Lezi zinja zivame ukuthandwa ngenxa yesimo sazo, ukuhlakanipha, nokuzinikela. Banothando kakhulu futhi bazokujabulela ukukujoyina uma ulele kusofa, uncamela ukuba seduze nabanikazi babo noma nini lapho kungenzeka.
Bavame ukungabathembi abantu abangabazi ngaphandle kokuba babe nobudlelwane ebuntwaneni. Uma kungenjalo, abashayisibhakela bazokhonkotha kakhulu izivakashi ezifika ekhaya lakho.
Abashayisibhakela bahlala bengavuthiwe ngokomzwelo isikhathi eside, nakuba ukukhula kwabo ngokomzimba kuvame ukuma ezinyangeni eziyi-18. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukufunda kusencane kungase kubonakale kufana nokukhuluma nomuntu oyisithulu, kanti empeleni akunjalo. Nokho, ngesinye isikhathi inja yakho ivele iqonde konke obuzama ukuyifundisa isikhathi eside.
Nakuba bezwana nezinye izilwane endlini abakhuliswe ngayo, bavame ukuxosha amakati nezinye izilwane ezincane ezingeyona ingxenye yomndeni wabo.