UMary Allen
Ngaphambi kokuthi uthole ilungu lomndeni wakho elisha, cishe uphupha emini (njengomuntu ozoba umzali) mayelana nokuthi kuzoba njani ukuba nenja empilweni yakho. Ungase ucabange ukuhamba okude, ukuthi kufanele ufundise inja yakho zonke izinhlobo zamaqhinga apholile nokuthi njalo ebusuku kufanele uze ekhaya kumuntu okwamukela ngenjabulo emnyango.
Yebo, linda.
Nakanjani - ukuba nenja kuyinto enhle kakhulu, kodwa kunezinto ezimbalwa ongase ungazi mayelana nokuba umnikazi wezinja. Izinto ongazisho muntu kuwe.
Inja yakho izovula umhlaba omusha wama-flavour
Kodwa mhlawumbe hhayi ama-flavour ozowathanda. Umngane wakho omusha angase abe nezinto ozikhethayo ezingahambisani nezakho ngokuphelele, njengamakhasi kabhanana amadala, ama-napkin amadala noma kungani ungakhiqizi.
Inja yakho izokwenza uzizwe izinto ongakaze uzizwe ngaphambili
Futhi le mizwa ngeke ihlale iwuthando olukhulu nokuziqhenya (noma kunjalo, uzokuzwa lokhu nge). Okuzwayo kungase futhi kube iminwe yakho ekujuleni komlomo wenja ukuze uzame ukukhetha amakhasi kabhanana angenhla noma ama-napkin.
Inja yakho izohamba nawe uhambo olude
Mhlawumbe phakathi kwamabili, ngo-3 ekuseni, noma esigcawini sokugcina sochungechunge oluyintandokazi yakho. Lapho imvelo ibiza noma inja yakho inesisu esithukuthele (ngemuva kokudla into ongazange ube nayo isikhathi sokuyikhipha emlonyeni wayo), umngane wakho omusha uzohamba nawe ngezinye izikhathi okungenzeka awuzange ukhethe. Kodwa, ujabulele indawo ezungezile ebusuku. Bheka izinkanyezi. Vumela inja ithathe isikhathi sayo futhi igxile ekutheni ubudlelwano bakho buqiniswa kanjani yilokhu kuhamba ebusuku.
Inja yakho izokwenza ukuthi uthole izindawo ezintsha
Kuzofika usuku lapho uvumela inja yakho ukuba ihambe ngaphandle kwentambo bese inquma ukuthi indlela oyikhethile ayifani naleyo efuna ukuhamba ngayo. Inja ikhetha indlela entsha futhi leyo ngomlayezo. Mhlawumbe indlela ongayazi ngokugcwele. Ngethemba, unezicathulo zokugijima, ngoba uhambo lwakho lokungcebeleka luthuthuke lwaba ukugijima.
Inja yakho izokufundisa konke mayelana nokuziphatha okufanele
Njengomnikazi wezinja omusha, cishe uzoya kolunye uhlobo lwenkambo yenja ukuze inja yakho ithole izimo ezingcono kakhulu zokukhuliswa okuhle nokuba yingxenye yomphakathi esebenzayo. Noma? Akuyona inja kuphela edinga ukuqeqeshwa, kodwa nawe njengomnikazi omusha. Ngokushesha nje lapho inja yakho ithola ukuthi ukhohliseka kangakanani, ukuqeqeshwa kwangempela kuqala. Kunini lapho kufaneleka khona ukunikeza inja uswidi? Sizodlala nini? Sinini isikhathi sokuhamba ngezinyawo?
Inja yakho izovula izwe elisha lephunga
"Iphunga elinjani lelo?" umbuzo ozozibuza wona ngokuqinisekile. Kungenzeka ukuthi iphunga lizophuma enjeni noma kokuthile inja ehudule kuyo. Amakha ayinto wena nenja yakho enizodinga ukukhuluma ngayo, ngoba yini ekwenza uzizwe “wow!” ingenza inja yakho izwe "Yummy!".
Inja yakho izokufundisa ulimi olusha
Ngokushesha nje lapho inja yakho entsha idlula embundwini iya ekhaya layo elisha, uzofunda ulimi olusha - ulimi oluphakathi nendawo phakathi kwenkulumo yengane nengxoxo egelezayo eyoqondwa nguwe nenja yakho kuphela. Lolu limi luzoba olwakho ngokuphelele futhi luzohlukana ngokuphelele nemiyalelo ofuna inja yakho iyilalele.
Inja yakho izokufundisa incazelo yangempela yamagama
Ungase ucabange ukuthi “landa” kusho “thola ibhola engikuphonsele lona”. Ungase ucabange ukuthi “woza lapha” kusho “suka lapho uze lapha kimi”. Inja yakho izobheka kakhulu le miyalo njengeziphakamiso zokuthi ingenza kanjani. “Ukubuyisa” kungasho kalula nje ukuthi “Ngifuna ukukusukela!” futhi elithi “woza lapha” lingasho futhi ukuthi “hlala uthule lapho futhi ungigqolozele”.
Inja yakho izohlela isimiso sakho
Izinja ziyizilwane eziluthayo. NgoMgqibelo ekuseni, ngemva kwesonto elide lomsebenzi kanye ne-AW ngoLwesihlanu, ungase ufune ukulala futhi uthole ubuthongo obuhle. Kuthiwani uma. Inja yakho cishe inohlelo oluhluke ngokuphelele lapha. Ngokwengxenye ngoba ukulala ekuseni akuyona into yezinja. Ukusa kokulala okwamakati.
Inja yakho ihlale ilungele ukuqabulwa okumanzi
Ngisho noma umoya wakho ungekho phezulu, inja yakho ikhona, ilungele uthando. Khumbula ukuthi okunuka kabi kumuntu kungaba yizulu ekhaleni lenja. Futhi okungcono kakhulu ukuthi inja yakho ayiwazi nhlobo umoya wayo ofana nenhlanzi futhi ilindele ukuqabula okukhulu okumanzi kuwe!
Inja yakho izohlala ikhona ukuze ilalele (noma ukuzenza noma kunjalo)
Uma kungekho omunye umuntu ozolalela uma ukhononda ngosuku lwakho olubi, noma uma utshela mayelana nokwengeza kwakho kwakamuva eqoqweni lakho lenja yobumba, noma ngesikhathi obone ngaso usaziwayo ongu-C esitolo segrosa - khona-ke inja yakho ikhona futhi ukulalela kwakuloya wonke amagama.
Inja yakho iyohlale iyizaba ezinhle
“Kufanele ngihambe nenja”, “inja idinga ukudla”. Woza. Wukuvuma nje. Usuzizwile vele lezi zaba ezivela komunye umnikazi wezinja oweqa ephathini yakho. Kodwa, siyakuhalalisela! Manje usukwazi nokufinyelela ku-artillery entsha yezaba uma ufuna ukuya ekhaya kusenesikhathi uvela ephathini, noma uma ufuna ukuvala ucingo endlebeni yomngane wakho ongakwazi ukuyeka ukulokhu ebelesela mayelana nokwengezwa okusha eqoqweni lakhe lenja yobumba.
Inja yakho izogcina zonke izimfihlo zakho
Ngeke kudingeke ukuthi uyale inja yakho ukuthi "ungatsheli muntu". Zonke izimfihlo zakho zizogcinwa kahle phakathi kwalezo zindlebe ezincane ezinoboya. Futhi okungcono nakakhulu ukuthi inja yakho ayinandaba ngempela ukuthi iyini imfihlo yakho enkulu - njengoba imfihlo yakho ayikho lapho ufihla khona uswidi wenja.
Inja yakho izonikeza igama elithi "okungenamibandela" incazelo entsha ngokuphelele
Inja yakho izokuthanda ngaphandle kwemibandela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubukeka kanjani, ukuthi ukusiphi isimo sengqondo, noma ukuthi amahlaya akho ahlakaniphe kangakanani. Inja yakho izocabanga ukuthi ungumuntu opholile, opholile, omangalisayo kakhulu ongahamba ngezicathulo. Akekho ongalinganisa nawe. Ngenxa yokuthi wena nenja yakho nizoba abangane abakhulu, uzokwenza konke ongakwenza ukuze ube umuntu inja yakho ecabanga ukuthi unguye futhi uzame ukuthanda inja ngendlela ekuthanda ngayo. Uzophumelela, kodwa ungakhathazeki uma ungahlangabezani nezidingo nsuku zonke. Phela ungumuntu nje.