela
Kodwa-ke, ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi uthola ngempela ikati lakho lamaphupho endaweni yokukhosela izilwane, kufanele unamathele kule mithetho elandelayo:
- Cabanga kusengaphambili ukuthi yiliphi ikati elingena empilweni yakho nokuthi yini ongamnika yona. Ungazifaki ngaphansi kwengcindezi njengokuthi “Namuhla ekuseni ngiya endaweni yokukhosela izilwane ngizothola ikati”.
- Endaweni yokukhosela, zinike isikhathi sokubheka futhi wazi amakati. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuvakashela amakati lapho izinsuku ezimbalwa.
- “Ungaqinisekiswa” yikati lokuqala elizethembayo elisondelayo.
- Bheka ngokukhethekile amakati abekelwe ngemuva. Uma kunesidingo, woza izikhathi eziningana - ngaphandle kwalokho, ungase uphuthelwe ukutholwa impilo yonke.
Ungakhethi ikati njengesipho sikaKhisimusi
Kuyiqiniso elidabukisayo: amakati anikezwe ngoKhisimusi agcina esezindaweni zokukhosela ngo-January kamuva nje!
- Isikhathi sikaKhisimusi, esinezivakashi eziningi kanye nesiphithiphithi endlini, yisikhathi esibi kakhulu sokuthatha ikati emndenini.
- Izingane kanye nabantu abasha ikakhulukazi banombono ongalungile wokuthi ungakanani umsebenzi nokucatshangelwa kwesilwane ekhaya.
- Izingane ezincane zisindwa umthwalo wemfanelo wekati; asebekhulile abanaso isikhathi esanele sokunakekela ikati. Kungcono uma unikeza incwadi mayelana namakati, ivawusha "yekati yokuhlola" (ukunakekelwa kweholide), khona-ke wonke umndeni uzokwazi ukuthi i-catsuit iyawafanela.
- Ungalokothi unikeze ikati njengomngane wokududuza kumuntu osekhulile. Ikati alithathi indawo yomuntu, futhi ukumnakekela kuvame ukuba umthwalo njengoba ekhula.