UMary Allen
Uma kuziwa ekuqeqesheni izinja, imibono iyahluka. Into eyodwa eqinisekile: inja nayo idinga imingcele futhi idinga ukufunda indlela yokuziphatha nokuthi hhayi. Inja ingajeziswa nini futhi kanjani?
Ukuze izinja zihlukanise phakathi kokuhle nokubi - noma okufiselekayo nokungathandeki - ukuziphatha, kufanele ziqeqeshwe. Nokho, kunezithiyo eziningi uma kuziwa kulesi sihloko, futhi kunezinto ezimbalwa abanikazi bezinja okufanele bazicabangele.
Ngoba ezimweni eziningi, ukujezisa kuyindlela engalungile. Isibonelo, ukudonsa i-leash noma ukushaya inja. Abanye futhi basebenzisa izibhamu zamanzi ukuze bavimbele umngane wabo onemilenze emine ekuziphatheni okuthile. Kodwa abaqeqeshi abaningi nabo bayeluleka ngokumelene nalokhu.
Kodwa sisho ukuthini ngempela isijeziso? Ukuziphatha okubhekwa njengokungafaneleki noma okungafanele kuzojeziswa. Endabeni yenja, isijeziso kufanele singakhululeki ngokwanele ukuyivimbela ekwenzeni kanjalo esikhathini esizayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuhlale kunengozi yokuthi isilwane sizothuswa. Umngane onemilenze emine angase asabele ngobudlova kulokhu.
Indlela Yokungayijezisi Inja
Yiqiniso, awufuni inja yakho ikuhlobanise nemizwa engemihle. Pho ungaze umsole kanjani? Okubaluleke kakhulu, ungalokothi uyijezise inja yakho ngokomzimba. Ochwepheshe bachaza ukuthi ukushaya, ukumpintsha, nokuphula ikhola konke kungabangela inja yakho ukuba ibone isandla sakho njengengozi.
Ngakho-ke, abanye abanikazi bezinja baphendukela emishinini ethile njengesijeziso, njengamakholomu ashaqisayo noma uphondo olunomsindo. Banenzuzo yokuthi inja ayibahlanganisi ngokuqondile nabantu babo, kodwa futhi bangakhuthaza ukuziphatha okusabisayo noma okunolaka ngakho-ke kufanele kugwenywe.
Njengomthetho ojwayelekile, isijeziso sisebenza kuphela ezinjeni uma sisetshenziswa ngokushesha ngemva kokwenziwa kobubi. Uma umngani onemilenze emine echama efulethini futhi ajeziswe kuphela uma umndeni wakhe ubuyela ekhaya, ngeke akwazi ukuhlanganisa lezi zigameko ezimbili futhi uzodideka.
Hlala Uthethisa Inja Yakho Khona manjalo
Ukuze uphazamise inja ekuziphatheni kwayo, ngokusho kwe-"Focus", kunconywa ukuba weqe amagama anjengokuthi "Cha!", "Vala!" Noma “Hawu!” Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa igama elifanayo njalo. Biza igama ngomoya ophansi, phezulu, futhi, uma kungenzeka, uhlale unengcindezi efanayo. Ngezinye izikhathi kusiza ukunikeza inja enye indlela yomsebenzi wayo wamanje.
Ngokwesibonelo, uma ehlafuna ifenisha, ungasikisela ukuba ahlafune ithambo esikhundleni salokho. Futhi kubalulekile: ngokushesha nje lapho inja iyeka ukuziphatha okungathandeki, awusadingi ukuyithethisa, kodwa futhi uyidumise ngendlela enobungane.
Ikakhulukazi ngemidlwane emincane, kuvame ukusiza ukuziba ukuziphatha okungafunwa. Kungenjalo, bazokwazi ukuthi uma beqhubeka nokuziphatha kanje, bazothola ukunakwa kwakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, uphendulela ikhanda lakho futhi ubheke ohlangothini. Kuphela uma umdlwane uyeka, uphendukela kuye futhi.
Esikhundleni Sesijeziso: Qeqesha Inja Yakho Ngokuqiniswa Okuhle
Ngokuvamile, ochwepheshe bayeluleka ukuqeqesha izinja hhayi ngokujeziswa, kodwa ngokuqiniswa okuhle: esikhundleni sokujezisa ukuziphatha okungafunwa, ukuziphatha okufunayo kuyavuzwa. Uma sifundisa abangani bethu abanemilenze emine ukuthi baziphathe kanjani futhi bahlangabezane nezidingo zabo, ezimweni eziningi ukujeziswa akusadingeki.
Okunye okubalulekile: zama ukuzwelana nenja yakho futhi uqonde ukuthi kungani futhi iziphatha kanjani ezimweni ezithile. Ezimweni eziningi, izinja azisho lokhu lapho zisicasula ngokuziphatha kwazo. Bamane babonise ukuthi kukhona okushodayo - isibonelo, ukunyakaza noma ukucindezeleka kwengqondo.
Uma kukhona okungahambi kahle, ungakukhumbula futhi uhlale uzolile, kunokuba ujezise inja. Futhi qiniseka ukuthi ngokuzayo lesi simo asenzeki futhi.