UMary Allen
#10 Thola usizo kuchwepheshe
Uma kungasebenzi nhlobo futhi kungasizi lutho, thola usizo kumqeqeshi wezinja onguchwepheshe. Angakuqondisa ngqo ukuthi usabele nini futhi kanjani ukuze umise ukukhonkotha.
#11 Inja yakho ikhonkotha kuphi kubantu ongabazi?
Cabangela isikhathi lapho inja yakho iqala ukukhonkotha.
Uma enza lokhu ngezinye izikhathi, kungabaluleka ukuthola ukuthi yini ehlukile kunokujwayelekile. Uma ekhonkotha eduze kwefulethi noma indlu, khona-ke ufuna ukuvikela impahla/indawo yakhe.
Uma ehlale ekhonkotha uma ehlangana nabantu angabazi ekhaya nasendleleni, ubabona bewusongo.
#12 Thola i-trigger
Inja yakho ibingalokhu ikhonkotha abantu ongabazi? Bese ucabanga ukuthi kwenzeka nini okokuqala. yini ehlukile Ingabe kwakukhona i-trigger? Ingabe kwakukhona umuntu othile? Ingabe wavuzwa ngokunganaki ngokukhonkotha? Ingabe muva nje kube nengozi ehilela abantu?
Okubalulekile: ungaguquguquki
Uma uqeqesha nge-retriever yakho yegolide, kubalulekile ukuthi ukuxhumana kwakho kuhambisane. Kuzothatha isikhathi ukuthi inja yakho iguqule indlela eziphatha ngayo, kuye ngokuthi ijule kangakanani le nto yokungaziphathi kahle. Ungalindeli ukuthi kwenziwe ekujima okukodwa noma okubili.
Kodwa-ke, uma wenza ukuqeqeshwa ngokungaguquki nangesikhathi eside, uzobona imiphumela emihle kakhulu phakathi namasonto nezinyanga.