UMary Allen
Ukuqonda abangani bethu abathambile kwesinye isikhathi kunzima kakhulu. Ikakhulukazi uma ukuziphatha kwenja kungavamile.
Lokhu kuziphatha okuyishumi kungaba izimpawu zokuthi inja yakho iyakwesaba.
Inombolo yesishiyagalolunye kuphela ochwepheshe bezinja beqiniso bayibona njengophawu lokwesaba!
Inja yakho ihlohla umsila
Inja enhle engenakhaya eyesabayo enamehlo abukekayo amnandi ehamba epaki lasehlobo. Inja ephuzi ekhangayo enemizwa edabukisayo ethukile endaweni yokukhosela. umqondo wokutholwa.
Kunesizathu esenza ukuthi isisho esithi “tuck your tail” sisetshenziswe uma umuntu esaba okuthile.
Uma izinja zethukile, zidonsa imisila phakathi kwemilenze yazo. Kwesinye isikhathi kuze kube manje kuze kuthinte nesingezansi.
Uma inja yakho yenza lokhu kakhulu eduze kwakho, ingase ikwesabe.
Inja iyashwabana
Lapho sesaba, singathanda ukungabonakali ukuze kungabikho muntu ongasilimaza.
Ngisho nezinja zizenza zibe zincane lapho zizizwa zingalondekile. Zivame ukugoqa emibhedeni yazo noma emakhoneni.
Lokhu kuziphatha kuvame ukubonwa ngobusuku obandulela uNcibijane lapho iziqhumane eziqhuma phezulu zithusa inja.
Wabeka izindlebe
Ngokungafani nabantu, izinja zingasonta futhi zihambise izindlebe zazo ezinhlangothini ezahlukene, isibonelo ukuze zizwe kangcono imisindo evela ezinhlangothini ezahlukene.
Uma inja ibhakuzisa izindlebe zayo, kusho ukuthi iyazithoba noma izizwa isongelwa.
Kunoma ikuphi, kungase kube uphawu lokuthi uyethusa inja yakho.
Umlomo omude uqhekeke
Uma umlomo wenja yakho uvaliwe kodwa izindebe zakhe zihlehliswe, lokhu kungase futhi kube uphawu lokwesaba.
Inja ekhululekile ngokuvamile inomlomo ovuleke kancane.
Uma inja yakho ibonisa lesi simo sobuso ngisho nalapho usekhaya, cishe ayizizwa kahle.
Inja yakho igwema ukuthintana nawe emehlweni
Izinja zigqolozelana emehlweni, ziphonsela inselelo yokulwa.
Uma inja yakho igwema ukuthintana nawe emehlweni, ingase yesabe ukuthi ungase uyihlasele.
Kulokhu, kufanele usebenze ebuhlotsheni nomngane wakho onemilenze emine ukuze angabe esakwesaba.
Inja iyakugwema
Uma inja yakho igcina ibanga elide ukusuka kuwe futhi izama ukukugwema eduze kwendlu, kungenzeka ukuthi uyayesabisa.
Ungasondeli enja yakho ngokucindezela, kodwa zama ukuyibonisa ukuthi awufuni ukuyilimaza.
Uma ukwesaba kuhamba, uzosondela kuwe yedwa.
Amehlo akhe avuleke
Uma umngane wakho onoboya ngokuvamile cute kangaka amehlo nabanzi evulekile, lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi uyesaba.
Ikakhulukazi uma ubona ngisho amhlophe emehlweni, uyazi ukuthi uyesaba.
Uma ekugqolozele noma ekuhlahle amehlo kodwa ejikise ikhanda, kungenzeka ukuthi uyimbangela yokwesaba kwakhe.
Ukuthuthumela, ukushuba kanye nokuqina
Ukuqhaqhazela kusho into efanayo kokubili ezinjeni nakubantu. Kuphakathi kokuthi siyagodola noma siyesaba.
Ngisho nenja ebonakala iqinile noma iqinile ingase yesabe.
Uma lokhu kwenzeka njalo enjeni yakho, kungenzeka ukuthi wenza ngendlela eyethusayo.
Inja yakho ikhuthele kakhulu
Lesi sibonakaliso kunzima ukusichaza ngoba singasho nokuthi inja ijabule futhi ijabule.
Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukunaka lokho okushiwo isimo sobuso benja nomzimba wakhe.
Uma inja yakho igijima igxumagxuma, ungayithusa futhi izozama ukubaleka.
Ukukhonkotha okukhulu, ukuklabalasa, noma ukugquma
Ukukhonkotha nokugquma kuthathwa ngokushesha njengezimpawu zolaka. Nokho, ngokuvamile imbangela yalolu dlame ukwesaba.
Inja yakho ingase ibe nomuzwa wokuthi idinga ukuzivikela phambi kwakho.
Ukukhala nakho kungaba wuphawu lokwesaba.