Ava Williams
Abanikazi bezinja bayasazi isimo: izinja zabo zidlala nje ngokujabula omunye nomunye futhi ngokuzumayo isimo siyashintsha: isimo sokudlala siyashisa futhi i-romp ephilayo iphenduka ukuzingela. Inja iyajahwa, ikhonkothe, futhi idwengulwe yibo bonke abanye. Inja ehlukunyezwayo ibhekana nokuhudulwa nokuhlukunyezwa kwesixuku esiqinelwayo futhi ingaphansi kokucindezeleka okukhulu. Ochwepheshe banikeza amathiphu ngalokho abanikazi bezinja abangakwenza esimweni esinjalo.
Ngenela isimo singakashubi
Ngisho noma ngokuvamile kuthiwa izinja zakha izimo ezinjalo phakathi kwazo, lokhu kuyiqiniso ngokwengxenye. Izinja ziyahlukahluka ngobukhulu, amandla, ukukhuthazela, kanye nesimo sengqondo. Uma izinja ezilwa zinomlingisi nomzimba ofanayo, zingaxazulula ukungqubuzana phakathi kwazo. Nokho, isimo sihlukile uma isilwane esixhashazwayo siyakwazi ukuzivikela futhi asikwazi ukumelana nesimo ngokuhlaselwa kweziqhwaga ezinemilenze emine. Lapha ukungenelela komnikazi wayo kuyadingeka. Kufanele akhiphe inja yakhe esimweni esingakhululekile noma ayinikeze isivikelo futhi aqinisekise ukuthi uyathula futhi.
Abanye abanikazi bezinja nabo kudingeka bangenelele, bahlukanise izinja zabo eqenjini, futhi “ziphole”. Ngokungafani nenja ephansi, izinja ezihlaselayo ngezinye izikhathi azikwazi ukuthuliswa kalula ngokumemeza. Kulokhu, ukungenelela kuyadingeka. Khipha inja yakho ngokuthula nangokuqinile eqenjini. Ngaleyo ndlela isimo singadamba.
Imiphumela engaba khona yokungangeneleli
Yimiphi imiphumela engase yehluleke ukunikeza usizo noma ukwehluleka ukungenelela kube nezinja? Inja ehlukunyezwayo ingalahlekelwa ukwethemba umuntu wayo futhi ihlale ihlobanisa izimo eziyingozi nobukhulu nokubukeka kwezilwane ezihlaselayo. Inja eqinelayo, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ifunda ukuthi kulungile ukuhlukumeza ezinye izilwane futhi ngeke ime endaweni elandelayo ebuthaka.
Izimbangela zokuhlukumeza phakathi kwezinja
Ziningi izimbangela zokuxhashazwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lokhu kungase kube ukudluliswa kwe kwemizwa eqenjini, kodwa kungase futhi kube mayelana nokunxephezela ubuthakathaka bomuntu. Ekugcineni, izinja ngeshwa zifunda ukuthi ubuxhwanguxhwangu kumnandi. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyeka izenzo ezinjalo ngokushesha, ngaphandle kwalokho, izinja "zizoyisindisa" futhi zifune ukukwenza ngokuphindaphindiwe.
Vimbela izimo zobuxhwanguxhwangu
Ukuze ugweme izimo zobuxhwanguxhwangu zisuka nje, kuyatuseka ukuthi uyibhekisise inja yakho futhi ungenelele ngesikhathi esihle uma ukuguquguquka kweqembu okungekuhle okunjalo kusongela ukukhula. Uma udlala, ungabona ezinjeni ukuthi wonke umuntu ujabule, ngisho noma izindima zihlehliswa ngokuphindaphindiwe: ozingelwayo uba umzingeli futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Kuhle noma kunenzuzo ukuvumela izinja zidlale zodwa izidingo zomzimba ezifanayo, njengazo zonke, futhi ziyahambisana ngokukhethekile.